Imagine being a bartender and having to navigate the tricky waters of serving alcohol to customers. Now, imagine one of those customers is visibly pregnant. What would you do? In this story, a head bartender (23 F) finds herself in a heated conflict with a coworker, Annie (19 F), over whether or not to serve a pregnant woman a glass of red wine. The drama unfolds, and the consequences are shocking.
Pregnant Woman Walks Into a Bar

Enter Annie, the Concerned Bartender ♀️

Annie Refuses to Serve

The Head Bartender Steps In

Annie’s Anger Ignites

Annie Confronts the Head Bartender

Other Staff Members React ️

The Head Bartender’s Response ♀️

Privacy Matters

Annie’s Tirade Continues

Enough is Enough

Annie Gets Fired

Feeling Guilty?

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A Dramatic Showdown Over a Glass of Wine
When a pregnant woman enters a bar and orders a glass of red wine, a young bartender named Annie refuses to serve her, sparking a heated debate with the head bartender. The head bartender, fearing a discrimination lawsuit, serves the woman, but Annie is outraged and calls her a ‘baby killer.’ For two weeks, Annie continues to berate the head bartender, who eventually reports her to the general manager. Annie is fired, and the head bartender is left questioning her actions. Was it right to serve the pregnant woman, or should they have stood their ground? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Defending pregnant woman’s right to a glass of wine

Supportive comment defending bartender’s decision and women’s choice.

Respecting a woman’s choice to drink during pregnancy.

Insightful reply defends bartender’s firing with NTA acronym.

Bartender made the right call by not serving possibly pregnant customer

Bartender educated on discrimination and pregnancy, coworker needs lesson.

Debating pregnancy and alcohol consumption in different cultures

Fired bartender deemed unreliable and hostile. NTA.

Defending the bartender’s decision to refuse service to a customer

Discrimination and drama over a glass of red wine

Bartender in the right, could face discrimination suit.

Can you really tell if someone is pregnant?
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Pregnant people’s food choices are none of your business

Supportive comment defending bartender’s actions and refuting pregnancy assumptions.

Serving alcohol to pregnant women: ethical dilemma or personal choice?

Customer’s choice, bartender fired for unrelated reasons. NTA wins.

Denying a drink based on an assumption is not acceptable.

NTA – Don’t judge someone based on appearance or medical history.

Bartender not at fault for pregnant customer’s firing

Pregnancy doesn’t mean a woman loses her body autonomy

Defending pregnant woman’s right to a glass of wine

Bartender not wrong for serving alcohol to possibly pregnant woman

Customer entitlement sparks debate on service refusal policies

Woman mistaken for pregnant gets revenge on rude customer

Customer’s choice or bartender’s responsibility? NTA says no policing.

Bartender’s co-worker shames pregnant customer for 1 glass of wine
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Bartender’s duty is to serve everyone, not police their beliefs.

Bartender not responsible for policing pregnant customers

Pregnant woman defends drinking wine, soft cheese, and sushi. NTA.

Pregnancy or liver failure? NTA for bartender’s caution

Respecting customer’s choices: Pregnant women can have wine too

Bar staff’s assumption of pregnancy can be harmful

Pregnant woman self-medicating with alcohol gets cops called on her

Bartender fired for refusing pregnant customer. Commenter says NTA.

Defending against harassment and questioning zero-alcohol policy during pregnancy.

Bartender defends serving pregnant customer, calls out ignorance.

Debate over drinking during pregnancy and gatekeeping alcohol consumption.

New mom shares relatable experience, commenter supports her – NTA

When chubby looks pregnant

When small talk goes wrong ♂️

Refusing alcohol to pregnant women: substance shaming or safety measure?

Woman not pregnant, moderate wine okay, customer abusive. NTA.
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Empathetic comment about pregnancy challenges.

Pregnant women deserve privacy and autonomy. Stop policing their bodies.

NTA commenter hilariously shuts down Annie’s stupidity

Drinking red wine while pregnant: harmless or harmful?

Pregnancy is not always obvious. NTA for refusing alcohol.

Standing up for pregnant women, NTA comment wins hearts ❤️

Pregnant customer reported for harassment, bartender not at fault
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Bartender not at fault for serving alcohol to pregnant woman?

Let her drink, it’s not your business. Don’t take abuse.

Customer’s history of behavior leads to her own downfall. NTA.

OP was NTA for reporting Annie’s unprofessional behavior

Pregnant customer refused service, bartender fired. Commenter supports decision.

Cheers to that! One glass won’t hurt the baby

Bartender fired for refusing pregnant customer. Comment defends decision.

NTA bartender praised for minding their own business

Pregnant women have agency and can make decisions . Bartender was out of line

Pregnant woman denied alcohol: commenter supports bartender’s decision.

Bartender refused to serve pregnant-looking lady, but was she right?

Support for pregnant woman’s choice against public judgement.

Bartender rightfully respects pregnant customer’s decision to drink alcohol
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Bartender’s refusal to serve pregnant woman sparks debate on individual choice

Fired bartender was NTA, violated law and berated customer

Defending the bartender’s actions with NTA judgement and reasoning.

Pregnancy is already complicated, let’s not make it worse. ❤

Bartender fired for refusing pregnant customer. Commenter says NTA.

Fired for insubordination, not refusing service. Fair decision?

Pregnant women drinking wine: cultural differences and norms

Bartender not wrong for refusing, but holding onto it is unprofessional

Pregnant woman defends right to have a glass of wine

Empathy for medical conditions and the impact of refusal policies

Firing a bartender for volatile behavior towards a customer?

Body shaming and assumptions are never okay. NTA.

Defending occasional wine during pregnancy, commenter is NTA.
