Imagine being asked to bake your brother’s wedding cake, only to find out that he wants to vlog the entire process for his YouTube channel! That’s exactly what happened to one woman, who agreed to make the cake for her brother’s big day, but wasn’t thrilled when he insisted on filming her. With a toddler and husband at home, she felt uncomfortable with the idea of being filmed and decided to back out. But did she make the right decision? Read on to find out!
A YouTube Love Story
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The Cake Request
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The Unexpected Twist
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Hold Up, What?
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Brother’s True Intentions
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No Filming, No Cake
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Apology Not Accepted
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Family Drama Ensues
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Pressure From All Sides
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Husband’s Support ❤️
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To Bake or Not to Bake: The Wedding Cake Dilemma ♀️
So, our conflicted baker is caught in a tough spot. While she initially agreed to bake her brother’s wedding cake, she didn’t sign up for being filmed in the process. Her brother’s insistence on vlogging the cake-making has left her feeling uncomfortable and unwilling to take part. With her family pressuring her to give in and her husband supporting her decision, it’s hard to say who’s in the right. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
Baker refuses to be filmed for free, NTA. Brother TA.
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NTA. YouTuber’s sneaky vlogging for fame is gross. Make own cake.

NTA commenter calls out entitled brother’s wedding cake request

NTA for refusing to bake brother’s wedding cake on camera

NTA. Brother is selfish, sister-in-law is entitled. Epic AH move suggested.

Baker sets boundaries and offers solution to entitled brother’s vlogging demands
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NTA. Vlogging without consent is a shitty move

NTA stands up for personal boundaries and integrity in filming

Baker asked to compromise on filming brother’s wedding cake

NTA for not baking cake after manipulative apology and lashing out

Baker refuses to make wedding cake for ungrateful groomzilla.

Privacy matters, even if your brother is a vlogger.

Family pressure to make cake for vlogging brother? NTA stands firm.

Baker refuses to make cake for brother’s wedding for vlogging?

Former baker says brother is a dick for using him as a prop

NTA stands firm against vlogging brother. Store-bought cake recommended.

Miscommunication and insults, NTA for not wanting to be filmed.

Baker suggests filming cake-making for ratings, refuses to participate.

Baker backs out of brother’s wedding cake due to videography demands. NTA.

Respect your boundaries and say no to invasive vlogging. #NTA
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Sister stands up for herself against entitled brother’s fans

Communication is key: NTA should have been consulted beforehand

Uninvited guest and rude behavior – NTA comment section

NTA, but film bakery visit to explain not baking cake

NTA – Short and sweet, no need for explanation

Baker refuses to film brother’s wedding cake, offers compromise. NTA

Baker refuses to make brother’s wedding cake for vlog, NTA.

Sibling tries to steamroll baker into doing something else. NTA

Gift turned selfish for social media? NTA stands out.

Keeping promises is important, but setting boundaries is necessary.

Standing firm on values: kudos to NTA baker

Sibling drama: NTA, you don’t owe him a cake

Honesty is the best policy for wedding cake requests.

NTA for refusing to bake brother’s wedding cake for vlogging.

Changing the terms of agreement is not acceptable. NTA

Vlogging real life includes disappointment and frustration. NTA.

Baker accused of bait-and-switch for brother’s wedding cake

Commenter defends baker’s decision, calls out entitled behavior.

Baker refuses to make wedding cake for vlogging brother. NTA.

Sister chooses family over vlogging in wedding cake debacle

NTA. Influencers are a disgrace

Family relationships vs. vlogging: NTA but be generous

Communication is key!

Baker stands their ground against entitled brother’s vlogging demands.

Baker stands up to manipulative brother’s exploitative vlog demands.

Baker backs out of brother’s wedding cake due to last-minute changes ♂️. Commenter advises not to share texts on social media.

Baker backed out of brother’s wedding cake. NTA for refusing.

Baker stands firm against entitled brother’s wedding cake request

Brother demands wedding cake for views, NTA for backing out

Malicious compliance: make plain cake, don’t let them film. NTA.

NTA calls commenter a b*tch, won’t attend wedding
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When trolling goes too far: Fans attack family on post

Demanding YouTube royalties for cake videos? NTA strikes back!

Living for likes? Not this commenter! NTA wins.

Costco cakes > family drama

Baker refuses to make free wedding cake for brother’s vlog. NTA.

Short and to the point.

Bridezilla’s brother demands too much for online clout. NTA.

Walmart has cake: a simple solution to wedding drama

“Baker has the right to decline being filmed at wedding”

Baker refuses brother’s wedding cake, suggests fan-made cake. NTA.

Vlogger treats family as tokens for content, called someone b*tch. NTA

Sibling’s vlogging fame shouldn’t force you to bake his wedding cake ♂️

Publix cake decorator calls out groom’s entitlement and excuses.
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Helping out an already stressed person, who is an a**hole will still be viewed favorably in the future

Black Mirror vibes in the comments

Baker offers to make wedding cake if brother apologizes

Consent waivers and a cake gift – NTA wins!
