Friendships can be complicated, especially when sensitive topics like infertility are involved. In a group of six women, one friend (let’s call her Amy) has been struggling with infertility for the past four years. The group has been careful to separate kid-related chats from their main group chat, but tensions have been rising due to Amy’s reactions to pregnancy and kid-related topics. Now, Amy has finally become pregnant and asked another friend (let’s call her the narrator) to throw her a baby shower. But after feeling hurt by Amy’s past actions, the narrator is hesitant to oblige.
The Group Chat Dilemma
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Amy’s Struggles and Silence
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The Unexpected Confrontation
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Breastfeeding Incident
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Amy’s Reaction and Fallout
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The Apology and Response
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Friendship on Pause ⏸️
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Reconciliation and Revelation
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Amy’s Pregnancy Announcement
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The Baby Shower Dilemma
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The Narrator’s Plan
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The Ultimate Test of Friendship: Baby Shower Showdown
As the group of friends navigates the delicate balance between supporting Amy’s infertility struggles and maintaining their own lives as parents, tensions rise. From group chat dilemmas to breastfeeding incidents, the friendship has been put to the test. Now, with Amy’s pregnancy announcement and request for a baby shower, the narrator must decide if she can put her hurt feelings aside and support her friend. Will the baby shower bring them closer together or drive them further apart? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Infertility is tough, but doesn’t excuse bad behavior. ♀️

Friend demands baby shower after being toxic and selfish. NTA.
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NTA comment sparks agreement and personal anecdotes about self-centered friend.

Commenter shares experience with infertility and calls out friend’s narcissistic behavior.

NTA. Friend’s infertility struggles don’t give her right to censor.

Infertility struggles can cause high expectations for baby celebrations. NTA.

Infertility struggle shared with empathy, but one comment goes off-topic.

Supportive comment encourages update on Amy’s motherhood and friendship.

Breastfeeding and occasional kid talk is normal. NTA for OP.
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Stand your ground, you don’t owe her anything ♀️

Stand up for yourself! You don’t owe her anything.

Friend’s infertility struggles strain relationship over baby shower.

Compassionate response to friend’s infertility outburst.

Friend’s entitlement and blaming others for her problems. NTA.

Navigating friendship and infertility struggles can be difficult.

Consider honesty with friend, but NTA for not throwing party

Honesty is the best policy. You might be dodging a bullet

Compassionate response to friend’s infertility sparks controversy. NTA.

Friend’s infertility doesn’t justify her selfish behavior. #NTA

Honesty is key, NTA for not participating in baby shower

Friend’s infertility struggles don’t justify her being a jerk

Friend’s infertility struggles don’t excuse her rude behavior. NTA.

Breastfeeding vs. Infertility: Who’s at Fault?

NTA defends decision not to throw baby shower for friend with infertility

Infertility struggles don’t mean you can’t celebrate others’ joy

Misreading the comment led to a hilarious misunderstanding

Witty response to baby shower invite sparks NTA judgement
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Friend’s infertility struggles strain relationship, but still valued as friend ❤️

Infertility support groups can sometimes do more harm than good

Mom-shaming defense with a sassy tone. You go, mom!

Suggests meeting in-person to resolve friend’s hurtful comments

Commenter is not the a**hole in this situation

Dumping a friend over infertility struggles?

Compassionate response earns NTA judgment. Communication is key

Etiquette lesson: Don’t demand a baby shower, wait for offers

NTA. Infertility is painful but not a reason to treat people badly

NTA. Friend’s infertility struggles don’t excuse her ridiculous behavior.

Friend’s infertility struggles cause rift in friendship. NTA for parenting.

Ending a toxic friendship, even with infertility, is NTA
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Friendship tested by infertility struggles sparks online drama NTA
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Friend’s infertility struggles don’t justify controlling others’ lives. #NTA

Friend’s infertility struggles cause tension at baby shower planning. NTA.

NTA suggests cancelling baby shower due to pandemic

Infertility is tough, but expecting friends to not have kids around is ridiculous ♀️

Honesty is the best policy: NTA, but tell her kindly
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Infertility struggles lead to friend’s baby shower drama. NTA.

NTA shuts down toxic behavior, empathizes with child.

Can’t decide if this is a genuine question or sarcasm

Friendship turned sour over baby shower and social media posts ♀️

Friend’s hurt feelings over baby feeding makes her the a**hole

NTA comment shuts down friend’s selfish behavior

Infertility struggles don’t justify making others’ lives her problem. NTA

NTA comment shuts down selfish mommy behavior

Friend’s infertility struggles spark nasty controversy
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Friend’s infertility struggles cause baby shower drama. NTA for refusing.
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Friend’s infertility struggles spark baby shower drama. NTA stands out.

NTA for not wanting to throw a party for a difficult friend

NTA stands for Not The A-hole, but who are the assholes?

When reading goes wrong ♀️

Breastfeeding shaming? Not cool. NTA stands their ground
