Baby names can be a source of joy, celebration, and sometimes, intense family drama. For one couple, what started as a loving tribute to a beloved grandparent quickly escalated into a heated debate that divided their family. The husband wanted to honor his late grandpa by naming their unborn child after him. But there was one tiny problem – their last name, Bounde, combined with the proposed first name, could potentially remind people of a notorious serial killer.
A Tribute to Grandpa
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The Name Dilemma
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A Potential Nightmare
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The Heated Argument
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The Family Feud
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A Name with Unfortunate Associations
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A Point Proven
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A Final Decision
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A Path Forward
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A Baby Name, A Family Feud, and A Path Forward
A couple’s joy of expecting their first child quickly turned into a heated debate over the baby’s name. The husband’s desire to honor his late grandpa by naming their child after him led to a family feud, as the wife pointed out the unfortunate association their last name, Bounde, could have with the notorious serial killer, Ted Bundy. Despite the emotional rollercoaster, the couple found a compromise, deciding to give their baby boy grandpa’s middle name, Silas. They’ve also decided to seek counseling, showing that even in the midst of conflict, love and understanding can help navigate the stormiest waters.
NTA, don’t name your kid Ted Bundy!

Naming a child after Ted Bundy? Not the best choice.

Sharing a name with a serial killer? NTA. Nightmare situation!

NTA. One no = NO. Neither parent should have to compromise.

NTA. Husband’s tribute to grandpa’s name is impractical and insensitive.

NTA: Gramps’ middle name and Theodora as an alternative?

NTA. Naming after serial killer? Consider Theo or Thea instead.

“NTA The kid is going to get bullied.” Give the kid YOUR LAST NAME.

NTA. Hilarious suggestion to handle the ‘Ted Bundy’ name dilemma!

“Naming your child after a serial killer? Prepare for judgment.”

Using grandpa’s middle name as the child’s middle name is a great compromise!

Don’t name the child Teddy Bounde! Not the a**hole.

NTA – Implement the ‘two yes one no’ rule. Honor grandpa without risking teasing.

NTA for considering your child’s future, but maybe rethink approach.

NTA: Childhood name stigma, bullying, and angsty teenage years.

“Naming a child Ted Bundy? Are you NTA or ESH?”

Naming your kid Ted Bundy? Mega NTA! Please reconsider!

NTA – Husband’s name choice questioned, suggests honoring with middle name.
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“Naming your kid Ted Bundy? Grade A a**hole move.”

Choosing a baby name: honoring family vs avoiding trouble

Naming baby after grandpa? NTA. A serial killer’s name?
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Naming dilemma: Grandpa’s legacy or child’s potential ridicule?

Naming your child after a serial killer? NTA, shut it down!

Avoid Ted as a baby name. It’s associated with evil.

NTA. Husband’s blind honor guarantees therapy for unborn child.
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Choose a middle name to keep distance from ‘Teddy’

An Indian Redditor explains why they wouldn’t choose this name

NTA. True crime vibes and compromise for baby name dilemma.

A clever solution for honoring grandpa without causing a nightmare! ✨
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Defending OP’s decision to stand their ground against criticism. ✊

NTA: Hilarious reaction to a questionable baby name choice!

Compromise on the name? NTA suggests a middle name solution.

Naming the baby after grandpa: A heartfelt tribute or a nightmare?

Naming your child after a beloved relative: a beautiful honor?

Avoid naming your kid Ted Bounde, they might change it.

Creative solutions for honoring grandpa without the nickname dilemma! ✨

Consider giving the baby your last name for a compromise.

Avoiding Teddy Bounde as a baby name to prevent bullying

NTA. Hubby’s grieving, but both parents should have a say.

Naming a child after a deceased grandpa: thoughtful or burdensome?

Naming your child after a grandparent: sweet tribute or potential nightmare?

NTA. Unfortunate timing, but strangers won’t understand the homage paid.

NRTA! Alvin Theodore Bounde: A Chipmunk Tribute Name! ️

“Inappropriate” choice sparks debate. Last name solution suggested. NTA

NTA. Ted Bundy association. Consider Dora and Theo instead!

Naming your child after a serial killer? Not the a**hole!

NTA. Don’t let a great grandpa overshadow a notorious namesake.

Compromise with a middle name or nickname as a first name

Get creative with baby names to honor family members!
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NTA! Protect your child from a nightmare name experience!

Creative alternatives to honoring grandpa without naming your kid after a serial killer!
