Meet Katie and her husband, a professional athlete. They recently welcomed their first baby, and like many new parents, they’re trying to navigate the challenges of sleepless nights. However, the athlete dad insists that his sleep is crucial for his career and refuses to wake up for nighttime baby duties. The couple had agreed on this arrangement before trying for a kid, but now Katie is feeling overwhelmed and resentful. Can they find a solution that works for both of them? Let’s dive into their story and see what unfolds.
The Sleep Agreement
The Nighttime Struggle
Katie’s Frustration Builds ️
Unfairness Unveiled
Night Nurse Dilemma
Standstill Situation ⏸️
No Postpartum, Just Exhaustion
Dad’s Daytime Dedication
A Test Run Solution
Family Help Enters the Scene
The Clock is Ticking ⏰
Gratitude and Reflection
Can They Find a Sleep Solution?
As Katie’s frustration grows, the couple is at a standstill. They have a maid and meal delivery service, but nighttime baby duties remain a contentious issue. The athlete dad suggests hiring a night nurse, but Katie is hesitant to trust a stranger with their baby. A test run with the night nurse during the day seems to be a potential solution, and the dad’s sister steps in to help a couple of nights a week. With the baseball season fast approaching, they have limited time to find a solution that works for both of them. Will they be able to strike a balance? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…
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“NTA I thought this would be the normal story of the wife doing all the baby stuff, cooking, cleaning, ect. But you have a maid & food service so she mostly just does the baby stuff. And seeing as how this is the only thing you’ve told her (and made clear before even having a baby) plus giving her multiple solutions. Your definitely nta” – Engaged comment section with helpful insights!
Sleep deprivation is tough. Consider hiring a night nurse for help.
NTA, set boundaries but consider compromising for wife’s needs.
Athlete dad refuses baby duty, income relies on sport. NTA.
NTA. Dad made a fair agreement, but is there another solution?
NTA mom feels husband should help more, but has ample support ♀️
Sleep-deprived mom seeks respite from athlete dad’s baby duty negligence.
NTA for not waking up, but they need a real solution
Sleep deprivation is torture! Personal experiences shape our parenting decisions.
NTA. Mom and Dad agreed on baby duty beforehand.
Sacrificed my career for spouse’s sport, no regrets!
NAH, but wife needs care and appreciation. Talk gently
NTA. Wife needs a reality check ♂️
Finding a compromise for sleep schedules can benefit both parents.
NTA: Dad’s frustration with privileged partner sparks controversy.
Dad’s baby duty: Can he spare a few hours for mom?
Suggesting a nanny for a tired mom.
NAH: Athlete dad needs sleep, wife doesn’t trust night nurse. Family help?
NTA: Dad helps during the day, wife can nap. Fair deal!
NAH. Dad needs to step up and share baby duty.
Choosing the athlete life means accepting the challenges of parenting
NTA, but missing out on bonding time
♂️Different standards for different professions? Let’s discuss priorities!
NTA. Expecting an athlete to perform without sleep is unreasonable.
Mother describes the exhausting reality of parenting without breaks.
NTA. Both knew the deal. She has backup.
NTA. Breadwinner dad vs. slacker stay-at-home mom.
Baseball fan excited about imagining players on Reddit!
NTA, but she NEEDS help for her and the baby
NTA: Dad refuses baby duty, suggests role reversal.
Offering help, declined. NTA. It’s on her.
NTA. Dad questions wife’s role; offers alternatives for baby care.
