We’ve all had those awkward conversations with our parents, but this one takes the cake! A young woman (23F) shares a startling tale of her mother’s intrusive curiosity about her relationship. After introducing her girlfriend to her family, a seemingly innocent gathering quickly spiraled into a cringe-worthy interrogation. The mother’s unsettling questions about her daughter’s intimate life left everyone feeling uncomfortable. Just when you think you’ve heard it all, this story will make you think again!
A Warm Welcome
The Uncomfortable Question
The Shocking Response
The Persistent Inquiry
The Escalation
The Aftermath ️ ♀️
The Unsettling Revelation
The Unyielding Stance ️
The Unresolved Conflict ️ ♀️
A Mother’s Curiosity or a Blatant Invasion of Privacy?
In a tale that’s as bewildering as it is cringe-worthy, a young woman recounts her mother’s intrusive curiosity about her relationship. The mother’s unsettling questions about her daughter’s intimate life left everyone feeling uncomfortable. The situation escalated to the point where the daughter and her girlfriend felt compelled to leave. The mother’s persistence, even after they left, raises questions about boundaries and respect. It’s a story that leaves you wondering – where is the line between parental concern and invasion of privacy? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️♀️
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“NTA. This was suuuuuper cringey. Firstly, she is not entitled to information about your personal life, sex included. Can’t believe I’m typing this. Secondly, this heteronormization of homosexual relationships is just wrong. Wtf is that questipn even supposed to mean. You’re obviously **both** the woman in your relationship, duh! So I’d either go with that or ask her stupid question right back at her. Who’s the man and woman in **her** relationship? Also, even if she were oblivious to all of that. You saying you don’t care to answer this question should have been the end of it. Digging her heels in like she did and even continuing to harass you makes her the super AH.” ♀️ ️
In a same sex relationship, there is no ‘man’ role . NTA.
“NTA. Your mom’s cringeworthy question was painful to read “
“NTA, it’s none of her business. Boundaries crossed “
NTA for setting boundaries with nosy mom
Invasion of privacy: NTA stands up to nosy mom
NTA coworker’s ignorance about brother’s queer relationship
NTA. Homophobia and boundary crossing at its finest.
Helping mom understand LGBTQ+ children with educational links
Mom’s bigotry and drama: set boundaries or go low contact.
Mom’s ignorance about sex and boundaries leads to discomfort.
Mom’s inappropriate curiosity about daughter’s personal life
Playful banter about fictional characters, definitely not the a**hole.
Shutting down ignorant questions with a sassy response
Failed attempt at being homophobic and an a**hole
Engaging response to a mother’s unsettling curiosity about gender roles
Mother’s inappropriate question to gay son, he handles it perfectly
Challenging heteronormativity: Boundaries crossed and curiosity questioned.
Setting boundaries with a homophobic mom. You did the right thing!
Childhood innocence: questioning gender roles in same-sex marriages
Breaking gender roles in relationships: prime old people bs
Respecting boundaries: A mother’s acceptance and discretion
“Curiosity gone too far? Boundaries crossed with parents? “
Curiosity crossed boundaries: NTA, but Mom’s question went too far
Curiosity about roles in an uncomfortable situation
Mom’s homophobia sparks conflict. You’re not the a**hole.
NTA – Boundaries crossed: refusing to engage is healthy
Relentless, invasive questions about lesbian sex: curiosity or homophobia? NTA
NTA, it’s disturbing for her to ask such an intimate question
Creepy curiosity: Does she imagine you two in bed?
Engaging coming out story with an enlightening response
NTA. Creepy curiosity from mom, poor K for meeting her!
Laughed so hard, cola came out of my nose!
Engagingly ignorant question leads to hilarious lesbian relationship explanation
Standing up against homophobia and setting boundaries with family. NTA
Engaging response to a mother’s intrusive curiosity about lesbian sex
Privacy invasion and rudeness – a double whammy!
NTA, WTF, both women crossed boundaries. Daughter is upset.
Mom’s weird curiosity reflects lack of understanding of LGBTQ+ relationships
Curiosity killed the cat… and maybe this nosy mother too ♀️
Disturbing curiosity: Crossing boundaries in parenting
Unbelievable! Is this for real?
Who’s the man? The unsettling truth behind this comment.
Curiosity about lesbian sex dynamics sparks intriguing discussion
Cooking advice with a sprinkle of sass
Mom crossed a creepy line. NTA for feeling unsettled.
“Whose the man in the relationship?” Neither. That’s the point. ♀️ ♂️
“Neither, you know what gay means right?” – Shutting down ignorance.
NTA. Homophobic, creepy, and out of line. Play stupid games
Privacy matters! You’re NTA for setting boundaries with your mom
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Curiosity crosses boundaries: NTA comment sparks an intriguing conversation
Ew! A stupid question? Definitely not the a**hole here!
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Mother’s intrusive question sparks backlash and controversy
Homophobic mother crosses boundaries, commenter calls her out.
Mom’s intrusive curiosity crosses boundaries.
Curious but ignorant mom seeks education on gay relationships
Creepy and relatable. Narcissistic mother boundaries crossed.
Creepy dad invades privacy, siblings witness, NTA for distancing.
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Supportive commenter empathizes with OP’s homophobic mother, offers condolences.
NTA, mom crossed boundaries but may have meant well
“NTA, that’s a super invasive and low key homophobic question. “
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Protective mom calls out creepy and homophobic behavior. NTA!
NTA. Rude question, TMI! Who handles taxes?
Gay person discusses boundaries and stereotypes around sex
No a-hole here. The point is crystal clear
Curiosity about the man sparks intrigue in this section
“NTA it’s super weird and homophobic. Also, being a lesbian doesn’t mean you want to be a man “
A boundary-crossing question sparks an uncomfortable exchange
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NTA: Troll her with cringe-worthy details to make her stop
Provocative comment sparks a heated debate about gender roles
Avoiding awkward questions about sex life with your child
Who needs a “man”? A heterosexual woman speaks out!
Mom’s inappropriate question reveals possible discomfort with son’s sexuality
Boundaries crossed: NTA shares frustration with invasive questions
