We've all heard of the "nice guys." Guys who start out sweet and say they just want to get to know a girl, but as soon as she turns him down, he throws insults at her. Most women (and a lot of men) couldn't fathom ever treating someone like this. They understand that no means no.
Well, it turns out that not all women understand this.
The farthest thing from a nice guy you could possibly get. These people think if they are polite to women, it means they should get "rewarded," if you know what I mean.
She rejected her guy friend and he completely lost it. He called her names, blamed her for making him fall in love with her, etc. Awful.
This is something far too many women have experienced from strangers — and people they once called friends.
Crazy people are out there, but to treat a guy the way women despise being treated...well, it changes the dating game for everyone.
When using this dating app, you match with a lot of people, but that doesn't mean you have to talk to them all. Except Samantha didn't quite understand that.
When he did answer, he told her why he never messaged her back, and that was because he had started seeing someone.
Apparently, because he started seeing someone, that meant she wasn't worth it and it made HIM rude. I actually think he let her down in a very polite way, but that's just me.
So far, Samantha has just proven why she's probably someone to ignore. Also, I might add that the guy never told her she's not worth it, she's created this idea all on her own.
A common "nice guy" line is that they will hurt themselves if they don't get what they want, and Samantha just pulled the same crap.
You can't put makeup on an ugly heart.
This just ends up making them look like the stupid one.
She's putting words in this guy's mouth that she pulled from thin air. I don't understand how she doesn't see the issue here.
He doesn't deserve any of this, and is being way too nice to her.
She still thinks he'd ever date her? Does she think berating him with messages will help her case? There are much deeper issues here.
I'm surprised the guy hasn't deleted the app already after the abuse he encountered from Samantha.
This is why I stay off of dating apps.
