19-Year-Old Demands Payback for Mom’s Debts: Will She Get Her Due?

Imagine being a 19-year-old girl, living alone for a year, and having to deal with your mom constantly borrowing money from you. That’s the reality for this young woman who’s been financially supporting her family since she was 15, including paying for phone bills, food, and even her sister’s medicine. But when she refused to loan any more money, her mom cut her out of her life! Now, she’s considering sending an invoice to her mom and stepdad for the $550 she’s still owed. Will this bold move get her the money she deserves, or just cause more drama?

The Struggle Begins

Family Dynamics

Money Troubles Start

A Job Opportunity

Mom Sees Dollar Signs

The Borrowing Begins

Paying for the Family

Helping Out of Love

Stepdad in the Dark?

Cut Out of Her Life

The Money Owed

Broken Promises

Double Borrowing

Considering an Invoice

The Ultimate Question

Will She Get Her Money Back? ‍♀️

This 19-year-old has been financially supporting her family for years, but when she stopped lending money, her mom cut her out of her life. Now, she’s considering sending an invoice to both her mom and stepdad for the $550 she’s still owed. With her mom borrowing money from multiple sources and not paying it back, it’s no wonder she’s fed up! Will this bold move finally get her the money she deserves, or will it just cause more family drama? Let’s see what people think about this situation…

NTA, but cut your losses and don’t lend her money again

User advises to cut off lending money to mom and inform stepdad

NTA, but not worth it to pursue repayment.

Daughter confronts narcissistic mom for stealing her hard-earned money

Cutting off toxic family for a better life

Commenter gets sympathy for not getting payback from mom

NTA: Commenter suggests sending money directly to sister to avoid manipulation.

NTA seeks justice for mom’s debts, but family is powerless.

Commenter refuses to loan money to mom for sisters’ sake.

Don’t give her a cent going forward. Build a stable life

Getting justice but not the money? That’s a bummer.

Send the invoice to stepdad . Might open his eyes to mom’s behavior.

Commenter defends 19-year-old against abusive mother, calls for charges.

Valuable lesson learned: never loan money to family. Consider it a gift

Cutting off family loans: NTA’s tough but necessary decision.

Lesson learned: never loan money to users.

Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests telling family members.

NTA suggests clever tactic to get owed money from mother

NTA, commenter suggests talking to step dad for trustworthiness

NTA, but an invoice won’t solve the problem

Cut her off and bill her, but don’t expect payment

Learned a hard lesson: no loans without written agreement

Lesson learned: Don’t loan money over and over again

User empathizes with OP and asks about their dad. ‍

Letting go of debt: the key to moving forward

Learn from this cautionary tale: never lend to friends/family!

Justice served? NTA seeks payback and legal action.

Commenter defends 19-year-old’s actions in debt dispute.

NTA, but $$$ recovery unlikely.

Lesson learned: Never lend family money, especially not mom.

Parenting roles reversed: 19-year-old demands payback for mom’s debts. NTA.

Legal action may be necessary for payback. NTA.

Don’t waste time chasing the loan, consider it rent instead

Taking a stand against a toxic family dynamic.

Public go-fund-me for sisters’ medicine and let everyone know!

Cutting losses: NTA advises against lending money to family

Avoiding toxic family members: NTA but not worth the effort

Expose her to family and cut her off. NTA

NTA demands payback from abusive mom, seeks justice in court

Hold her accountable, but don’t sink to her level.

NTA commenter advises seeking counseling and warning family members.

NTA. Demand repayment, but don’t expect it. Lesson learned. Move on.

Band together with other victims to stop her scamming

Commenter advises 19-year-old to prioritize therapy over payback.

Letting go of debt: NTA comment suggests it’s not worth it.

Commenter sympathizes with OP and advises against lending more money.

Family debts and valuable lessons. Share your experiences below!

Commenter empathizes with OP and advises to move on.

Advice to move on and not lend more, not worth it

Encouraging comment about seeking therapy after financial abuse by mother.

Commenter sympathizes with OP and calls out OP’s mother.

Don’t lend money to family unless you can afford to gift

Commenter expresses concern for siblings’ well-being and receives reassuring reply

Commenter suggests cutting losses, advice not taken seriously.

NTA seeks payback from mom’s debts and considers small claims court.

Commenter supports OP but warns against expecting repayment.

Realistic advice on lending money to family members

Fight for your money! Small claims court is your best bet

NTA demands payback, but commenters advise no contact for resolution.

Empathetic comment acknowledges financial abuse by mother.

Exploitation of a minor: commenter supports OP’s actions.

Commenter advises cutting off financial support to daughter

NTA and should notify family. $550 to get her out

Don’t let debt ruin your mental health. Stay LC/NC.

Supportive advice for standing up to mom and stepdad.

Set boundaries and warn others, but don’t expect repayment

Protect your money and pay bills directly. NTA for trying.

Adult child demands payback from mom: NTA or entitlement?

Family secrets and debts: Should she tell her bio dad?

NTA demands payback from mom for illegal actions. Get your money

Commenter defends 19-year-old’s demand for payback with NTA verdict.

Commenter supports OP suing their mother for her debts.

Cut ties and learn a cheap lesson. NTA. Good luck!

Take control of your life, never loan family money again

Protecting siblings from mom’s debts, NTA for asking payback.

Daughter rightfully demands payback from selfish mother.

Stand up against financial abuse. NTA, but good luck

Don’t fall for it. If you get your money, great.

Heartwarming support for daughter demanding payback from her mother ❤️

Empathetic comment supports sending the check to negligent parents.

Posting on entitledparents, NTA refuses to pay mom’s debts.