We've all heard stories of nannies and parents having disagreements, but this one takes it to a whole new level! A mother hired a nanny to help care for her two young children, and everything seemed to be going well until the nanny started crossing some boundaries. The mom had specific rules for her kids, but the nanny had other ideas. When the mom confronted her, the nanny snapped back, eventually leading to her quitting. But who's really in the wrong here? Let's dive into this juicy story! 🍿
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This mom had specific rules for her kids, like keeping their bedrooms toy-free to promote rest. But her nanny had other ideas, going against her wishes and even snapping back when confronted. The situation escalated when the mom asked, "who's employing who here?", leading the nanny to quit her job. Now, the mom is left wondering if she was in the wrong, even though she was just trying to enforce her own rules. 🤷♀️ Let's see what people think about this intense power struggle! 💬
Nanny quits after undermining parent's authority. Commenters agree with parent's decision.
Hell_Bunny666 | Hell_Bunny666
NTA. Nanny overstepped and Op is lucky to be rid of her 😲
ghulehzombiiqueen | ghulehzombiiqueen
NTA. The nanny overstepped boundaries and the parent has final say 👍
Throwout4789 | Throwout4789
Husband thinks OP could've handled the situation better 🤔
HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors
Experienced nanny calls out boss for inappropriate behavior 😈
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NTA comment receives backlash for suggesting divorce over disagreement.
bobi2393 | bobi2393
NTA puts their foot down, fee-fees get hurted 😂
KeyserSwayze | KeyserSwayze
NTA. Nanny overstepped boundaries. Parenting is your job, not hers. 🙌
sun1079 | sun1079
Former nanny agrees with the parent's decision to let go.
missthunderthighs12 | missthunderthighs12
NTA for asserting authority. Nanny crossed boundaries, deserved termination. 😤
GreeneyedSigma | GreeneyedSigma
NTA asserts authority over insubordinate nanny. Good riddance 👏
lobsteristrash | lobsteristrash
Nanny shares insight on respecting parents' wishes when caring for kids 👨🏻🎲
read_sav | read_sav
No toys in the bedroom? 🤔 NTA commenter plans to steal idea.
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Designated play spaces are important for kids' rest. NTA.
urzulasd | urzulasd
Debate over kids' toys leads to accusations of neglect. NTA.
Cupieqt | Cupieqt
NTA. Reminded nanny she was an employee, she quit. Dodged bullet 😎
tiredblonde | tiredblonde
Setting boundaries with a nanny: NTA for reminding her who's boss 👍
LollipopGestap0 | LollipopGestap0
Nanny crosses boundaries, gets snapped at, and quits. NTA 👍
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Parenting power struggle with nanny - commenter says NTA 👍
kindcrow | kindcrow
Experienced nanny with no degree receives glowing references 👍
Jax_Cat11 | Jax_Cat11
Being on the same page is crucial for a nanny-parent team 👥
Darrhar27 | Darrhar27
Career nanny sympathizes with both sides, but nanny overstepped boundaries. NTA 👍
cmconnor2 | cmconnor2
Respect your boundaries 👍 Trash took itself out 👏
nottoday1217 | nottoday1217
Sassy reply defends employer's rules with humor 😂
SnooDingos4212 | SnooDingos4212
NTA comment receives no replies, but plenty of agreement 👍
Dszquphsbnt | Dszquphsbnt
Supportive reply encourages nanny firing for undermining employer. 💪
OliveAF | OliveAF
NTA. Employer set expectations and guidelines, nanny disregarded them. 👍
m0v00mw | m0v00mw
Assertive OP stands up to entitled nanny in NTA situation 💪
bmiyares319 | bmiyares319
Setting boundaries is fair. NTA for enforcing them. 👍
loloannd | loloannd
Former nanny explains importance of consistency and teamwork. 👥
queso4lyfe | queso4lyfe
Employee vs Boss: Who's in Charge? NTA Comment
Princesstiy | Princesstiy
Nanny overstepping and husband not backing up? 🤔
spidaminida | spidaminida
Nanny quits after boss asserts authority. NTA or ESH?
DailyTrips | DailyTrips
Parent defends firing nanny for not following directions. NTA 👍
Substantial_Pause_16 | Substantial_Pause_16
Grammar police called out, but judgment ruled NTA. 😎
super_common_name | super_common_name
NTA. A nanny's job is to enforce safe boundaries, not parent. 👬
linerva | linerva
Nanny overstepped boundaries, NTA for firing. 👏
JustYourAvarageJane | JustYourAvarageJane
Former nanny confirms not the a**hole in quitting situation 👍
pawneegauddess | pawneegauddess
Hiring a nanny is a big deal and a good one is hard to find. NTA for setting rules.
J3ebrules | J3ebrules
NTA suggests finding a new nanny. Time to start searching! 😊
Rgirl4 | Rgirl4
Consistency is key for children's upbringing. Nanny quitting justified. 👍
mference123 | mference123
Nanny quits after boss asks 'who's employing who?' 😱 NTA defends.
majesticjules | majesticjules
Parenting rules: Nanny quits after disagreement. NTA wins.
Limerick-Leprechaun | Limerick-Leprechaun
Caregiver overstepped boundaries, commenter supports OP's decision to fire. 👏
Chaotic_Newt99 | Chaotic_Newt99
Managing a nanny is hard work. NTA for standing up.
MarienMelbourne | MarienMelbourne
NTA comment defends the boss and predicts nanny's job loss 🤷
enonymousCanadian | enonymousCanadian
Nanny quits after boss asks 'who's employing who?' 😳 NTA wins.
bite_me_losers | bite_me_losers
Not the a**hole and some people never learn 🙄
Ijustwanttolookatpor | Ijustwanttolookatpor
Former nanny supports quitting, calls behavior 'extremely not okay' 🙌
the-willow-witch | the-willow-witch
NTA fires back at criticism of nanny quitting with 🔥
JohnChapter11Verse35 | JohnChapter11Verse35
Mom is NTA for expecting nanny to follow her rules.
Wsbaugh73 | Wsbaugh73
Empower mothers to assert their authority with this NTA comment.
judge1492 | judge1492
Nanny overstepped boundaries, but OP is NTA for not firing.
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Support for parent's decision to let go of nanny. 👏
gringaellie | gringaellie
Removing toys for sleep is reasonable. Nanny overstepped. #NTA 👍
brazentory | brazentory
Nanny should enforce rules, not back up parents. #NTA 😊
KatzAKat | KatzAKat
Experienced nanny (24F) supports parent's decisions, advises but never overrides.
mmbbhh96 | mmbbhh96
Employer defends decision to fire nanny for disrespect. NTA 👍
BlackLotus0991 | BlackLotus0991
Defending the nanny's decision to quit, citing child-rearing studies. 👏
hazeybop | hazeybop
Boss reminds nanny of their authority, commenter approves. NTA 👍
SauteedRedOnions | SauteedRedOnions
Parenting power struggle: Nanny quits after undermining accusations. 😍
Eevee027 | Eevee027
NTA - Your kids, your rules. No toys in the bedroom 🚫
badwolf1013 | badwolf1013
Supportive comment applauding parent's decision to fire nanny. 👏
Throwthisaway2020wah | Throwthisaway2020wah
Boss vs Nanny: Who's the real boss? NTA wins.
MorgainofAvalon | MorgainofAvalon
Nanny quits after employer reminds her of boundaries. NTA.
Serious-Cauliflower | Serious-Cauliflower
NTA. Surprising how some people think. Weird reference stories. 😅
PostalGlitter | PostalGlitter
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Sjirikil | Sjirikil
