Nanny Quits After Boss Asks 'Who's Employing Who?' 😲

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We've all heard stories of nannies and parents having disagreements, but this one takes it to a whole new level! A mother hired a nanny to help care for her two young children, and everything seemed to be going well until the nanny started crossing some boundaries. The mom had specific rules for her kids, but the nanny had other ideas. When the mom confronted her, the nanny snapped back, eventually leading to her quitting. But who's really in the wrong here? Let's dive into this juicy story! 🍿

A Nanny with Great Qualities 🌟

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Crossing Boundaries 😕

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The Toy-Free Bedroom Rule 🚫🧸

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Nanny Ignores the Rule 🤦‍♀️

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Gentle Reminders 🗣️

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Nanny Snaps Back 😠

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Hot Wheels Punishment 🚗⛔

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Nanny Disagrees 🙅‍♀️

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Undermining Mom's Authority 😤

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Confrontation Time ⚔️

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The Big Question 🤔

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Nanny Quits! 😮

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Husband Disagrees Too 🤨

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Explaining the Toy Rule 🛏️🧸

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Family Dynamics 💕

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Nanny vs. Mom: Who's the Boss? 🥊

This mom had specific rules for her kids, like keeping their bedrooms toy-free to promote rest. But her nanny had other ideas, going against her wishes and even snapping back when confronted. The situation escalated when the mom asked, "who's employing who here?", leading the nanny to quit her job. Now, the mom is left wondering if she was in the wrong, even though she was just trying to enforce her own rules. 🤷‍♀️ Let's see what people think about this intense power struggle! 💬

Nanny quits after undermining parent's authority. Commenters agree with parent's decision.

Hell_Bunny666 | Hell_Bunny666

NTA. Nanny overstepped and Op is lucky to be rid of her 😲

ghulehzombiiqueen | ghulehzombiiqueen

NTA. The nanny overstepped boundaries and the parent has final say 👍

Throwout4789 | Throwout4789

Husband thinks OP could've handled the situation better 🤔

HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors

Experienced nanny calls out boss for inappropriate behavior 😈

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NTA comment receives backlash for suggesting divorce over disagreement.

bobi2393 | bobi2393

NTA puts their foot down, fee-fees get hurted 😂

KeyserSwayze | KeyserSwayze

NTA. Nanny overstepped boundaries. Parenting is your job, not hers. 🙌

sun1079 | sun1079

Former nanny agrees with the parent's decision to let go.

missthunderthighs12 | missthunderthighs12

NTA for asserting authority. Nanny crossed boundaries, deserved termination. 😤

GreeneyedSigma | GreeneyedSigma

NTA asserts authority over insubordinate nanny. Good riddance 👏

lobsteristrash | lobsteristrash

Nanny shares insight on respecting parents' wishes when caring for kids 👨🏻‍🎲

read_sav | read_sav

No toys in the bedroom? 🤔 NTA commenter plans to steal idea.

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Designated play spaces are important for kids' rest. NTA.

urzulasd | urzulasd

Debate over kids' toys leads to accusations of neglect. NTA.

Cupieqt | Cupieqt

NTA. Reminded nanny she was an employee, she quit. Dodged bullet 😎

tiredblonde | tiredblonde

Setting boundaries with a nanny: NTA for reminding her who's boss 👍

LollipopGestap0 | LollipopGestap0

Nanny crosses boundaries, gets snapped at, and quits. NTA 👍

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Parenting power struggle with nanny - commenter says NTA 👍

kindcrow | kindcrow

Experienced nanny with no degree receives glowing references 👍

Jax_Cat11 | Jax_Cat11

Being on the same page is crucial for a nanny-parent team 👥

Darrhar27 | Darrhar27

Career nanny sympathizes with both sides, but nanny overstepped boundaries. NTA 👍

cmconnor2 | cmconnor2

Respect your boundaries 👍 Trash took itself out 👏

nottoday1217 | nottoday1217

Sassy reply defends employer's rules with humor 😂

SnooDingos4212 | SnooDingos4212

NTA comment receives no replies, but plenty of agreement 👍

Dszquphsbnt | Dszquphsbnt

Supportive reply encourages nanny firing for undermining employer. 💪

OliveAF | OliveAF

NTA. Employer set expectations and guidelines, nanny disregarded them. 👍

m0v00mw | m0v00mw

Assertive OP stands up to entitled nanny in NTA situation 💪

bmiyares319 | bmiyares319

Setting boundaries is fair. NTA for enforcing them. 👍

loloannd | loloannd

Former nanny explains importance of consistency and teamwork. 👥

queso4lyfe | queso4lyfe

Employee vs Boss: Who's in Charge? NTA Comment

Princesstiy | Princesstiy

Nanny overstepping and husband not backing up? 🤔

spidaminida | spidaminida

Nanny quits after boss asserts authority. NTA or ESH?

DailyTrips | DailyTrips

Parent defends firing nanny for not following directions. NTA 👍

Substantial_Pause_16 | Substantial_Pause_16

Grammar police called out, but judgment ruled NTA. 😎

super_common_name | super_common_name

NTA. A nanny's job is to enforce safe boundaries, not parent. 👬

linerva | linerva

Nanny overstepped boundaries, NTA for firing. 👏

JustYourAvarageJane | JustYourAvarageJane

Former nanny confirms not the a**hole in quitting situation 👍

pawneegauddess | pawneegauddess

Hiring a nanny is a big deal and a good one is hard to find. NTA for setting rules.

J3ebrules | J3ebrules

NTA suggests finding a new nanny. Time to start searching! 😊

Rgirl4 | Rgirl4

Consistency is key for children's upbringing. Nanny quitting justified. 👍

mference123 | mference123

Nanny quits after boss asks 'who's employing who?' 😱 NTA defends.

majesticjules | majesticjules

Parenting rules: Nanny quits after disagreement. NTA wins.

Limerick-Leprechaun | Limerick-Leprechaun

Caregiver overstepped boundaries, commenter supports OP's decision to fire. 👏

Chaotic_Newt99 | Chaotic_Newt99

Managing a nanny is hard work. NTA for standing up.

MarienMelbourne | MarienMelbourne

NTA comment defends the boss and predicts nanny's job loss 🤷

enonymousCanadian | enonymousCanadian

Nanny quits after boss asks 'who's employing who?' 😳 NTA wins.

bite_me_losers | bite_me_losers

Not the a**hole and some people never learn 🙄

Ijustwanttolookatpor | Ijustwanttolookatpor

Former nanny supports quitting, calls behavior 'extremely not okay' 🙌

the-willow-witch | the-willow-witch

NTA fires back at criticism of nanny quitting with 🔥

JohnChapter11Verse35 | JohnChapter11Verse35

Mom is NTA for expecting nanny to follow her rules.

Wsbaugh73 | Wsbaugh73

Empower mothers to assert their authority with this NTA comment.

judge1492 | judge1492

Nanny overstepped boundaries, but OP is NTA for not firing.

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Support for parent's decision to let go of nanny. 👏

gringaellie | gringaellie

Removing toys for sleep is reasonable. Nanny overstepped. #NTA 👍

brazentory | brazentory

Nanny should enforce rules, not back up parents. #NTA 😊

KatzAKat | KatzAKat

Experienced nanny (24F) supports parent's decisions, advises but never overrides.

mmbbhh96 | mmbbhh96

Employer defends decision to fire nanny for disrespect. NTA 👍

BlackLotus0991 | BlackLotus0991

Defending the nanny's decision to quit, citing child-rearing studies. 👏

hazeybop | hazeybop

Boss reminds nanny of their authority, commenter approves. NTA 👍

SauteedRedOnions | SauteedRedOnions

Parenting power struggle: Nanny quits after undermining accusations. 😍

Eevee027 | Eevee027

NTA - Your kids, your rules. No toys in the bedroom 🚫

badwolf1013 | badwolf1013

Supportive comment applauding parent's decision to fire nanny. 👏

Throwthisaway2020wah | Throwthisaway2020wah

Boss vs Nanny: Who's the real boss? NTA wins.

MorgainofAvalon | MorgainofAvalon

Nanny quits after employer reminds her of boundaries. NTA.

Serious-Cauliflower | Serious-Cauliflower

NTA. Surprising how some people think. Weird reference stories. 😅

PostalGlitter | PostalGlitter

Stuffed animals or blocks? The great crib toy debate 🤔

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