Imagine marrying the love of your life, only to find out years later that they've been harboring a secret that could change your entire future together. That's exactly what happened to one woman who thought she and her husband were on the same page about not having kids. Little did she know, her husband had made a life-changing promise to his brother before they even met. Now, their marriage is on the rocks, and the internet can't decide who's in the wrong. 🤔💥
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With the husband's secret out, their marriage is hanging by a thread. He's now questioning if he was in the wrong for not telling his wife about his promise to be the guardian of his niece and nephew. The internet has spoken, and they're calling him the a**hole. But is it really that simple? Should the wife be more understanding of the situation, or does she have every right to be furious? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💬🔥
OP failed to disclose deal with brother, wife's position was clear. YTA 😠
Obakewriter | Obakewriter
Man's secret promise to raise niece & nephew shakes marriage. YTA.
Flashleyredneck | Flashleyredneck
Hiding guardianship plans from spouse, YTA. Apologize and compromise.
strikingfirefly | strikingfirefly
Commenter and reply agree: YTA for guilt-tripping wife. 👎
greenbastardette | greenbastardette
Man's secret promise to raise niece & nephew shakes his marriage 😱
Tamamo_hime | Tamamo_hime
Debate over childfree marriage and guardianship agreement. YTA verdict.
DWYL_LoveWhatYouDo | DWYL_LoveWhatYouDo
OP is YTA for not telling his wife about taking in kids 😒
cinnamonoblivion | cinnamonoblivion
Secret promise causes marital conflict. Commenters judge YTA.
Madmax0412 | Madmax0412
OP called his wife 'selfish' for not wanting to take on his burden. YTA.
BertTheNerd | BertTheNerd
Miscommunication causing marital strife? Discuss expectations early on. 👨🏻💻
andsoitgoes123 | andsoitgoes123
YTA for not telling your spouse about being a guardian 🤨
AlarmingSeason2210 | AlarmingSeason2210
Not disclosing a big promise is a big YTA move 😑
SpaceGayWhoAnimates | SpaceGayWhoAnimates
Man's lie by omission causes emotional turmoil and conflict. YTA 😠
readshannontierney | readshannontierney
Man's secret promise to raise niece & nephew causes marital issues 😱
Sincerly_ | Sincerly_
Man's unspoken promise to raise niece and nephew angers wife 😠
BreyeFox | BreyeFox
OP's secret promise causes marital conflict. Commenters agree YTA 😠
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Did he forget or purposely not mention raising his niece and nephew?
yonewredditwhodis | yonewredditwhodis
YTA for not telling her. Losing a loved one is devastating 😢
ChemicalParfait | ChemicalParfait
Commenter calls out OP as the a**hole for guilt-tripping wife.
Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze
Making life-changing decisions without consulting spouse is a huge YTA 😱
HawkwingAutumn | HawkwingAutumn
Man misled wife about raising kids, expects her to do all work 😡
Roux_Harbour | Roux_Harbour
Assuming wife's consent to raise niece and nephew makes YTA 😡
12thMemory | 12thMemory
OP refuses to compromise on raising niece and nephew, called TA 😬
SoleExpression | SoleExpression
Man's agreement to raise niece & nephew shakes marriage, YTA called out.
maggienetism | maggienetism
Man's secret promise to raise niece & nephew shakes marriage 😬
avast2006 | avast2006
Man's secret guardianship promise causes marital conflict. YTA confirmed 😠
_Bisclavert | _Bisclavert
Commenter calls out OP as a**hole, no replies.
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Marriage shaken by uncle's secret promise to raise niece & nephew 😬
MarketingManiac208 | MarketingManiac208
Man wants wife to raise niece and nephew, but YTA say commenters 😱
EngineeringOwn2299 | EngineeringOwn2299
🤔 Man's secret promise to raise niece & nephew shakes marriage
Sethyria | Sethyria
Commenter acknowledges ESH, advises wife to accept or leave.
RegularStatus5 | RegularStatus5
OP's failure to disclose guardianship deal leads to marriage turmoil 😬
littlefluffbunny | littlefluffbunny
CF commenter calls out OP for lying and bullying his wife 🔥
Neither_March4000 | Neither_March4000
Deception and manipulation in marriage 🤯
cynicaldoubtfultired | cynicaldoubtfultired
Huge commitment omitted pre-marriage? YTA, apologize to wife. 😱
cubbies1016 | cubbies1016
Man's undisclosed promise to raise kids causes marital turmoil 😱
holisarcasm | holisarcasm
Man's undisclosed promise to raise niece and nephew causes marital conflict 🤯
RestaurantNo7749 | RestaurantNo7749
User calls out OP for not telling wife about promise 😱
teachingbeauty | teachingbeauty
Debate over whether not wanting kids means letting family become orphans 😕
Nautilusa | Nautilusa
Husband's promise to raise niece and nephew angers wife. YTA.
Huntokar_Goddess | Huntokar_Goddess
Child-free commenter disagrees with OP's assumption, calls him YTA. 😱
nighttimehamster | nighttimehamster
Heartfelt comment urges man to check on his brother ❤
Dizzy_Restaurant_492 | Dizzy_Restaurant_492
Marriage shaken by uncle's secret promise to raise niece and nephew 😬
dezeiram | dezeiram
Commenter calls out OP for being TA, but acknowledges wife's reaction
InternetTowers | InternetTowers
Keeping a secret promise to raise niece & nephew makes YTA
wolfpacker1983 | wolfpacker1983
Man's promise to raise niblings shakes marriage. YTA verdict.
ninaa1 | ninaa1
Man's secret promise to raise niece & nephew causes marital tension 🤷♂️
eyeball_chamberss | eyeball_chamberss
User calls out OP for expecting wife to raise niece and nephew alone. YTA 🤯
fruskydekke | fruskydekke
Commenter calls out man's manipulative behavior, deems him YTA 🤫
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Commenter calls out OP for lying to wife, internet agrees 👍
ladypuffsalot | ladypuffsalot
Did OP make a mistake? Commenters weigh in 🤔
mugaccino | mugaccino
Married childfree woman calls out uncle for secret promise. 🤯
itstheschwifschwifty | itstheschwifschwifty
Husband's secret promise to raise niece and nephew angers wife 😠
Girlwithnoprez | Girlwithnoprez
Commenter celebrates someone leaving an unpleasant situation 🙌
ParsnipPizza2 | ParsnipPizza2
Hiding a promise to raise family members causes marital trouble 😱
Wolfy-Corpse | Wolfy-Corpse
Marriage in shambles after secret promise to raise niece & nephew 😬
WhatsUpDoc666 | WhatsUpDoc666
Commenter calls out OP for not discussing major commitment with SO 🤔
OkWorking7 | OkWorking7
Commenter calls out OP for breaking promise, suggests divorce 😬
flamingodreaming | flamingodreaming
Hiding a life-altering decision? That's a deep betrayal 😱
BlurLeeLurr | BlurLeeLurr
Commenter calls out hypocrisy of wanting to raise blood relatives only 🤔
PoopEndeavor | PoopEndeavor
Hiding major decisions from spouse? YTA, communication is key 👍
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Commenter calls out OP as a huge YTA 💯
Sheleonore | Sheleonore
Commenter calls out man for being dishonest about raising kids 😠
ozzieinsanjose | ozzieinsanjose
Commenter calls out OP for lying to spouse about kids 🤨
Dammit_Janet5 | Dammit_Janet5
User calls out OP for lying and being unfair 😱
Australiaaa | Australiaaa
Man's secret promise to raise niece & nephew shakes marriage 😬
name-2-come | name-2-come
Secretly becoming a guardian without telling your spouse? YTA 😑
PlushieTushie | PlushieTushie
Keeping a secret guardianship policy from your wife? YTA 😒
Womzicles | Womzicles
Man's secret promise to raise niece & nephew shakes marriage 😬
What-is-in-a-name19 | What-is-in-a-name19
Commenter calls out OP for being TA in guardianship decision 🤨
coconutyum | coconutyum
User calls out OP for being selfish in child-rearing dispute 🤨
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Commenter calls out OP for breaking promise, marriage in jeopardy 🤮
OverlordPancakes | OverlordPancakes
OP is called out for not disclosing important information 🔍
tahseen_29 | tahseen_29
