Man calls cousin's social media presence 'pretentious' and 'weird'

What happens when teasing crosses the line? A man's comment about his cousin's academic social media presence leads to hurt feelings and a rift in their relationship. The cousin, a Ph.D. student, is accused of being pretentious and obsessed with academics, causing tension among their family. The man's comment exposes his lack of understanding of his cousin's academic pursuits and the impact of his words on her. The situation escalates, and the cousin is hurt enough to leave the gathering. The aftermath of the incident leads to a reflection on the man's part and an apology. The post reveals the dangers of passing judgment on someone's social media presence without understanding the context. The incident underscores the importance of understanding and supporting one another's passions, even if they differ from our own. The comments and reactions to the post provide insight into how people handle criticism and the importance of respectful communication in relationships.