Groom uninvites gay brother from wedding over outfit choice

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A man uninvited his gay brother and his boyfriend from his wedding after the brother planned to wear a rainbow tuxedo. The man and his fiancé thought the outfit was inappropriate and would take attention away from them. The brother accused him of being homophobic, but the man denied it. After a heated argument, the brother and his boyfriend were uninvited. The family is now divided, and the man is wondering if he was in the wrong. An update reveals that the brother has bipolar disorder and was in a bad place. The man regrets his decision and wishes he had let his brother wear the tuxedo. Read on to find out how the story unfolds.

Brother uninvited gay sibling to his wedding for being gay 🏳️‍🌈

yrboiduck | yrboiduck

Brother uninvited from wedding over rainbow tuxedo choice 😔

yrboiduck | yrboiduck

Groom uninvites gay brother and his boyfriend from wedding 🤵‍♂️👬

yrboiduck | yrboiduck

Groom faces backlash after uninviting gay brother from wedding 🌈

yrboiduck | yrboiduck

Groom defends uninviting gay brother over dress code 👕

yrboiduck | yrboiduck

Brother's boyfriend doesn't want drama over wedding outfit controversy 💼

yrboiduck | yrboiduck

Brother's bipolar disorder led to wedding invite debacle 😔

yrboiduck | yrboiduck

Regretful groom wishes he'd let gay brother wear tuxedo 😔👔

yrboiduck | yrboiduck

Groom regrets uninviting gay brother over outfit choice, offers olive branch

yrboiduck | yrboiduck

Groom uninvites gay brother for wearing rainbow tuxedo 💫🏻🌈

A groom uninvited his gay brother and his boyfriend from their wedding after his brother planned on wearing a rainbow tuxedo to the event. The groom and his fiancé deemed the outfit inappropriate and believed it would take attention away from them. However, after uninviting them, the groom's brother accused him of being homophobic. It turns out the groom's brother has been struggling with bipolar disorder and the situation caused him to go into a mental episode. The groom now feels terrible about the situation, and wishes he had allowed his brother to wear the tuxedo. Some family members are refusing to attend the wedding due to the situation. Read on for comments and reactions.

NTA. Rainbow tuxedo would take attention away from bride. Brother's being unreasonable.

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When you try to reason with someone but they won't listen 🤷‍♂️

stinaaa123 | stinaaa123

Celebrate your love, but be the bigger person. 🌈💕

[deleted] | [deleted]

Wedding is not the place for a statement outfit. NTA.

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Bisexual commenter agrees NTA, brother wants attention 🤦🏽‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Brother wants to peacock hard at his own wedding?

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Gay man defends OP's decision to uninvite brother from wedding.

JCWa50 | JCWa50

Dress code drama: NTA uninvites gay brother from wedding 👔❌🏳️‍🌈

Volcanic_orange | Volcanic_orange

Supportive response to wedding dress code for queer community 🌈

UnicornCackle | UnicornCackle

Setting universal rules is not bigotry 🚫🏳️‍🌈

domerjohn15 | domerjohn15

Commenter defends groom's decision to uninvite gay brother from wedding.

ExcellentWaffles | ExcellentWaffles

Wedding attire controversy - Commenter supports groom's decision.

Reasonable_racoon | Reasonable_racoon

Wedding dress code specified black and white, not attention grabbing outfits. NTA.

hey-demons-its-me-ya | hey-demons-its-me-ya

Support for NTA comment, but others disagree 🤷‍♂️

Isabi1025 | Isabi1025

Standing firm on dress code: NTA for uninviting brother 👏

DarkAthena | DarkAthena

NTA defends uninviting gay brother over outfit choice.

sreno77 | sreno77

Rainbow tuxedos are only appropriate for pride and weddings 💍🏳️‍🌈

the_drowners | the_drowners

A colorful compromise for a formal wedding 🌈👔

midlifeducation | midlifeducation

Compromise is key 🤝 Finding a way to meet halfway

stinstin555 | stinstin555

Commenter defends uninviting gay brother from wedding, citing dress code.

yeehaw3339 | yeehaw3339

Clearing the air: Groom uninvites gay brother over outfit choice.

lipstickandlimes | lipstickandlimes

Setting boundaries for your wedding day is important, NTA 🌈

chriswillar | chriswillar

Wedding drama: Groom uninvites gay brother over outfit choice. 😬

Vampire_queen94 | Vampire_queen94

Rainbow tux may be cool, but not for someone else's wedding 🌈💍

KingNyar | KingNyar

Rainbow tuxedo receives negative review from commenter 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Curious Redditor wants to see the infamous rainbow tux 👀🌈

CantChangeThisLater0 | CantChangeThisLater0

Supportive commenter advises groom to stand his ground. 👍

Sean-broken-666 | Sean-broken-666

Support for groom's decision to uninvite gay brother 🏳️‍🌈👬

National-Zombie3303 | National-Zombie3303

Sassy response shuts down tacky-phobic groomzilla 🙅‍♀️💅

TXGunslinger419 | TXGunslinger419

Wedding attire can be tricky, but advice on homophobia is unnecessary 😒

kl987654321 | kl987654321

Wedding day, couple's choice. But is it ever okay?

anxiousjellybean | anxiousjellybean

Stand your ground and don't tolerate petulant behavior 🙅‍♂️

Rohlf44 | Rohlf44

Insensitive comment dismissing homophobia, suggest petty retaliation. 😒

Pettyfan1234 | Pettyfan1234

Standing up against manipulation tactics and calling out wrong behavior 👍

faust141 | faust141

Opinions divided: NTA for uninviting brother over outfit choice 🤔

bertiebastard | bertiebastard

Commenter supports groom's decision to uninvite gay brother.

AnnaCavallaro | AnnaCavallaro

Resentful comment denouncing activism, lacks empathy and inclusivity 🤦🏻‍♀️

funsk8mom | funsk8mom

Support for NTA in brother's bipolar episode 🤝

PsychologicalBack983 | PsychologicalBack983

Understanding the link between bipolar disorder and outfit choices 🌈

erratic_stability | erratic_stability

Setting boundaries and respecting dress codes - NTA comment

Ajailyn22 | Ajailyn22

Dress code drama? NTA for enforcing the rules 🤵🏻‍♂️

Majestic_Explorer_67 | Majestic_Explorer_67

Commenter supports dress code and mocks brother's outfit choice. 🤵🏻‍♂️🌈🤡

Bumbleb33b | Bumbleb33b

Accusing the groom of narcissism and homophobia 🤔

franchesaldon773 | franchesaldon773

Inappropriate wedding outfit suggestion leads to justified uninvitation. NTA 👍

nyvz | nyvz

Supportive comment about bipolar disorder and wedding uninvite.

AllForMeCats | AllForMeCats

Wedding etiquette: blending in or standing out? 🤔

ghentwevelgem | ghentwevelgem

Brother's outfit choice causes wedding drama. NTA or ESH?

cassowary32 | cassowary32

Commenter defends groom's decision to uninvite gay brother.

Kashaya72 | Kashaya72

Rainbow tuxedo not appropriate for wedding dress code. NTA.

Caranath128 | Caranath128

Trans and panromantic commenter shares frustration with LGBT+ phobic accusations.

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Being gay doesn't excuse being an a**hole 🏳️‍🌈💔

cheedle | cheedle

Gay man defends NTA verdict against homophobic exclusion 👍🏳️‍🌈

Aquariumpsychotic | Aquariumpsychotic

Wedding day = groom's choice 🤵‍♂️

mega512 | mega512

Wedding dress code applies to all, not homophobic to enforce. 🤵🏻‍♂️🏳️‍🌈

Logical-Abroad4945 | Logical-Abroad4945

Colorful tie accepted, but full rainbow suit not wedding-ready 🌈❌

QuickgetintheTARDIS | QuickgetintheTARDIS

Supporting dress codes, but is this really not homophobic? 🤔

2_7_offsuit | 2_7_offsuit

Gay man defends uninviting brother over inappropriate outfit choice 👔🌈

LilaJax22 | LilaJax22

Colorful attire sparks controversy at wedding 🌈🤵

ickysticky1995 | ickysticky1995

Understanding brother's recent diagnosis and prioritizing self-care 🙏

Born-Eggplant8313 | Born-Eggplant8313

Supporting LGBTQ+ rights, NTA stands up for what's right ❤

sunshineFlgirl5323 | sunshineFlgirl5323

Gay brother excluded from wedding to steal attention? NTA.

RoyIbex | RoyIbex

Supporting not the a-hole- OP made the right call 🌈

smokenofire | smokenofire

Support for not inviting gay brother to wedding over outfit.

roadpilot66 | roadpilot66

Rainbow tuxedo drama, NTA brother calls out attention-seeking behavior 🌈

Elegant_righthere | Elegant_righthere

Acceptable dress code or discrimination? 🤔 NTA commenter weighs in.

grant622 | grant622

Rainbow bow tie instead? Compromise for flashy outfit at wedding.

Crisis_Redditor | Crisis_Redditor

Rainbow tuxedo at wedding: tacky or attention-seeking? NTA uninviting.

SweetAshori | SweetAshori

Black and white dress code only, NTA for uninviting brother 👔

BadBandit1970 | BadBandit1970

Being excluded from a wedding is tough, but was OP justified? 🤔

hahagrundle | hahagrundle

Wedding attire or pride parade? NTA draws the line 🏳️‍🌈

Girl_Of_Iridescence | Girl_Of_Iridescence

Support for groom's decision to uninvite brother over outfit choice 👍

nvorx | nvorx

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