A young woman is wondering if she's in the wrong for refusing to pay for her Tinder match's car repair out of her college fund. He suggested she skip a semester to pay him back. She declined, but he accused her of prioritizing money over him. Is she in the wrong? Read on to find out.
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Navigating the gray area of dating and finances 💸
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🚗 Refusing to pay for boyfriend's car repair causes tension
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When he asked for her college fund, things got awkward 😬
throwrapaul447 | throwrapaul447
College fund held hostage for car repair? 😱💸
throwrapaul447 | throwrapaul447
Putting education first: Saying 'no' to expensive car repairs.
throwrapaul447 | throwrapaul447
When money tests love and reveals true colors. 💰❤️
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Feeling guilty for not paying ex's car repair. AITA?
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Making an effort to fix things, but is it enough?
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When he asked her to skip a semester for his car repair
A Tinder date's request for financial help with car repairs quickly turned into a request to skip college for a semester. The woman refused, but now the man is accusing her of choosing money over him. Read on to see if you think she's the A-hole.
Commenters urge OP to run from Tinder scammer demanding money.
ohdulcenada | ohdulcenada
Commenter advises to run away from deadbeat seeking money.
BaltimoreBadger23 | BaltimoreBadger23
Dump his a** and go to college 💸💔
krik2019 | krik2019
Don't fall for his tricks! He's likely scamming other chicks 👀
jenniw3g | jenniw3g
🚩 Beware of love scammers! NTA, cut all contact.
MadMaid42 | MadMaid42
Don't sacrifice your education for a guy. Stay single, girl! 👏
Usrname52 | Usrname52
NTA. Beware of scammers like him. Block him and stay safe! 🚫💰
hrhiqwm | hrhiqwm
Avoid the scam: NTA, don't give him any money! 💸
Friendly_Ordinary_80 | Friendly_Ordinary_80
Protect your education and run from this selfish man. 🚫🚗
TheLoudCanadianGirl | TheLoudCanadianGirl
Supporting comment on not giving money to unreliable partner.
Bette21 | Bette21
Don't let anyone guilt or trick you into sacrificing education funds 💸🚫 #NTA
MoonPrincess666 | MoonPrincess666
Don't fall for it! Report the scam and keep your money 💸
SnooBunnies1088 | SnooBunnies1088
Dump the golddigger and focus on your education 💪
[deleted] | [deleted]
You dodged a bullet there 💸 NTA for sure!
Katja1236 | Katja1236
No ATM in a relationship! 🚫💰 NTA, time to move on!
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. Refusing to pay for car repair from college fund 💰
VDupps | VDupps
Don't fall for the guilt trip, NTA 🚶♀️💰
Natural20_UK | Natural20_UK
Walk away now 💔 NTA
Fantastic_Fox_64 | Fantastic_Fox_64
Don't let him derail your education for his car 🚗💸
SlapThis | SlapThis
Don't let him guilt you into paying for his car 💸🚫 Listen to the red flags and run 🏃♀️
SagePup21 | SagePup21
Don't let him use you as a human ATM 🙅♀️
Kriz1030 | Kriz1030
Choosing money over a hustler ex was the right move 💰👋
niennabobenna | niennabobenna
Girl power! 🙌🏼 Stand up for yourself and don't settle.
theshadowppl9 | theshadowppl9
Dump him and run! 💃 NTA for not paying.
Deucalion666 | Deucalion666
Sassy comment shuts down ex: Throw him in the tinder trash 💁♀️
mistoffoleess | mistoffoleess
Avoiding scammers on Tinder - worst case scenario. NTA.
apocalypsetuesday | apocalypsetuesday
Don't fall for it! 🚫 Protect your college fund 💰
realbigsurfer | realbigsurfer
NTA for refusing to pay for cousin's car repair 💸
Holiday_Pain9998 | Holiday_Pain9998
Protect yourself from Tinder swindlers! NTA for refusing payment.
itsmissesNesbit | itsmissesNesbit
Empowering response to a potential red flag in dating 👏
SausageDogMama | SausageDogMama
Big red flag! 🚩 NTA, run away and save your college fund.
reggiestered | reggiestered
Dump him! 💔 You deserve better than an exploitative partner.
somejuansmom | somejuansmom
Don't lend money to this guy - you may never see him again 🚫💰
lmco_ed | lmco_ed
Don't let him use you, you're not the a-hole. 💪
4682458 | 4682458
Calling out a manipulator on Tinder. NTA wins.
bubbsnana | bubbsnana
Dump him! 🚗💸 Education > a car repair any day.
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Don't let anyone manipulate your finances! 🤑👊 #NTA
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Don't let him drain your college fund! 🎓 Run, OP, run!
Prestigious_Isopod72 | Prestigious_Isopod72
Don't sacrifice your education for his car repair 💸🚗 NTA
fgdawn | fgdawn
Escape from the guy, NTA. 😱👉🏃
AL_Starr | AL_Starr
Don't let him take advantage of your college fund! 🚫💰
Kittenwithawhip987 | Kittenwithawhip987
Feeling like running away? See what others suggest 😬
GoonyGooGoo42 | GoonyGooGoo42
Tinder swindler documentary inspires car repair scam accusation 🔥
[deleted] | [deleted]
Red flag! Don't let him manipulate you with guilt and fear 🚨
ReasonableAd4228 | ReasonableAd4228
Redditors advise to block the guy's number and move on 🚫📱
Cromwell | Cromwell
Money over love? 🤔 NTA and red flag 🚩
JainaProudmoor | JainaProudmoor
Don't fall for manipulation or con, keep your college fund!
j0m1n1n | j0m1n1n
Don't be his cashpoint! NTA, run away and never look back 🙌
darthyoda76 | darthyoda76
Don't let him use you! Stand your ground 💪
Odd_One_9972 | Odd_One_9972
👏 Prioritizing education over a car repair - NTA wins 🎓
Calm_Inky | Calm_Inky
Commenter advises to run from partner, questioning their origin.
Monicawroteitbetter | Monicawroteitbetter
Time to hit the brakes 🚗💨 NTA takes the wheel.
daileyidentitycrisis | daileyidentitycrisis
Support for not being the a**hole and humorous dating advice.
FruitUnique5931 | FruitUnique5931
He dodged a bullet 💥 NTA for sure!
ARandomWalkInSpace | ARandomWalkInSpace
Don't let him manipulate you into giving up your college fund 💰
PsychologyAutomatic3 | PsychologyAutomatic3
Dump the hobosexual! 🙅♀️ NTA for sure. 😎
Bubblycatty | Bubblycatty
Don't pay for his car repair! You deserve better 🚫🚗
RainierCherree | RainierCherree
