Living with her mother during the pandemic, a woman's life is turned upside down when she is asked to donate an organ to her mother's friend, who she has never been fond of. The woman's response is shocking and leads to a heated argument. Was she justified in her reaction or was she in the wrong? Find out in this gripping story that will leave you wondering what you would do in the same situation.
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Daughter refuses to donate organ, causing family drama. 😱
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Woman refuses to donate organ to mother's friend. Argument ensues.
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Daughter stands firm on decision to not donate organ 💪
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Refusing to donate an organ to mom's friend 👎
Living with a friend of your mother's who you do not like is already a challenge, but what do you do when that friend needs something big from you? That is the dilemma a 25-year-old woman is facing when her mother's friend, Mel, asks her to donate an organ. The woman and Mel have never gotten along, and the woman is understandably hesitant to give up a part of her body to someone she does not like. However, her mother is pressuring her to help out Mel. The situation escalates when the woman loudly refuses, causing a scene, and now she is left wondering if she was in the wrong. Read on to find out more about this complex family dynamic and decide for yourself who was in the right.
Woman caught off-guard by invasive request, deemed NTA by commenters.
grilledpotat | grilledpotat
Savage response to organ donation request sparks laughter 😂
jg700 | jg700
Setting boundaries is important. 🛑
ca_agent | ca_agent
ESH: Op could have been less harsh, but Mel shouldn't have asked.
caffeinezombae | caffeinezombae
Commenter thinks everyone sucks here, but OP could have been more polite to dying woman.
MailMeAmazonVouchers | MailMeAmazonVouchers
Commenter explains the self-worth issues of needing an organ. OP could have politely declined. YTA.
tctwizzle | tctwizzle
Woman refuses to donate organ to dying friend, sparks debate.
SadLifeKitty | SadLifeKitty
NTA. You don't owe anyone your organs, but drama ensues.
spectravondergeist | spectravondergeist
Don't be rude even if you don't want to donate organs. 😒
polkaspotteapot | polkaspotteapot
Donating an organ is a personal choice, but tact is important 😕
dontspeak_noreally | dontspeak_noreally
Commenter calls out lack of empathy in organ donation refusal 😔
rdeincognito | rdeincognito
Commenter calls out lack of empathy in YTA verdict 👀
Best_Phrase_9974 | Best_Phrase_9974
Commenter calls out YTA for unnecessary insult during grieving.
Fuzzleton | Fuzzleton
Debate over age aside, was OP's behavior inappropriate? 💀
princefreeze | princefreeze
Organ donation refusal leads to ESH judgement by commenter
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Commenter explains why OP is TA for refusing organ donation.
buster_de_beer | buster_de_beer
Insensitive response to organ donation request leads to YTA judgement 😞
muppethero80 | muppethero80
Commenter calls out OP for being rude and selfish.
malkie0609 | malkie0609
Politely declining organ donation is acceptable. No need to yell.
tlf555 | tlf555
Commenter and reply call out OP's cruelty in refusing organ donation
Affectionate-Show331 | Affectionate-Show331
Unwilling organ donor gets called out for negative attitude 😒🤦♀️
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA for refusing organ donation. Polite no led to pressure.
cassowary32 | cassowary32
Body autonomy is important even when it comes to donations. 💪
jellyfish1700 | jellyfish1700
Balancing empathy and self-preservation: A tough ask 😢
seregil42 | seregil42
Commenter calls out person for being rude to dying friend
barleyqueen | barleyqueen
Commenter calls out OP's behavior as slightly rude 💁♀️
kazoolians | kazoolians
Commenter thinks OP is slightly TA for being tactless
vey323 | vey323
Is it fair to withhold organ donation based on personal feelings? 🤔
WolvWild | WolvWild
Redditor calls out OP for being rude to organ requester 👎
gucknbuck | gucknbuck
Don't let dislike cloud judgment. Be empathetic. 🙏
Proper_Ad_5547 | Proper_Ad_5547
Commenter calls out OP's unnecessary and rude reaction 👀
Pristine-Revolution5 | Pristine-Revolution5
Balancing honesty and tact in refusing organ donation. 🤔
BlackStarBlues | BlackStarBlues
Commenter believes both parties have handled the situation poorly 😒
smashteapot | smashteapot
Saving a life or not, being YTA is never justified 😒
DoobleTap | DoobleTap
Donating an organ is a bigger deal than having sex 💉👀
Travelllllisfun | Travelllllisfun
Not the a-hole: Exploring organ donation boundaries 💛
ParsimoniousSalad | ParsimoniousSalad
NTA for refusing but YTA for response. ESH for behavior.
kmcc12345 | kmcc12345
Woman refuses to donate organ to mother's friend. Commenters debate age.
saint-aryll | saint-aryll
Polite decline is better than YTA with attitude! 🙄
lemonchipcookie | lemonchipcookie
Politely declining organ donation to disliked mother's friend. YTA.
Individual_Physics29 | Individual_Physics29
Commenter calls out lack of empathy in organ donation situation 😡
loggy1992 | loggy1992
Commenter thinks Mel and mom are a**holes. 🤔
winsskk | winsskk
Woman criticized for lack of tact in declining organ donation.
Krisannds | Krisannds
Polite but firm: Declining organ donation request without being an a**hole.
SerenityM3oW | SerenityM3oW
Don't be an a**hole to someone who's dying 💀😔
Bullshit_Jones | Bullshit_Jones
Commenter deems someone the A-hole. Drama ensues. 😅
SoChaGeo | SoChaGeo
Commenter deemed YTA for rude response to donation request 💉
Penkniferious | Penkniferious
Lack of empathy made YTA, be kinder next time ❤️
Dangerous_Prize_4545 | Dangerous_Prize_4545
Unprepared for a life-and-death request, but YTA for shrieking 🤢
ravia | ravia
Refusing to donate organ doesn't make you TA, but tactless does 💭
NovaScrawlers | NovaScrawlers
NY attitude shines in refusal to donate a**hole 🙅♀️
Hotcrossbuns72 | Hotcrossbuns72
When a request for a vital organ comes off as transactional 💰
Vox_Popsicle | Vox_Popsicle
Commenter acknowledges both parties' faults in organ donation dilemma 💔
Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1
