A family is torn apart after a grandmother causes a scene at her granddaughter's funeral and later desecrates her grave. The situation escalates when the granddaughter's mother, who is agnostic, tells the grandmother that she won't go to heaven for her actions. The family drama reaches a boiling point as the mother cuts off contact with her grandmother, sister, and mother. Despite the loss of her niece and nephews, the mother stands firm in her decision to cut out toxic family members. Read on for the full story and weigh in on whether or not the mother was justified in her actions.

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Grandmother desecrates child's grave: AITA for what I told her? 😡
Losing a child is one of the most devastating things a parent can go through. So imagine the pain this parent feels when their own grandmother desecrates their child's grave. To add insult to injury, the grandmother leaves a message saying she'll explain herself to the deceased child in heaven. This post_text raises the question of who's in the wrong here. Is it the parent for cutting off contact with the grandmother or the grandmother for removing items left by the child's friends and desecrating the grave? Read on to find out more about this heartbreaking story and what people are saying about the situation.
Grandmother desecrates child's grave, commenter receives NTA judgement with biblical backup 🙏

Heavy-Macaron2004 | Heavy-Macaron2004
Religion shouldn't be used as a cover for hate 🙏

TexanFirebird | TexanFirebird
Condolences for your loss. Grandma's behavior is unacceptable. 😔

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Grandma desecrates child's grave: NTA stands up for OP 🙏

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Support for NTA, with historical context 🏳️🌈

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OP's daughter preferred female pronouns, ex used male. 🏳️🌈

Unit-Healthy | Unit-Healthy
Grandma disrespected child's grave, NTA for calling her out 🙏

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A message of love and tolerance - NTA ❤️

WirelessThingy | WirelessThingy
Grieving parent finds solace in leaving items at son's grave ❤️

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Condolences for the loss, and support for the verdict. 🙏

Actual-Toe-9872 | Actual-Toe-9872
A parent explains their child's gender questioning journey ❤️

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Heartfelt condolences for a loss, NTA for standing up.

Snorblatz | Snorblatz
Grandma prioritizes reputation over grieving family: NTA for response 🔥

PA_Archer | PA_Archer
No forgiveness for grave desecration: 🔥🙏

Master-Opportunity25 | Master-Opportunity25
Commenter calls out hypocrisy and bigotry in community.

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Grandmother desecrates child's grave: NTA, grieving person deserves support ❤️

grimykitchen | grimykitchen
Grandmother desecrates child's grave: NTA and justified in response 😔

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Grandmother disrespects child's grave, OP stands up: NTA

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Religious entitlement: 🙄NTA calls out 'trash bag' grandmother for desecrating grave

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Commenter denies afterlife in NTA response. 💀

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Heartbreaking loss and religious hypocrisy: NTA for standing up.

Hedgehog_Insomniac | Hedgehog_Insomniac
Heartbreaking story of grandmother desecrating child's grave sparks outrage 💔

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Homophobic grandmother desecrates child's grave, commenter calls out hypocrisy.

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Sister cuts contact to force compliance: AITA for refusing?

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User advocates for justice and warns against conformity and fascism. 💪🚫

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NTA defends daughter's memory and exposes grandmother's flawed logic. 😡

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Commenter points out hypocrisy in grandmother's religious beliefs. 🤔

WanderingAl08 | WanderingAl08
NTA for confronting disrespectful grandmother at child's grave 😡

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Religion doesn't justify desecrating graves. Not the a**hole. ✊

Impulsiveapathy | Impulsiveapathy
You go, NTA! 👏

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Commenter shows support for NTA and condemns extremist behavior 🙏

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Commenter believes grandmother won't make it to heaven 😈👵

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Supportive comment section with condolences and condemnation of grandmother's actions. 🙏

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Grandma desecrated child's grave: commenter believes NTA for invoking heaven/hell 🔥

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Praying for karma? 😇 NTA stands up for justice.

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Handling grave desecration like a boss! 💪 NTA

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Heartfelt support for grieving parent: 💖

Avari_Fenyx | Avari_Fenyx
Grandma's hateful act backfires, Redditor delivers the perfect response. 😎 NTA.

TrixIx | TrixIx
Defending a child's memory: OP is NTA 👍

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Don't mess with a grieving family: NTA claps back 👏

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Religion should be about love, not hate. NTA for calling out hypocrisy.

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Heartfelt support for grieving parent after desecration of child's grave

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Grandmother misgenders child, Redditor seeks clarity on situation. 🤔

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Heartfelt support from a fellow grieving parent, with a kind gesture 💛

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Heartfelt support and advice for dealing with grief. ❤️

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Heartbreaking loss, but the commenter is not alone in condemning desecration 😢

Larcztar | Larcztar
Grandma desecrated child's grave. NTA for banning her.

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Support for non-traditional families in a grave situation 🌈❤️

DanOfIron | DanOfIron
Desecrating a child's grave is unforgivable. 😡

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Grandma ruins child's memory. NTA for calling out selfishness.

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Condolences for loss, NTA for standing up to grandmother 🙌

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Calling out homophobia: 👍 for standing up to hate.

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Grieving mother stands up against grandmother's unforgivable actions 💪

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Commenter references Jesus to justify not being the a-hole.

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Grandmother desecrates child's grave: commenter is NTA and receives support 💪

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Using religion as a weapon? 🤨 NTA for calling her out.

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Grandmother gets what she deserves: 👏 NTA 👏

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Atheist commenter suggests grandmother needs redemption to enter heaven.

Chappo1205 | Chappo1205
Respect for the dead is not optional. NTA 👏

BlondeBombShell1105 | BlondeBombShell1105
Heartfelt condolences and support for a grieving commenter. ❤️

NeverRarelySometimes | NeverRarelySometimes
Granny crosses the line, faces backlash: NTA's reaction 👏

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Commenter criticizes hypocritical 'christian' behavior 🙏

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Grandma crosses the line, commenter supports OP's reaction 💪

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Grandma crosses the line, OP stands up: NTA 😊

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Protecting a loved one's resting place is a serious matter 💔

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Heartbreaking loss, healing words, NTA. 😢

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Grandma's disrespect of child's grave sparks sympathy and condemnation.

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Grandma's grave desecration gets a pass: everyone agrees she's NTA

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Family stands up against grave desecration: NTA comment section 🔥

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Confusion over gender identity leads to misgendering: INFO

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Grandmother desecrates grave: commenter supports OP's response to cruelty. 😡

Abject_Researcher_12 | Abject_Researcher_12
Condolences and support for OP, who is NTA for standing up against grandmother's unforgivable actions.

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Heartbreaking story of a child's desecrated grave. Supportive comment section ❤️

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🙌 Respect for standing up to the grandmother's grave desecration

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