A woman demanded I fire my personal trainer, AITA?

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When chronic pain sufferer, 43F, hires a trainer to help manage her pain, she never expected to be accused of getting too friendly with him. After giving her trainer a Christmas card with a $50 gift card, the trainer's wife confronts her and demands she switch trainers. But was she in the wrong? Read on to find out the unexpected twist in this AITA story.

Throwaway account reveals personal trainer drama 🍿

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Managing chronic pain with a personal trainer, learn more here!

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Grateful woman gifts personal trainer $50, gets backlash, AITA?

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Angry wife demands I fire my trainer, staff steps in 🙅‍♂️

aita-gym-trainer | aita-gym-trainer

Navigating personal boundaries and respect, AITA? 🤔

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Taking precautions against possible stalker imposter, better safe than sorry.

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🤔 Woman demands I fire trainer over gift card, AITA?

A woman hired a personal trainer to help manage her chronic pain, and as a token of appreciation gave him an early Christmas card with a gift card. Later, the trainer's wife approached her and accused her of getting too friendly with her husband. The woman refused to switch trainers and got the staff involved when the wife got aggressive. Friends have accused her of being disrespectful and not honoring the wife's wishes. The woman wonders if she is in the wrong and is seeking advice. Read on for reactions and comments.

Don't let them bring you down 💪 Your actions were appropriate.

FloridaPoodleSchool | FloridaPoodleSchool

A woman accuses trainer's client of affair, but is it his wife?

mikey_weasel | mikey_weasel

Commenter defends OP and questions the legitimacy of trainer's wife 👀

Maleficent_Ad_3958 | Maleficent_Ad_3958

NTA. Personal trainer goes above and beyond. Talk it out 💪🏋️‍♀️

Blue-Eyed-Lemon | Blue-Eyed-Lemon

Supporting OP's decision to keep personal trainer despite wife's interference. 👍

canberrastreets | canberrastreets

Is the commenter's personal trainer in danger? 😨

Amythist35 | Amythist35

Defending personal trainer from nosy stranger, NTA 🙌

Wren1101 | Wren1101

Gift card drama, NTA. 🤷‍♀️

Tralfamadorians_go | Tralfamadorians_go

Spouse interfering with workplace? NTA, and friends off base 🙄

DinaFelice | DinaFelice

Standing up for herself and her trainer, NTA with 🔥

EvocativeEnigma | EvocativeEnigma

Stay out of Alex's marital problems, NTA.

ageekyninja | ageekyninja

NTA commenter defends personal trainer against psycho wife 👊

LoveBeach8 | LoveBeach8

Support for personal trainer after entitled customer's outburst ❤️

LeftMyHeartInErebor | LeftMyHeartInErebor

Professional boundaries respected, wife overreacts to gift card. NTA.

peach-bellinis | peach-bellinis

Polite gift message, but trainer's wife crossed boundaries. NTA.

czechtheboxes | czechtheboxes

Spouse distrust, not your problem. NTA 👍

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Don't let a 'psycho' stranger control your life 💪🏋️‍♀️

AdDangerous1243 | AdDangerous1243

Supportive reply defends OP, friends criticized for bad advice. 👍

benji950 | benji950

Professional relationship with trainer, NTA. Consider informing him privately.

lcdrdata | lcdrdata

Being loyal to your personal trainer, even during tough times. 👍

fleshcoloredbanana | fleshcoloredbanana

Standing up for your personal trainer, NTA! 💪

xpotential31 | xpotential31

What's the hidden truth behind this seemingly justified decision? 🤔


Personal trainer's client receives an early holiday gift, NTA.

tropicaldiver | tropicaldiver

Fellow chronic illness patient praises OP's progress and perseverance ❤️

n1jlpaard | n1jlpaard

Standing up for yourself and your personal trainer, NTA 👏

flutterby727 | flutterby727

Generous Christmas gifting, or pet snail care? 😊

LuckyTattooedToes | LuckyTattooedToes

Stand your ground! 💪 Don't let her insecurities affect you.

Tier1Clean | Tier1Clean

Standing up for personal boundaries, NTA 🙌

DaniCapsFan | DaniCapsFan

Avoiding drama at the gym, NTA takes the high road 🏋️‍♀️

cherryblossombaby7 | cherryblossombaby7

Showing appreciation to a personal trainer, NTA 🎁💪

accidentw8ng2happen | accidentw8ng2happen

Sweet gesture of appreciation, NTA 🎁❤️

Pistachio_Supreme89 | Pistachio_Supreme89

Standing up against stalker-like behavior, NTA! 🔥

PiraticalApplication | PiraticalApplication

Generosity is key! 🙌 Be kind to those who serve.

citizensfund82 | citizensfund82

Stand your ground! Don't let someone else control your decisions. 👏

watts-feedback | watts-feedback

Spouse demands firing over gift card to personal trainer, NTA.

exhauta | exhauta

Commenter suggests Alex's wife has trust issues, gets called out

purplepooters | purplepooters

Standing up for your personal trainer, NTA wins again! 🙌

corgihuntress | corgihuntress

Supportive response to standing up for oneself, #NTA 💪

Lilpops13 | Lilpops13

Supportive reply to NTA comment defending tipping personal trainer.

justMeinD | justMeinD

Defending personal trainer, friends suck, stranger's motives questioned 🤔

MedusaStone | MedusaStone

Boundaries crossed, not your responsibility. NTA ❌

Ghostygrilll | Ghostygrilll

Trainer approves of OP's decision to keep personal trainer 🏋️‍♂️

woot-woot17 | woot-woot17

Accusations of infidelity over a work call - yikes 😬

kalamitykhaos | kalamitykhaos

Stand your ground! NTA for not firing your personal trainer 👍

kingfwoofurs27 | kingfwoofurs27

Update on personal trainer, NTA. 👍

Bulky_Impression5015 | Bulky_Impression5015

Professional boundaries respected, friends overreacting. 🙄

StockComprehensive96 | StockComprehensive96

A client deals with an overprotective spouse and a personal trainer's privacy concerns. 💪

redcore4 | redcore4

A personal trainer helped me with chronic pains, details inside 💪

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A deleted update leaves us wondering, what happened next? 🤔

Ghostygrilll | Ghostygrilll

Supportive comment defends personal trainer against entitled wife, NTA 🙌

batty48 | batty48

Standing up to gym bullies like a boss, NTA 🏋️

silence_infidel | silence_infidel

Not the a**hole for choosing my own personal trainer 💪

MildAsSriracha | MildAsSriracha

Improving life, crazy ex-wife confronts trainer. NTA. 🏋️‍♀️💪

moose_cahoots | moose_cahoots

Mystery wife accuses personal trainer, NTA clears his name 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Not the a**hole, but what's the story behind this?

Mish-face-1973 | Mish-face-1973

Showing appreciation for a personal trainer, NTA 🎁🏋️‍♂️

ntrontty | ntrontty

Support for OP's decision to keep personal trainer, 🙌

LJ_Val | LJ_Val

Supportive comment defends OP against jealous wife's demands 🙌

-applesEQLoranges- | -applesEQLoranges-

Paying for a personal trainer and thanking them, NTA 🏋️

boogswald | boogswald

Spread kindness, not calories 🍫👍 NTA

Steups13 | Steups13

Personal trainer defends client against overbearing partner 👊💪

TheSheepdog | TheSheepdog

Showing appreciation to my personal trainer caused unnecessary drama 👀

CullenBohannonBoss | CullenBohannonBoss

Married to a personal trainer, demands to fire him? NTA.

JebbAnonymous | JebbAnonymous

Celebrating relief from chronic pain and standing up to unreasonable demands 💪🏽🙌🏽

LottimusMaximus | LottimusMaximus

Uncommon gift to personal trainer, NTA. Mail people's SOs?

Elephant_homie | Elephant_homie

NTA for following protocols, reasonable gift, strange morals from friends

Cuntry_Boozegas | Cuntry_Boozegas

Spread positivity, not insecurity. NTA for showing appreciation 🙌

thomasaun | thomasaun

Don't let anyone control your life 🙅‍♀️ #NTA

Lady-Zafira | Lady-Zafira

Chronic pain relief and a gift card, friend's opinion irrelevant 🎁💊

Canlo21 | Canlo21

Appreciating your trainer with a gift, NTA 🎁

xerxerxex | xerxerxex

Setting boundaries with personal trainers: NAH or NTA?

DraggoVindictus | DraggoVindictus

Spouse confronts over personal trainer compliment, NTA.

grilledpotat | grilledpotat

Jealous wife interferes with personal trainer, NTA, feel safe 💪

ShiNo_Usagi | ShiNo_Usagi

Wife tries to sabotage husband's business, commenter says NTA 🤨

Buck_Junior | Buck_Junior

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