Woman Walks Out of Restaurant After Husband Ruins Her Dress

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A woman is asking if she's an a**hole for leaving a restaurant after her husband spilled wine on her dress. Her husband had bought her a $300 dress for the occasion, but she didn't like it and wanted to wear her own. She believes her husband intentionally spilled wine on her to force her to wear the dress he bought. After an argument, she left the restaurant. Her husband is upset, saying she made a scene in front of his friends, but she believes he disrespected her choices. What do you think? Did she handle the situation correctly?

Class differences cause tension in marriage, leaving wife unhappy 😔

carmenhost675 | carmenhost675

When gifts become controlling, it's time to say goodbye 👋

carmenhost675 | carmenhost675

Restricted fashion choices in toxic relationship explained.

carmenhost675 | carmenhost675

Wife refuses husband's pricey dress, walks out of restaurant

carmenhost675 | carmenhost675

Husband ruins wife's dress and pulls out replacement, awkward much? 💔

carmenhost675 | carmenhost675

Wife suspects husband of ruining her dress on purpose 🔍

carmenhost675 | carmenhost675

Wife stands up to husband who ruined her dress 🙅🏻‍♀️

carmenhost675 | carmenhost675

Husband insults wife's dress choice, gets defensive when confronted 🙄

carmenhost675 | carmenhost675

Dealing with husband's insecurities and unwanted attention from friend 👀

carmenhost675 | carmenhost675

👗🍷 Woman walks out of restaurant after husband ruins her dress

A woman from a humble background is at odds with her well-off husband who wants to control how she dresses. After ruining her $60 dress, he tries to force her into wearing a $300 dress he bought for her. Did she handle the situation right? Read on to find out what happened and how people reacted.

NTA, but having a spare dress screams of controlling behavior 🚩

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Wearing dress rules are insane and controlling. #NTA 😱

Think-Professional-2 | Think-Professional-2

Standing up for yourself is never easy 💪

Monicawroteitbetter | Monicawroteitbetter

Marriage marinara flags 🚩🍝. OP is NTA and should leave.

TudorEliOwly | TudorEliOwly

Your husband's friend is making you uncomfortable and your husband is brushing it off, consider leaving ASAP 👏

Carmenhost675 | Carmenhost675

Recognizing abuse is the first step. NTA. ❤

Fatt3stAveng3r | Fatt3stAveng3r

Commenters suggest counseling or divorce for spouse's misogyny.

onceuponafigtree | onceuponafigtree

Support for woman who left after husband ruined her dress 🙌

Mad_Cowboy_64 | Mad_Cowboy_64

👏 Empowering response to controlling partner. 🚫 No dress control.

MissIllusion | MissIllusion

Expensive dress or control tactic? NTA for walking out.

Candy4Mandy | Candy4Mandy

Controlling husband ruins wife's dress, dictates her clothing. Leave him. 💪 NTA.

canuck_2022 | canuck_2022

Don't let anyone control how you dress 💃🏻🚫 #NTA

Dovakiin_0 | Dovakiin_0

Husband intentionally embarrasses wife; 'manipulative' behavior pattern suspected. 🚩

JohnAlexWilliams | JohnAlexWilliams

Husband controls wife's appearance, comment suggests getting out of relationship 💄

Forsaken_Slug_521 | Forsaken_Slug_521

Commenter calls situation a 'bowl of yikes crispies' - hilarious!

Worried_Aerie_7512 | Worried_Aerie_7512

Run, girl, run! 🏃‍♀️ Controlling partner gets what he deserves.

yonanano | yonanano

Supportive comment suggests leaving toxic relationship. 👍

ProfessionalSir9978 | ProfessionalSir9978

Commenter doubts authenticity of story, suggests it's like a bad Netflix series.

LeahcarA | LeahcarA

Doubts raised on authenticity of comment and replies 🤔

fishstickhamburgers | fishstickhamburgers

Spouse ruins dress, commenter calls out husband's unrealistic expectations. 🙅‍♀️

Reasonable_Rub6337 | Reasonable_Rub6337

NTA. Keep standing up for yourself. He thinks of you as an accessory.

SoleofOrion | SoleofOrion

Confronting deeper issues in a relationship: a dress disaster aftermath ⚡

iggly1999 | iggly1999

Don't let your partner's ego ruin your happiness 😔💔

BakSeth | BakSeth

Take control and seek legal advice 💪👩‍⚖️

Murky-Egg-8326 | Murky-Egg-8326

Partner's controlling behavior led to dress disaster - NTA response.

gryffinRAWR | gryffinRAWR

Stand up against controlling behavior. You're not a slave. 🙅

ValiantEffort27 | ValiantEffort27

This commenter suggests getting a divorce attorney 🤔

Forward_Squirrel8879 | Forward_Squirrel8879

Commenter predicts a happy ending for OP after dress incident ❤️👗

alice_rollings | alice_rollings

Escape the control, you deserve better 💪 #NotTheAsshole

amillionparachutes | amillionparachutes

Supportive comment section with a hint of concern 😊

Comprehensive_Bug391 | Comprehensive_Bug391

Serious red flags. NTA. Get out of an abusive relationship.

SideQuestWriter87 | SideQuestWriter87

🚩🌳👗 You deserve better, NTA. Leave the relationship.

Puzzleheaded_Ant_543 | Puzzleheaded_Ant_543

Watch out for more signs of control. 🚩

NiobeTonks | NiobeTonks

Doubting the authenticity of the story 🤔

Mmudslide_1975 | Mmudslide_1975

Spilled wine or intentional? NTA walks out of restaurant

happybanana134 | happybanana134

Is being rich enough to make up for ruining a dress? 💰

bright_copperkettles | bright_copperkettles

Red flags in the sauce and wine - NTA

i_swear_too_muchffs | i_swear_too_muchffs

Stand your ground! Don't let a controlling AH ruin you 🙅‍♀️

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OP's husband married her to control and enjoys having the upper hand 😕

helloeverybodee | helloeverybodee

Spotting a narcissist: when 'NTA' really means 'YTA' 🤔

emdillem | emdillem

Commenter strongly agrees with the poster's action - NTA 🙌

SlideItIn100 | SlideItIn100

Empathize with commenter, condemn husband's behavior. 🤨

redmahkupbag | redmahkupbag

Recognize the signs of abuse. NTA. Take care 👍

Wild-Pie-7041 | Wild-Pie-7041

Shallow, controlling husband? Divorce him! You're NTA! 🙌

alliancehope | alliancehope

Commenter doubts authenticity of story and sympathizes with OP's situation. NTA.

RanaEire | RanaEire

Commenter supports woman leaving trash husband, NTA 💪

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Don't let anyone dictate what you wear! 💪 NTA

[deleted] | [deleted]

Warning of a trophy wife's fate 💔

scrutator_tenebrarum | scrutator_tenebrarum

Supportive comment advocating for leaving abusive relationship. ❤

Lindseyh911 | Lindseyh911

Husband ruins wife's dress, but who's the real a**hole here? 😒

dart1126 | dart1126

Don't let anyone control what you wear! 🤔

Various-Bridge-325 | Various-Bridge-325

Don't let anyone control you, you're not the a**hole! 🚫🎩

Borageandthyme | Borageandthyme

Stand your ground and don't let him control you 💪

wcs666 | wcs666

Commenter questions validity of situation and offers humorous escape plan.

-Lone_Samurai | -Lone_Samurai

When the comment section calls out the story's credibility 🙄

brendon-uries-towel | brendon-uries-towel

Commenter criticizes cliched story trope in sarcastic tone 😒

SorryAd1116 | SorryAd1116

Free to leave, not free from judgment 🙅‍♀️ #toxicrelationships

Francie1966 | Francie1966

Escape while you can! NTA. 🚪🏃‍♀️

highoncatnipbrownies | highoncatnipbrownies

Questioning the relationship dynamics 👀🤔

Tigchouffe | Tigchouffe

Red flags raised like in front of the European parliament 🚩

tlrdrdn | tlrdrdn