A woman is asking if she's an a**hole for leaving a restaurant after her husband spilled wine on her dress. Her husband had bought her a $300 dress for the occasion, but she didn't like it and wanted to wear her own. She believes her husband intentionally spilled wine on her to force her to wear the dress he bought. After an argument, she left the restaurant. Her husband is upset, saying she made a scene in front of his friends, but she believes he disrespected her choices. What do you think? Did she handle the situation correctly?
Woman Walks Out of Restaurant After Husband Ruins Her Dress
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A woman from a humble background is at odds with her well-off husband who wants to control how she dresses. After ruining her $60 dress, he tries to force her into wearing a $300 dress he bought for her. Did she handle the situation right? Read on to find out what happened and how people reacted.
NTA, but having a spare dress screams of controlling behavior 🚩
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Wearing dress rules are insane and controlling. #NTA 😱
Think-Professional-2 | Think-Professional-2
Standing up for yourself is never easy 💪
Monicawroteitbetter | Monicawroteitbetter
Marriage marinara flags 🚩🍝. OP is NTA and should leave.
TudorEliOwly | TudorEliOwly
Your husband's friend is making you uncomfortable and your husband is brushing it off, consider leaving ASAP 👏
Carmenhost675 | Carmenhost675
Recognizing abuse is the first step. NTA. ❤
Fatt3stAveng3r | Fatt3stAveng3r
Commenters suggest counseling or divorce for spouse's misogyny.
onceuponafigtree | onceuponafigtree
Support for woman who left after husband ruined her dress 🙌
Mad_Cowboy_64 | Mad_Cowboy_64
👏 Empowering response to controlling partner. 🚫 No dress control.
MissIllusion | MissIllusion
Expensive dress or control tactic? NTA for walking out.
Candy4Mandy | Candy4Mandy
Controlling husband ruins wife's dress, dictates her clothing. Leave him. 💪 NTA.
canuck_2022 | canuck_2022
Don't let anyone control how you dress 💃🏻🚫 #NTA
Dovakiin_0 | Dovakiin_0
Husband intentionally embarrasses wife; 'manipulative' behavior pattern suspected. 🚩
JohnAlexWilliams | JohnAlexWilliams
Husband controls wife's appearance, comment suggests getting out of relationship 💄
Forsaken_Slug_521 | Forsaken_Slug_521
Commenter calls situation a 'bowl of yikes crispies' - hilarious!
Worried_Aerie_7512 | Worried_Aerie_7512
Run, girl, run! 🏃♀️ Controlling partner gets what he deserves.
yonanano | yonanano
Supportive comment suggests leaving toxic relationship. 👍
ProfessionalSir9978 | ProfessionalSir9978
Commenter doubts authenticity of story, suggests it's like a bad Netflix series.
LeahcarA | LeahcarA
Doubts raised on authenticity of comment and replies 🤔
fishstickhamburgers | fishstickhamburgers
Spouse ruins dress, commenter calls out husband's unrealistic expectations. 🙅♀️
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NTA. Keep standing up for yourself. He thinks of you as an accessory.
SoleofOrion | SoleofOrion
Confronting deeper issues in a relationship: a dress disaster aftermath ⚡
iggly1999 | iggly1999
Don't let your partner's ego ruin your happiness 😔💔
BakSeth | BakSeth
Take control and seek legal advice 💪👩⚖️
Murky-Egg-8326 | Murky-Egg-8326
Partner's controlling behavior led to dress disaster - NTA response.
gryffinRAWR | gryffinRAWR
Stand up against controlling behavior. You're not a slave. 🙅
ValiantEffort27 | ValiantEffort27
This commenter suggests getting a divorce attorney 🤔
Forward_Squirrel8879 | Forward_Squirrel8879
Commenter predicts a happy ending for OP after dress incident ❤️👗
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Escape the control, you deserve better 💪 #NotTheAsshole
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Supportive comment section with a hint of concern 😊
Comprehensive_Bug391 | Comprehensive_Bug391
Serious red flags. NTA. Get out of an abusive relationship.
SideQuestWriter87 | SideQuestWriter87
🚩🌳👗 You deserve better, NTA. Leave the relationship.
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Watch out for more signs of control. 🚩
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Doubting the authenticity of the story 🤔
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Spilled wine or intentional? NTA walks out of restaurant
happybanana134 | happybanana134
Is being rich enough to make up for ruining a dress? 💰
bright_copperkettles | bright_copperkettles
Red flags in the sauce and wine - NTA
i_swear_too_muchffs | i_swear_too_muchffs
Stand your ground! Don't let a controlling AH ruin you 🙅♀️
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OP's husband married her to control and enjoys having the upper hand 😕
helloeverybodee | helloeverybodee
Spotting a narcissist: when 'NTA' really means 'YTA' 🤔
emdillem | emdillem
Commenter strongly agrees with the poster's action - NTA 🙌
SlideItIn100 | SlideItIn100
Empathize with commenter, condemn husband's behavior. 🤨
redmahkupbag | redmahkupbag
Recognize the signs of abuse. NTA. Take care 👍
Wild-Pie-7041 | Wild-Pie-7041
Shallow, controlling husband? Divorce him! You're NTA! 🙌
alliancehope | alliancehope
Commenter doubts authenticity of story and sympathizes with OP's situation. NTA.
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Commenter supports woman leaving trash husband, NTA 💪
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Don't let anyone dictate what you wear! 💪 NTA
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Warning of a trophy wife's fate 💔
scrutator_tenebrarum | scrutator_tenebrarum
Supportive comment advocating for leaving abusive relationship. ❤
Lindseyh911 | Lindseyh911
Husband ruins wife's dress, but who's the real a**hole here? 😒
dart1126 | dart1126
Don't let anyone control what you wear! 🤔
Various-Bridge-325 | Various-Bridge-325
Don't let anyone control you, you're not the a**hole! 🚫🎩
Borageandthyme | Borageandthyme
Stand your ground and don't let him control you 💪
wcs666 | wcs666
Commenter questions validity of situation and offers humorous escape plan.
-Lone_Samurai | -Lone_Samurai
When the comment section calls out the story's credibility 🙄
brendon-uries-towel | brendon-uries-towel
Commenter criticizes cliched story trope in sarcastic tone 😒
SorryAd1116 | SorryAd1116
Free to leave, not free from judgment 🙅♀️ #toxicrelationships
Francie1966 | Francie1966
Escape while you can! NTA. 🚪🏃♀️
highoncatnipbrownies | highoncatnipbrownies
Questioning the relationship dynamics 👀🤔
Tigchouffe | Tigchouffe
Red flags raised like in front of the European parliament 🚩
tlrdrdn | tlrdrdn