A woman's sister moves in with her after losing her job, but instead of helping with household chores or contributing to utility bills, she spends most of her time playing with the woman's 1-year-old son. When she refused to change the son's diaper, the woman finally had enough and kicked her sister out. However, her family is now calling her wicked for doing so. Was the woman justified in kicking out her sister or was it unfair to expect her to provide free child care? Read on to find out.
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A woman's sister moves in with her after losing her job but refuses to help with household chores and only plays with her nephew for short periods. When the woman asks her sister to change her son's diaper, she refuses and calls the woman to do it instead. The woman ultimately kicks her sister out after she refuses to contribute to the household. This has caused a rift in her family, with her parents and siblings criticizing her for expecting free childcare from her sister. Read on for the comments and reactions.
NTA for kicking out sister who contributed nothing and refused to help with baby.
TeemReddit | TeemReddit
Family member refuses to help with childcare, gets kicked out. NTA 💁♀️
grindelwaldd | grindelwaldd
NTA. Sister mooching off, OP kicks out. Family guilts OP.
anonn86753099 | anonn86753099
NTA: Sister won't change a diaper, gets kicked out 🚫👶
Alert-Potato | Alert-Potato
NTA's sister needs to contribute to the household in some way 🏠
rmhnll | rmhnll
Did OP have a discussion with her sister about household responsibilities?
TogarSucks | TogarSucks
Sister refuses to help with son, gets kicked out. NTA 👌
the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope
Commenter defends OP's decision to kick out entitled sister.
lincmidd | lincmidd
Expectations should have been outlined before moving in. ESH.
radleynope | radleynope
Communication breakdown leads to sister's eviction 🏠💬
RainahReddit | RainahReddit
Fair expectations? Commenter defends not forcing sister to help with son.
sarahhelen2 | sarahhelen2
Sister accepts generosity without offering help, both at fault 💁♀️
kyskat | kyskat
Setting boundaries with family is tough but necessary. 🙅♀️
Most_Poet | Most_Poet
Unemployed sister needs to contribute or move out. NTA 👍
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Expectations unclear, both sisters share blame for childcare disagreement. 💁♀️💁♀️
SchrodingersMinou | SchrodingersMinou
Generous host kicks out entitled sister after 7 months. NTA 👏
Djorgal | Djorgal
Commenter defends OP's decision to kick out entitled sister. 💪
UnicornCackle | UnicornCackle
Sibling drama! 🤨 Kicked out sister gets what she deserves. 😏
voodoodahlia | voodoodahlia
NTA for asking sister to change a single diaper 🍼
Alyssa_Hargreaves | Alyssa_Hargreaves
🤔 Curious why sister lives rent and chore free for 7 months
Fistouil | Fistouil
Fair to ask for help or not? Let's discuss. 🤔
NotSoSilentWatcher | NotSoSilentWatcher
Curious if sister agreed to help with childcare beforehand 🤔
WithoutDennisNedry | WithoutDennisNedry
Setting boundaries with family, but it's not easy 😣
Maurkov | Maurkov
Setting ground rules for living together is important. 🏡
bannana | bannana
No agreement, no complaints! 🤷♀️ ESH
SoybeanArson | SoybeanArson
Sister refuses to help with son, gets kicked out. NTA 👏🏻
CabernetTheCat | CabernetTheCat
Setting boundaries with family is important. NTA for prioritizing self-care.
lyingaboutlycans | lyingaboutlycans
Family drama and free childcare gone wrong. ESH🤷♀️
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Sister won't help with child care, gets kicked out. NTA 👍
bamf1701 | bamf1701
Taking a stand against freeloading siblings 🙅♀️ #NTA
EggplantIll4927 | EggplantIll4927
NTA. Sister refuses to contribute, time to set boundaries 🚫👩👧
AlbertaDaisy | AlbertaDaisy
NTA for kicking out sister who won't help with childcare 🚫👶
DemonSeas | DemonSeas
NTA for not helping at home during a family visit 🙅♀️
8gaugeidiot | 8gaugeidiot
NTA asks sister to contribute or leave household 🏠
iluvgruyere | iluvgruyere
Proper communication could have avoided this messy situation 😕
ErisRotavele | ErisRotavele
Family should help sister, not burden you. NTA 👍
Ilovegifsofjif | Ilovegifsofjif
NTA. Sister won't help with son or contribute to household.
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Generous offer to help sister with free accommodation and chores.
scrappy8350 | scrappy8350
Don't let family guilt you into being a servant 🙅♀️
samakkins | samakkins
Expectations not clear in sister's eviction, but both at fault 🤔
fondots | fondots
Clarifying the terms of living arrangement could solve this conflict 🤔
Apprehensive_Fox_ | Apprehensive_Fox_
Sister overstaying her welcome? Time to kick her out 🚪
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Fair expectations: No free childcare or living without contributing. #NTA
International-Dog950 | International-Dog950
Living rent-free isn't an excuse for being a freeloader 😡
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Redditors relate to OP's story of toxic family dynamics 😔
E420CDI | E420CDI
Sister refuses to help with son, but OP is the bad one?
Oz365 | Oz365
Sibling drama: woman kicks sister out for not helping with son 😤
clarebears990 | clarebears990
Sister takes advantage of sibling, expects free childcare. #NTA 🙅♀️
InfamousNoise8 | InfamousNoise8
Woman justified in kicking out sister who offered little help.
Alethiometer88 | Alethiometer88
Sibling drama, but who's really in the wrong? 🤔
GotanaRetz | GotanaRetz
Sister refuses to help with son; NTA requests nappy change 😒
illogicallyalex | illogicallyalex
Encouraging NTA comment suggests sister should leave town 🏡
diatho | diatho
Sister refuses to help with baby, kicked out. NTA 👏👶
CharlotteLucasOP | CharlotteLucasOP
Sister should contribute something for living rent-free 🤔
nonchalantenigma | nonchalantenigma
Sister's refusal to help leads to eviction suggestion 💼
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