Groom-to-Be Loses It at Fiancée Over Daughter's Bair

A groom fixing his tie.
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Wedding planning can be stressful, but one groom-to-be found himself blowing up at his fiancée over her insistence that his daughter should cut her hair before the big day. The groom's daughter, who is 14, wasn't even taking part in the wedding, but the stepmom-to-be was determined to make sure everyone looked their best.

Despite the daughter's protests, the fiancée kept pushing the issue until the groom finally lost his temper. The argument escalated quickly, with accusations of overreacting and undermining the fiancée's role as a stepmom. What do you think? Was the groom out of line or was the fiancée being too pushy?

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Stepmom takes over wedding prep, dad reacts - drama ensues 😠

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Groomzilla wants daughter's hair cut before wedding, daughter disagrees 💇‍♀️

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Father defends daughter's hair, clashes with fiancée's views 🙅

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Father defends daughter's hair 💇‍♀️ against pushy fiancée

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Fiancée and groom-to-be argue over daughter's hair for wedding 👰

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Communication breakdown between groom and fiancée causes tension ⚡

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🙅‍♂️ Groom-to-be loses it over fiancée's obsession with daughter's hair

Wedding planning can be stressful, but what happens when it turns into a battle over a teenager's hair? One groom-to-be lost his cool when his fiancée became obsessed with his daughter's hair.

Despite his daughter's wishes to keep her long locks, the fiancée kept pushing for a haircut, claiming she wanted all the attention on her and her bridesmaids. The groom-to-be finally reached his boiling point and told his fiancée to knock it off and stop pressuring his daughter. But the argument didn't end there.

The two continued to argue about the incident, with the fiancée accusing the groom-to-be of undermining her as a future stepmom. What will happen next in this tense situation? Stay tuned for the comments and reactions to this story.

Fiancée wants daughter's hair cut to avoid being upstaged at wedding 🤯

mdthomas | mdthomas

Fiancée wants 14-year-old to change for wedding; NTA.

keegeen | keegeen

Fiancée's jealousy over daughter's appearance raises red flags. Cancel wedding.

CatteHerder | CatteHerder

Fiancé's behavior towards daughter is a red flag 🚩, listen and consider

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Protecting your daughter comes first. NTA. 🙅‍♂️

Laughattack040 | Laughattack040

Daughter's boundaries respected, red flags about fiancée noted 🚩

AutisticMuffin97 | AutisticMuffin97

Stepmom ignores boundaries, groom-to-be snaps. NTA, red flags 🚨

ClothesQueasy2828 | ClothesQueasy2828

Protect your daughter: Address your fiancée's jealousy and behavior 💪

Mean_Camp_9850 | Mean_Camp_9850

Daughter's hair causing conflict between dad and fiancée. 👨‍👧

RyzenTide | RyzenTide

Stepmom's insecurity leads to abusive behavior towards stepdaughter's hair

Disruptorpistol | Disruptorpistol

NTA. OP's fiancee displays red flags of controlling and narcissistic behavior.

Prestigious_Isopod72 | Prestigious_Isopod72

Defending daughter from toxic stepmom. NTA wins.

GlitterGaff | GlitterGaff

Jealousy over a child's hair? 🤔 Bridezilla alert!

rheyasa | rheyasa

Putting daughter first: 🚩 raised, NTA advises prioritizing child.

TheBlueManatee | TheBlueManatee

Protect your daughter and rethink marrying controlling partner. 👭

Worldly-Letterhead28 | Worldly-Letterhead28

Fiancée's jealousy towards daughter's looks raises red flags. NTA.

goblinsatemykids | goblinsatemykids

Father defends daughter's hair against controlling groomzilla. 🙌

idgafemp | idgafemp

Stand up for your daughter and don't let Bridezilla win 😠

tlf555 | tlf555

Dad defends daughter's hair at wedding, NTA 🙌

marshmallowofdoom | marshmallowofdoom

Canceling the wedding might be necessary. 🚫💍

Katana1369 | Katana1369

Fiancée accused teen of upstaging her over daughter's haircut. NTA.

maximus2805 | maximus2805

Stepmomzilla? 🙅‍♀️ Put the wedding on pause! 🚫👰

spaceyjaycey | spaceyjaycey

Serious red flag, reconsider the marriage for your daughter's sake 👀

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Dad stands up for daughter's hair, rightfully so 🙌

Royal-Show5382 | Royal-Show5382

Commenter suggests calling off wedding due to fiancée's insecurity 😬

NickelPickle2018 | NickelPickle2018

Stepmom worried daughter will upstage her by not cutting hair 💇‍♀️

witchbrew7 | witchbrew7

Fiancée wants daughter's hair cut to not upstage her at wedding 😱

xiionaa | xiionaa

Cancel the wedding? 🤔 Not the a**hole indeed! 😱

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🚩 Red flag alert! Groom-to-be's fiancée shows true colors 🚩

blueaqua_12 | blueaqua_12

Redditors agree: keep this toxic stepmom out of daughter's life 💔

MidnightBookery | MidnightBookery

Fiancée's weird competition with daughter - commenter takes side

elizabethjanet | elizabethjanet

Step parent disapproves of forcing stepdaughter's hair, suggests bald wedding

Notdoingitanymore | Notdoingitanymore

Fighting for your daughter is always the right choice 💪

Scarlet_Letter | Scarlet_Letter

Stepmom caused years of abuse, NTA for protecting daughter's hair 💇

CDM2017 | CDM2017

Fiancée's bizarre reasoning for daughter's hair, NTA for standing up 🤔

MonOubliette | MonOubliette

Commenter warns groom-to-be about potential wicked stepmother 🚪🔒

Consistent-Job6841 | Consistent-Job6841

Discussing boundaries with your partner is crucial for successful parenting 🧑‍👩‍👧

LeastDragonfly4247 | LeastDragonfly4247

Fiancée wants daughter to look less beautiful, NTA. 🙅‍♂️

OkPhilosopher1313 | OkPhilosopher1313

Commenter warns of red flag and suggests counseling 🚩💍

francescatoo | francescatoo

Supportive response to a difficult situation. 🙌

Saberise | Saberise

Tough love - commenter advises groom-to-be to prioritize daughters

NinjaTurtleFan2 | NinjaTurtleFan2

👍 NTA dad receives support for standing up for daughter's hair

jmnfaftg85 | jmnfaftg85

Wedding on hold after groom's outburst about daughter's hair 💇

lillyjg | lillyjg

Think twice before tying the knot 💍

xxMorsxxxx | xxMorsxxxx

👀 Someone's not being a good stepmom...

Majestic-Leopard-563 | Majestic-Leopard-563

Dad stands up for daughter against bridezilla, NTA 🙌

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Prioritize your daughter's well-being, call off the wedding. 🚫💍

SubstantialHighway57 | SubstantialHighway57

Commenter warns groom-to-be of potential abuse towards daughter 💔

paulinaatjex | paulinaatjex

Step-mom jealousy? NTA needs to set her straight before wedding 😡

BlueMoonTone | BlueMoonTone

Protect your daughter. 🚫 Bullying should never be tolerated.

UnhingedPterodactyl1 | UnhingedPterodactyl1

Fiancée's abusive behavior towards daughter raises red flags ❤️

bibbiddybobbidyboo | bibbiddybobbidyboo

Tough love from a commenter, telling OP what they should have done instead of seeking validation on Reddit. 💔

Skizzybee | Skizzybee

Commenter supports groom-to-be and suggests moving on.

GonnaBeOverIt | GonnaBeOverIt

Stepmom-to-be prioritizes wedding over relationship with daughter 😔

Danube_Kitty | Danube_Kitty

Think twice before tying the knot with this red flag 💔

scorpiorising29 | scorpiorising29

Setting boundaries with fiancée over daughter's hair and future decisions. 🚦

000-Hotaru_Tomoe | 000-Hotaru_Tomoe

Father defends daughter against jealous fiancée. 🙅‍♂️👧

motheroflabz | motheroflabz

Protect your child. Don't ignore signs of jealousy. 🚫💍

Such-Awareness-2960 | Such-Awareness-2960

Defending daughter's hair: NTA is concerned about fiancée's behavior 👀

colorfullpapaya | colorfullpapaya

Buckle up, it's gonna be a bumpy ride 🎢

Lofty_quackers | Lofty_quackers

Fierce defense of fatherly love and common sense.

ClothDiaperAddicts | ClothDiaperAddicts

Consider daughter's opinion before marrying fiancée 💍

blaktronium | blaktronium

Commenter advises against marrying fiancée due to incident.

CommunicationOdd9406 | CommunicationOdd9406

Dad stands up for daughter's hair, questions marriage. 💇‍♀️❤️

palabradot | palabradot

Dad defends daughter's hair, fiancée tries to steal spotlight 🤪

brit8996 | brit8996

Stepmom vs. bio mom? 🤔 NTA takes the win.

j0m1n1n | j0m1n1n

👍 NTA commenter advises reconsidering marriage after hair argument

MidniteProph | MidniteProph

Stepmom's control over daughter's hair threatens wedding and family.

AbbyFB6969 | AbbyFB6969

Father defends daughter's hair against jealous stepmom-to-be.

captaincumragx | captaincumragx

Stepmom pressures daughter to cut deceased mother's hair? YTA confirmed.

DigIndependent5151 | DigIndependent5151

Protect your daughter's hair with a lock 🔒

messgonemad | messgonemad

Protecting her daughter's autonomy. 👍 Reconsidering the wedding. 💔

Character_Study5220 | Character_Study5220

Defend your daughter's rights, not her haircut. 💇‍♀️

sage_x2002 | sage_x2002