Mom Buys Son Door Behind Husband’s Back

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A mom goes behind her husband's back to buy a door for her son's room, sparking a heated debate about respect within the family. While the dad insists on keeping the room open and monitored, the mom thinks her son should have some privacy. Was buying the door disrespectful to the husband's authority or was it a reasonable decision for the son's well-being? Join the discussion and share your thoughts on this delicate topic.

Husband's strict rule challenged by mom buying son door 🚪

melindthrowaway | melindthrowaway

Teenager's freedom limited by strict father, no door for privacy 🚪

melindthrowaway | melindthrowaway

Husband blocks wife's idea of buying son a door 🚪

melindthrowaway | melindthrowaway

Surprising son with a door causes marital strife 😬

melindthrowaway | melindthrowaway

Secret door surprise causes family feud 😲🚪

melindthrowaway | melindthrowaway

Mom buys son door, husband outraged. Trouble in paradise? 😬

melindthrowaway | melindthrowaway

Mom debates if buying son a door was justified 🔨

melindthrowaway | melindthrowaway

Mom buys son door behind husband's back 🚪❌

A mom secretly buys her son a door for his room, but her husband doesn't approve. The couple has been at odds over whether their son should have more privacy, and the mom decided to take matters into her own hands. However, her husband feels disrespected and is refusing to sleep in the same bed. Was the mom wrong to make this decision without consulting her husband? Let's take a closer look at this family dilemma and see what people have to say about it in the comments below.

NTA. Husband's controlling behavior is abusive and a fire hazard 🔥

IllustriousPomelo152 | IllustriousPomelo152

Breaking the cycle of abuse - empowering the son with a door 👏

LadyNorbert | LadyNorbert

No privacy? No way! NTA for buying your son a door 💪🚪

EmpressJainaSolo | EmpressJainaSolo

NTA for installing a door against husband's toxic, controlling behavior 🚪

FoolMe1nceShameOnU | FoolMe1nceShameOnU

Mom buys son door behind husband's back - commenters debate ESH vs NTA

Arsenicandtea | Arsenicandtea

Standing up against an abusive, controlling husband 💪🏼

dmbase | dmbase

Husband's age gap and beliefs questioned in door debate 🤔

Allaboutbird | Allaboutbird

Mom buys son a door, husband has serious issues. 🚪

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Husband wants respect but acts like a donkey 🤦‍♂️

krczm | krczm

Mom buys son a door without husband's permission. Commenter advises.

DrWhoop87 | DrWhoop87

Commenter suggests calling CPS to protect child from abusive behavior

jdogx17 | jdogx17

Mom stands up to controlling husband with door purchase 🚪

Cheap-Explorer-9711 | Cheap-Explorer-9711

Breaking the cycle of abuse. It's time to reevaluate.

stressrelief375 | stressrelief375

Standing up against abuse 💪🏼 You're NTA!

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Mom defies husband to buy son door. NTA wins.

Peasplease25 | Peasplease25

Privacy is important for kids, removing the door is wrong 👎

HotBoxBakes | HotBoxBakes

Husband's authority red flag, son deserves privacy 🚪🛡️

Loco_Grant | Loco_Grant

Giving your child privacy is important. NTA for buying the door 🚪

mrsf16 | mrsf16

Removing a child's door is a violation of privacy 😡

Acrobatic-Whereas632 | Acrobatic-Whereas632

Buying a door isn't just about privacy. It's about trust 💜

oftheocean13 | oftheocean13

Giving your child privacy is important 👍

jcovington0818 | jcovington0818

Husband's controlling behavior over son's privacy is unacceptable 🚪

JEFFinSoCal | JEFFinSoCal

14yo deserves privacy. Husband's behavior is concerning. 👀

bullmoosse | bullmoosse

Standing up against overbearing parenting with NTA judgement 👍

krazy_187 | krazy_187

Commenter calls out gift-giving failure with a YTA verdict 👎

Rude-Culture-6102 | Rude-Culture-6102

Teenage privacy is important, but communication is key 👌

gsp1991dog | gsp1991dog

🚪😂 Priorities set straight, who needs a husband anyways?

miscellany3020 | miscellany3020

Commenter expresses strong negative sentiment towards spouse.

cherry__12345 | cherry__12345

Mom stands up for son's privacy against old-fashioned husband 🚪

Few-Entrepreneur383 | Few-Entrepreneur383

Curious why the son didn't have a door before 🤔

l8millenial | l8millenial

Standing up to abuse takes courage. YTA is called out.

schedulejay | schedulejay

Husband's outdated views threaten marriage and son's privacy 😔

Several-Plenty-6733 | Several-Plenty-6733

Buying a door doesn't excuse letting abuse continue 👀

blooger-00- | blooger-00-

Husband's overbearing parenting is straining the relationship. NTA.

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Teen's privacy is important. NTA for standing up.

Whole-Neighborhood | Whole-Neighborhood

Standing up to abusive behavior 👏🏼🙌🏼

Cheezemerk | Cheezemerk

Privacy for teens 🚪👦

TheNobodySupreme | TheNobodySupreme

Husband's controlling behavior could harm their son's mental health 😔

ebrum2010 | ebrum2010

Encouraging independence is important for young adults 👍

SunnyBunnyHopHop | SunnyBunnyHopHop

Encouragement to seek help and stay safe ❤️

encephaleocholocrate | encephaleocholocrate

Respect your child's privacy, give them a door. 👍

Mrsgingerbread | Mrsgingerbread

Mom stands up to controlling husband and gives son privacy 🚪💪

PhePheLaFrou | PhePheLaFrou

Mom buys son door but faces husband's abuse. 😔

bizianka | bizianka

Serious situation. Abuse is never okay 💔

TATastyFood | TATastyFood

Supporting a son's independence and privacy. 🚪

Dangerous-Emu-7924 | Dangerous-Emu-7924

Strict parenting can have long-lasting consequences 😢

awkwrdaccountant | awkwrdaccountant

Teen felt dehumanized without a door; father's parenting is toxic 🚪

JinxTheEdgyB | JinxTheEdgyB

Curious commenter questions why woman allowed husband to control for so long 🤔

FumiPlays | FumiPlays

Commenter calls out abusive behavior and lack of action 🚪❌

Pinky1010 | Pinky1010

A parent's decision to deny their teenager a door 🚪

torigoya | torigoya

Mom's late response and poor choice of partner criticized 😕

b3jabbers | b3jabbers

Teen's privacy violated by parents. Left home at 18. NTA

happylilstego | happylilstego

Breaking the cycle of dorlessness 🚪🙅‍♀️ #NTA

Furious_Wolf_Taco | Furious_Wolf_Taco

Empathize with the commenter, 🤝support their stance against controlling husbands

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Protecting your child's boundaries is the hill to die on ✊

FloppyEaredDog | FloppyEaredDog