Daughter Feels 'Forgotten' By Parents During Family Dinner Outing

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Family Dinner
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When a family decides to dine out, and the daughter has to answer a phone call, she returns to find that her parents and family have left her behind. Later, she finds out that they have gone to buy her cousin ice cream. The daughter is upset that her parents put her cousin's wants above hers, and her parents and uncle's family are mad at her for being upset. She wonders if she's the a**hole for being mad.

The struggle of feeling forgotten in a big family 🤔

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Age gap causes cousin-niece confusion in family dynamics

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Cousin gets preferential treatment, narrator calls out bad behavior.

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Parental favoritism causes heartbreak for daughter on graduation day

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Parents prioritize niece's recital over daughter's graduation. 😔

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Sibling support saves dinner outing for 'forgotten' daughter 🙌

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Finally able to dine out, but daughter left feeling left out.

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Daughter left behind after family dinner outing 😔

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Stranded and forgotten by parents during family dinner outing 😔

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Daughter left out of family outing, feels forgotten and frustrated 😔

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

When family outings become exclusive👀

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Daughter feels neglected during family outing, lashes out at parents.

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Feeling ignored by family during dinner outing, but not about ice-cream

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

AITA? Join the debate on family dynamics at dinner.

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Daughter left stranded and forgotten by parents during family dinner 😔

Family dynamics can be complicated, especially regarding age gaps and favoritism. In this post, a daughter expresses her frustration with feeling forgotten by her parents during a family dinner outing. Despite being stranded and unable to reach her family, they left without her to get her cousin an ice cream. This has led to a blow-up and tension within the family, with the daughter being accused of overreacting. How would you feel in this situation? Have you ever felt left out or forgotten by your family? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.

Parents prioritize cousin's piano recital over daughter's college graduation. NTA

bad-luck-psyduck | bad-luck-psyduck

Daughter's parents skipped her graduation for a piano recital. 😡

francescatoo | francescatoo

Parents' favoritism towards cousin could lead to future family estrangement 🤔

rak1882 | rak1882

Graduation snub? 😡 NTA takes extreme measures, but justified.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Sarcastic NTA comment suggests passing off parents to cousin. 🙄

Unggue_Pot | Unggue_Pot

Commenter suggests going no contact with neglectful parents 🚫

Piper6728 | Piper6728

Parents prioritize niece over daughter's graduation, siblings bond instead ❤️

Ancient-Transition-4 | Ancient-Transition-4

Commenter calls out family's lack of basic courtesy during dinner.

ArcheryOnThursday | ArcheryOnThursday

Find a new family who appreciates you 🤗

physhfood | physhfood

Cutting off toxic family: a difficult but necessary choice 🚪

winsomebunny | winsomebunny

Commenter declares NTA, but hates the family. 🙄

elizabethjanet | elizabethjanet

Disappointing Parents: Graduation vs. Piano Recital 🤷🏼‍♀️

Algebralovr | Algebralovr

"NTA. Almost sounds like your parents, uncles, aunts etc. would immediately comply should your cousin want to commit mass murder or rob a bank." 😂

DynkoFromTheNorth | DynkoFromTheNorth

Choosing to cut off toxic family members is valid 🙅‍♀️

TrustedTriangle | TrustedTriangle

Commenter calls daughter a brat for feeling forgotten. 🙄

thedelightfulidiot | thedelightfulidiot

Put yourself first and distance from them. 🙅‍♀️

Embersmom83 | Embersmom83

Commenter empathizes with OP and advises not to blame niece.

Cheetah2050 | Cheetah2050

Agreed! 🙌 Parents need to prioritize their children's feelings.

unjessicabiel_evable | unjessicabiel_evable

Parents ditch daughter during dinner outing - NTA feels forgotten 💔

Atranswhovian | Atranswhovian

Commenter empathizes with the daughter's situation and explains cultural differences 🤷

Unit-Healthy | Unit-Healthy

Parents prioritize cousin over daughter at family dinner outing 🍽️

ethicallywicked | ethicallywicked

Commenter advises to prioritize mental health and move on from parents.

likecommentsurvive | likecommentsurvive

Commenter backs daughter, calls behavior unacceptable ❌

CakeEatingRabbit | CakeEatingRabbit

Supportive comment, don't apologize for calling out bad behavior 👍

Cherrygrove-elk | Cherrygrove-elk

Redditor considers new account to avoid family seeing thread. 🤔

shevon_lim | shevon_lim

Commenter empathizes with daughter, congratulates her on graduation 🎓

Jaded-Improvement355 | Jaded-Improvement355

Feeling 'forgotten' by parents, commenter suggests cutting contact 🤔

Educational_Cup9850 | Educational_Cup9850

Cut them off 🚫, they don't deserve your attention 💔

dianaprince2022 | dianaprince2022

Commenter expresses disapproval towards parents' behavior at dinner.

Techgruber | Techgruber

Commenter suggests therapy for neglected daughter, but warns against family therapy 💬👩‍⚕️

piercingeye | piercingeye

NTA for feeling bad, but also concern for the underpaid helper 😔

greensandgrains | greensandgrains

Choosing to spend time with toxic parents is optional. NTA 🙌

frenziedmonkey | frenziedmonkey

Agreeing with the comment, parents seem thoughtless 🤔

Ok_Smell_8260 | Ok_Smell_8260

Parents prioritize phones over daughter during family outing. NTA.

hugs81 | hugs81

Cultural background influences family dynamics, commenters share experiences 🌍

yourpopcornandtea | yourpopcornandtea

Congrats on graduation! Consider going low-contact with neglectful family.

Scientist_hottie | Scientist_hottie

Cutting toxic people out of your life is sometimes necessary 🚪

Queen_Andromeda | Queen_Andromeda

Feeling neglected by parents, commenter considers going low-contact. 🤔

BrinedBrittanica | BrinedBrittanica

Navigating family dynamics can be tough. You're NTA! 😅

Typical_Travel5212 | Typical_Travel5212

This NTA comment offers a humorous solution to family issues 😂

ProStacy62 | ProStacy62

Take your space and do things you want without inviting them 👍

Witty_Ad_5790 | Witty_Ad_5790

Living with parents is common in Asian culture, affects relationships.

Objective_Oil_7934 | Objective_Oil_7934

Feeling invisible at family dinner 🙁

Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet

Humorous offer to be a new parent for forgotten daughter 😁

maclaglen | maclaglen

Agreeing with commenter's NTA and negative sentiment.

Mabelisms | Mabelisms

Parents' missed college graduation is terrible, NTA for feeling forgotten.

hammocks_ | hammocks_

Redditors share their stories about the entitled niece. 🤔

MooseTek | MooseTek

Empathetic response to comment and helpful suggestion for OP's predicament ❤️

HunterZealousideal30 | HunterZealousideal30

Parents and siblings abandon daughter at restaurant. Not cool! 😠

lonnielee3 | lonnielee3

Savage response to neglectful parents during family dinner.

throwawayag7 | throwawayag7

Wild theory suggests cousin is dad's daughter, OP not the a**hole

mdevey91 | mdevey91

Cutting toxic family out of your life. 👌 NTA.

DubiousPeoplePleaser | DubiousPeoplePleaser

Supportive comment encourages going no contact with family. 🙌

messylightning34 | messylightning34

Cutting ties with family might be the tough but right decision 💔

Vivid-Masterpiece-29 | Vivid-Masterpiece-29

Commenter expresses disinterest in marriage and children due to family drama.

NefariousnessSweet70 | NefariousnessSweet70

Find people who appreciate you and limit contact with family 💕

Warm-Associate-3475 | Warm-Associate-3475

NTA's cousin's entitled behavior will lead her to trouble ⚠️

celeste_04 | celeste_04

Congratulations on graduation, time to cut toxic parents out 🎓

AggravatingPatient18 | AggravatingPatient18

Supportive comment offers adoption and advice on family abandonment. ❤️

Defiant-Arugula8276 | Defiant-Arugula8276

Commenter sympathizes with victim and calls out parents' favoritism.

DinoDracko | DinoDracko

Graduation over piano recital? Totally agree! 🎓👍

jenesuisunefemme | jenesuisunefemme

Dealing with family favoritism: build your own happiness ❤️

calaan | calaan

Commenter advises OP to value themselves and move on without emotionally neglectful parents.

Suelswalker | Suelswalker

Curious about the length of the phone call? 🤔

291000610478021 | 291000610478021

Don't bottle up your feelings. Talk to your parents! 👍

Basicallylana | Basicallylana

Supportive comment thread defends against possible emotional abuse. 💪

ZealousidealTruth775 | ZealousidealTruth775