When a family decides to dine out, and the daughter has to answer a phone call, she returns to find that her parents and family have left her behind. Later, she finds out that they have gone to buy her cousin ice cream. The daughter is upset that her parents put her cousin's wants above hers, and her parents and uncle's family are mad at her for being upset. She wonders if she's the a**hole for being mad.
Daughter Feels 'Forgotten' By Parents During Family Dinner Outing
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The struggle of feeling forgotten in a big family 🤔
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When family outings become exclusive👀
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Daughter feels neglected during family outing, lashes out at parents.
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Feeling ignored by family during dinner outing, but not about ice-cream
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AITA? Join the debate on family dynamics at dinner.
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Daughter left stranded and forgotten by parents during family dinner 😔
Family dynamics can be complicated, especially regarding age gaps and favoritism. In this post, a daughter expresses her frustration with feeling forgotten by her parents during a family dinner outing. Despite being stranded and unable to reach her family, they left without her to get her cousin an ice cream. This has led to a blow-up and tension within the family, with the daughter being accused of overreacting. How would you feel in this situation? Have you ever felt left out or forgotten by your family? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.
Parents prioritize cousin's piano recital over daughter's college graduation. NTA
bad-luck-psyduck | bad-luck-psyduck
Daughter's parents skipped her graduation for a piano recital. 😡
francescatoo | francescatoo
Parents' favoritism towards cousin could lead to future family estrangement 🤔
rak1882 | rak1882
Graduation snub? 😡 NTA takes extreme measures, but justified.
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Sarcastic NTA comment suggests passing off parents to cousin. 🙄
Unggue_Pot | Unggue_Pot
Commenter suggests going no contact with neglectful parents 🚫
Piper6728 | Piper6728
Parents prioritize niece over daughter's graduation, siblings bond instead ❤️
Ancient-Transition-4 | Ancient-Transition-4
Commenter calls out family's lack of basic courtesy during dinner.
ArcheryOnThursday | ArcheryOnThursday
Find a new family who appreciates you 🤗
physhfood | physhfood
Cutting off toxic family: a difficult but necessary choice 🚪
winsomebunny | winsomebunny
Commenter declares NTA, but hates the family. 🙄
elizabethjanet | elizabethjanet
Disappointing Parents: Graduation vs. Piano Recital 🤷🏼♀️
Algebralovr | Algebralovr
"NTA. Almost sounds like your parents, uncles, aunts etc. would immediately comply should your cousin want to commit mass murder or rob a bank." 😂
DynkoFromTheNorth | DynkoFromTheNorth
Choosing to cut off toxic family members is valid 🙅♀️
TrustedTriangle | TrustedTriangle
Commenter calls daughter a brat for feeling forgotten. 🙄
thedelightfulidiot | thedelightfulidiot
Put yourself first and distance from them. 🙅♀️
Embersmom83 | Embersmom83
Commenter empathizes with OP and advises not to blame niece.
Cheetah2050 | Cheetah2050
Agreed! 🙌 Parents need to prioritize their children's feelings.
unjessicabiel_evable | unjessicabiel_evable
Parents ditch daughter during dinner outing - NTA feels forgotten 💔
Atranswhovian | Atranswhovian
Commenter empathizes with the daughter's situation and explains cultural differences 🤷
Unit-Healthy | Unit-Healthy
Parents prioritize cousin over daughter at family dinner outing 🍽️
ethicallywicked | ethicallywicked
Commenter advises to prioritize mental health and move on from parents.
likecommentsurvive | likecommentsurvive
Commenter backs daughter, calls behavior unacceptable ❌
CakeEatingRabbit | CakeEatingRabbit
Supportive comment, don't apologize for calling out bad behavior 👍
Cherrygrove-elk | Cherrygrove-elk
Redditor considers new account to avoid family seeing thread. 🤔
shevon_lim | shevon_lim
Commenter empathizes with daughter, congratulates her on graduation 🎓
Jaded-Improvement355 | Jaded-Improvement355
Feeling 'forgotten' by parents, commenter suggests cutting contact 🤔
Educational_Cup9850 | Educational_Cup9850
Cut them off 🚫, they don't deserve your attention 💔
dianaprince2022 | dianaprince2022
Commenter expresses disapproval towards parents' behavior at dinner.
Techgruber | Techgruber
Commenter suggests therapy for neglected daughter, but warns against family therapy 💬👩⚕️
piercingeye | piercingeye
NTA for feeling bad, but also concern for the underpaid helper 😔
greensandgrains | greensandgrains
Choosing to spend time with toxic parents is optional. NTA 🙌
frenziedmonkey | frenziedmonkey
Agreeing with the comment, parents seem thoughtless 🤔
Ok_Smell_8260 | Ok_Smell_8260
Parents prioritize phones over daughter during family outing. NTA.
hugs81 | hugs81
Cultural background influences family dynamics, commenters share experiences 🌍
yourpopcornandtea | yourpopcornandtea
Congrats on graduation! Consider going low-contact with neglectful family.
Scientist_hottie | Scientist_hottie
Cutting toxic people out of your life is sometimes necessary 🚪
Queen_Andromeda | Queen_Andromeda
Feeling neglected by parents, commenter considers going low-contact. 🤔
BrinedBrittanica | BrinedBrittanica
Navigating family dynamics can be tough. You're NTA! 😅
Typical_Travel5212 | Typical_Travel5212
This NTA comment offers a humorous solution to family issues 😂
ProStacy62 | ProStacy62
Take your space and do things you want without inviting them 👍
Witty_Ad_5790 | Witty_Ad_5790
Living with parents is common in Asian culture, affects relationships.
Objective_Oil_7934 | Objective_Oil_7934
Feeling invisible at family dinner 🙁
Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet
Humorous offer to be a new parent for forgotten daughter 😁
maclaglen | maclaglen
Agreeing with commenter's NTA and negative sentiment.
Mabelisms | Mabelisms
Parents' missed college graduation is terrible, NTA for feeling forgotten.
hammocks_ | hammocks_
Redditors share their stories about the entitled niece. 🤔
MooseTek | MooseTek
Empathetic response to comment and helpful suggestion for OP's predicament ❤️
HunterZealousideal30 | HunterZealousideal30
Parents and siblings abandon daughter at restaurant. Not cool! 😠
lonnielee3 | lonnielee3
Savage response to neglectful parents during family dinner.
throwawayag7 | throwawayag7
Wild theory suggests cousin is dad's daughter, OP not the a**hole
mdevey91 | mdevey91
Cutting toxic family out of your life. 👌 NTA.
DubiousPeoplePleaser | DubiousPeoplePleaser
Supportive comment encourages going no contact with family. 🙌
messylightning34 | messylightning34
Cutting ties with family might be the tough but right decision 💔
Vivid-Masterpiece-29 | Vivid-Masterpiece-29
Commenter expresses disinterest in marriage and children due to family drama.
NefariousnessSweet70 | NefariousnessSweet70
Find people who appreciate you and limit contact with family 💕
Warm-Associate-3475 | Warm-Associate-3475
NTA's cousin's entitled behavior will lead her to trouble ⚠️
celeste_04 | celeste_04
Congratulations on graduation, time to cut toxic parents out 🎓
AggravatingPatient18 | AggravatingPatient18
Supportive comment offers adoption and advice on family abandonment. ❤️
Defiant-Arugula8276 | Defiant-Arugula8276
Commenter sympathizes with victim and calls out parents' favoritism.
DinoDracko | DinoDracko
Graduation over piano recital? Totally agree! 🎓👍
jenesuisunefemme | jenesuisunefemme
Dealing with family favoritism: build your own happiness ❤️
calaan | calaan
Commenter advises OP to value themselves and move on without emotionally neglectful parents.
Suelswalker | Suelswalker
Curious about the length of the phone call? 🤔
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Don't bottle up your feelings. Talk to your parents! 👍
Basicallylana | Basicallylana
Supportive comment thread defends against possible emotional abuse. 💪
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