Stepmom Refuses to Host Christmas for Husband's Spoiled Daughter

Christmas Dinner
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What would you do if your husband's spoiled daughter acted like a toddler and threw tantrums well into her thirties? That's the dilemma one stepmom faces as she decides whether or not to host Christmas with her bratty stepdaughter in attendance. Despite her husband's pleas to invite his only blood family member, the stepmom refuses to cook for someone who constantly seeks attention and throws fits. Read on to discover the full story and share your thoughts on what she should do. 😡🎄

Stepmom shares honest thoughts about stepdaughter at marriage outset

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Spoiled daughter throws tantrums and never held accountable in life.

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Spoiled daughter throws tantrums, husband treats her like a toddler 🤔

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Spoiled daughter demands attention from busy husband, neglects children 🤷

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Stepmom struggles to please spoiled stepdaughter during Christmas. 🎄

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Spoiled stepdaughter wants all the attention during Christmas 🎄

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Stepmom frustrated with husband's daughter's behavior during Christmas preparations 🎄

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Avoiding Christmas with spoiled stepdaughter 😒🎄

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Stepmom unwilling to host Christmas due to family drama

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Stepmom doesn't want to host Christmas for husband's spoiled daughter 🎄

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Stepmom denies hosting Christmas for husband's entitled daughter 🎄

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Spoiled stepdaughter causes tension at wedding with inappropriate behavior.

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Spoiled stepdaughter throws tantrum at Christmas, demands attention and cake.

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Daughter's attention-seeking behavior ruins Christmas. 🎄

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Stepmom refuses to host Christmas for husband's entitled daughter 🎄

In this post, a stepmom vents about her husband's 35-year-old daughter who has never worked a day in her life and throws tantrums like a toddler. She is obsessed with her husband and demands attention even when he's at work. The stepmom made her a homemade sweater last Christmas and she accused her of wanting to humiliate her when she found out her daughter had the same one in a different color. She is smug about what her husband buys her and tries to imply that the stepmom's daughter is poor, despite her son-in-law making excellent money. The entitled daughter is not hosting Christmas this year due to a minor surgery, and the stepmom doesn't want to host either because of her behavior. The husband wants the stepmom to host and invite both of their daughters, but the stepmom refuses to spend Christmas with the entitled daughter. Read on to see how this family drama unfolds during the holiday season.

Enjoy Christmas with your daughter and new grandbaby 💜. Kill them with kindness and firm boundaries. NTA.

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Commenter suggests mental illness or poor parenting contributed to behavior.

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Stepmom rightfully declines to host Christmas for husband's entitled daughter 🙅‍♀️

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Don't volunteer to host if you don't want to. NTA 👍

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Spoiled 35-year-old stepdaughter throws tantrums like a toddler 🤦‍♀️

thekatamarikid | thekatamarikid

Commenter suggests professional help, but there's a catch 🥁

DogePerformance | DogePerformance

Stepmom justified in not wanting to host Christmas for disliked daughter 🎄

JudgeJudAITA | JudgeJudAITA

Stepmom left alone to host Christmas for spoiled daughter. 🎄

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Supporting daughter is top priority. Drama-free holidays are best 🎄

The_Turtle-Moves | The_Turtle-Moves

Spoiled daughter causes Christmas drama, stepmom not to blame 🎄

teresajs | teresajs

Spoiled stepdaughter causes chaos at wedding, NTA for refusing Christmas.

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Stepmom not the a**hole for not wanting to host Christmas.

BardicLasher | BardicLasher

Therapy may help set boundaries with husband's spoiled daughter. 🤝

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Stand up for yourself and your daughter. 💪 You're NTA.

AccousticMotorboat | AccousticMotorboat

Commenter sympathizes with OP's decision to not host stepdaughter and offers NTA judgement.

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Stepmom stands up to husband's entitled behavior during Christmas planning 🎄

imjusthereforaita | imjusthereforaita

Grandma stands her ground and chooses to spend Christmas with her daughter ❤️🎄

Adventurous-Low9768 | Adventurous-Low9768

Breast implants aside, stepmom not obligated to suffer Christmas hosting.

Chili_dawg2112 | Chili_dawg2112

Suggesting family therapy & solo holiday for stepmom 🔍👨‍👩‍👧‍👦🏖️

Keziah_70 | Keziah_70

Restaurant seems like a good option for a drama-free holiday 🍴

LoveBeach8 | LoveBeach8

Valid reasons for not hosting spoiled stepdaughter this Christmas 🎄

Intelligent-Ninja697 | Intelligent-Ninja697

Refusing to host Christmas for a spoiled daughter. NTA.

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Stepmom seeks advice on dealing with husband's difficult daughter

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Stepmom deals with entitled stepdaughter, husband avoids confrontation.

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Stepmom struggles with spoilt stepdaughter during Christmas 🎄

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Stand your ground! 💪 NTA for refusing to host Christmas.

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Avoiding holiday drama, stepmom takes a stand 🎄

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Enabling bad behavior creates entitled children 🧒🏼👑

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Commenter calls out fake story, others agree in replies 😒

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Wedding story drama: Over-the-top dress, love philosophy, and family issues 😱

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Lazy husband won't cook, but comments suggest it's fair game.

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Stepmom stands up against husband's spoiled daughter. NTA 👏

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NTA stands up against husband's spoiled daughter's childish tantrums 🙅‍♀️

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This stepmom deserves a break. NTA for wanting equality 🙌

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Agreeing with the struggle of dealing with difficult stepchildren 😩

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Suggesting therapy for spoiled step-daughter and a catered dinner 🍴

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Commenter asks about fake titty recovery, gets answer and update.

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Tension rises as stepmom questions her marriage to Rob 🤔

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Stepmom refuses to host Christmas for husband's entitled daughter.

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Commenter calls out both parties for being the a**holes 🤔

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Don't cancel your plans for a spoiled SD. NTA 👍

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Commenter sympathizes with stepmom, calls out husband and spoiled daughter. 😒

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Doubts about post's authenticity, but valid advice for OP's situation.

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Commenter calls out stepmom for being an a**hole, suggests compromise

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Lazy but practical solution to Christmas cooking dilemma 🍕

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Stepmom suggests professional help for husband's daughter, but husband in denial.

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Addressing possible neurodivergence and advocating for fair treatment.

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Boundaries set. Spend holidays with daughter. Avoid insufferable stepdaughter. 🎄

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Gender roles and bad behavior: A recipe for family drama 👩‍🍳🧑‍🍳

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Stepmom not at fault for refusing to host Christmas for stepdaughter 🎄

TheLavenderUnicorn | TheLavenderUnicorn

Smart idea to use Covid as an excuse to avoid drama 😉

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Ouch! That's a harsh comment with no replies.

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Daughter deserves a peaceful Christmas with her mom 🎄

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"Not liking his daughter is a problem, but not respecting it is worse" 🤔

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Concerns raised about daughter's mental health, father prioritizes gymnastics 🤔

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