Friend Upset With Me For Travelling, AITA For My Response?

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A woman's friend, who has four children, claimed that the woman had more freedom and no responsibilities due to her lack of children. The woman retorted by stating that her friend should have thought before having kids if she wanted more freedom. The argument ended with the friend leaving in a huff and now the woman is wondering if she was in the wrong. Read on to find out more about the situation and decide for yourself who was in the wrong.

Friend dropped out of college, now upset with me for travelling 🧳

traditional-poem-849 | traditional-poem-849

Struggling friend's life choices, a sensitive topic to navigate.

traditional-poem-849 | traditional-poem-849

Exciting travel plans, but friend upset. AITA for leaving?

traditional-poem-849 | traditional-poem-849

Defending my travel choices against judgement for not having kids 🌎✈️

traditional-poem-849 | traditional-poem-849

Standing up for my travel choices, dealing with friend's negativity 🧳

traditional-poem-849 | traditional-poem-849

Insensitive response to friend's concern, causing friction in relationship.

traditional-poem-849 | traditional-poem-849

🤯Friend storms out after disagreement about travel, AITA?🤷

traditional-poem-849 | traditional-poem-849

When a friend bad-mouths you for travelling, what to do?

traditional-poem-849 | traditional-poem-849

Did OP cross the line? AITA for snapping? 🤔

traditional-poem-849 | traditional-poem-849

Friend with 4 kids shames me for travelling, AITA?

A woman is shamed for travelling by her friend who has 4 accidental pregnancies. She shares her side of the story and asks if she is the a**hole. Read on to find out what happened and whether her response was justified.

Commenter suggests the friendship may have run its course, NTA 👍

thewhiterosequeen | thewhiterosequeen

Engaging in reproductive shaming and blaming, NTA comment sparks heated debate.

cadaverave | cadaverave

NTA for not wanting to carry burden of friend's 4 kids. 😊

theravenscall | theravenscall

NTA for standing up to a friend's unfounded accusations 🙅🏼‍♀️

Hitzsheila | Hitzsheila

NTA comment shuts down criticism of friend's irresponsible behavior. 🙌

DisneyBuckeye | DisneyBuckeye

Birth control debate sparks reproductive coercion concern 🤔

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Don't let anyone guilt-trip you for living your best life! 🌴🌞

subsailor1968 | subsailor1968

NTA shuts down friend's entitled whining about her life choices 🙌

cambridge_ax | cambridge_ax

Traveling without kids? Friend can't handle the truth. NTA 😎

Biomax315 | Biomax315

Mom approves of OP's travel, encourages thoughtful decision-making 👍

defnotwhouthink | defnotwhouthink

Friend shames OP's success; cut toxic people out of life 💪

The_Confectionerd | The_Confectionerd

Friend shames traveler for not having kids, NTA response 👍

KatKaleen | KatKaleen

Repeated mistakes or intentional? NTA for travel decision.

Responsible-Mall2222 | Responsible-Mall2222

NTA delivers truth bomb and questions possible unprotected sex 🤔

beito14159 | beito14159

Friend accuses OP of slacking off while being jealous, NTA.

Straight-Singer-2912 | Straight-Singer-2912

Questioning the unwise decision of having four accidental pregnancies.

Suspicious_Cat4200 | Suspicious_Cat4200

Don't feel guilty for your success 💪, NTA 👍

Molly_Hatchett | Molly_Hatchett

Unplanned pregnancies and blame game, NTA holds up.

UglyDucky_00 | UglyDucky_00

No regrets, no apologies. You're not the a**hole! 🙌

baltimoron21211 | baltimoron21211

Mother's resentment towards her kids, NTA for OP's response 🤔

ToasTeaMage | ToasTeaMage

Travel regrets shared, encourage others to travel responsibly 🌎

ShyTulip | ShyTulip

Not the a-hole for calling out friend's carelessness 🤷‍♀️

Disavowed_Snail | Disavowed_Snail

Supportive comment reminds us to prioritize our own happiness 🙌

MaybeAWalrus | MaybeAWalrus

Commenter defends OP's choice, implies friend is being unreasonable 🤷‍♀️

Sea_Cobbler_7597 | Sea_Cobbler_7597

NTA defends against friend's jealousy with humor 👍🏼

Chargednotconvicted | Chargednotconvicted

Commenter calls out poor life choices, NTA confirmed 👍

tagenero | tagenero

You're not responsible for her choices. NTA 👍

PsiBlaze | PsiBlaze

Support for NTA's response to friend's comment about having kids

Imaginary_Being1949 | Imaginary_Being1949

Keep travelling and building your life 🌍👍 Your friend is TA.

stinstin555 | stinstin555

Jealous friend accuses, but OP's NTA. Travel envy much? ✈️

smackof_ham | smackof_ham

Sharing travel plans with friend caused resentment, NTA.

Few_Boat_6623 | Few_Boat_6623

Savage response to friend's jealousy, NTA wins.

SirPotterOfHogwarts | SirPotterOfHogwarts

Friend jealous of travel, NTA's truth hurts 🌍😎

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No kids, no opinion 🤷‍♀️

AlwaysrightarentI | AlwaysrightarentI

Comment defends OP and criticizes friend's parenting choices. 🤔

jgalt5042 | jgalt5042

Making tough choices and dealing with consequences, 🤔

mommaobrailey | mommaobrailey

Responsibility for decisions. Friend's unhappiness not your problem. NTA.

lens_focus22 | lens_focus22

Don't let others bring you down with their jealousy! 🙌

Kenobi030420 | Kenobi030420

Using birth control is a choice, having 4 unplanned pregnancies isn't 😳 #NTA

pudgesquire | pudgesquire

Commenter is NTA and questions how someone accidentally has 4 kids 🤔

Cpt_Lazlo | Cpt_Lazlo

Enjoy Europe without guilt! 🌍👍

stuckonCallowagain | stuckonCallowagain

No travel shaming! 🧳 NTA for setting boundaries.

Cosacita | Cosacita

Taking responsibility for one's actions, NTA comment section. 🙌

MediocreWitness726 | MediocreWitness726

Education is important, but so is supporting a friend's dreams 🌍🎓

lestatisalive | lestatisalive

Encouraging friend to travel later in life, NTA.

aspergianwoman | aspergianwoman

Live your life 🌴 without guilt, NTA. Birth control exists 😉

PrestigiousWedding36 | PrestigiousWedding36

Friend's hypocrisy exposed, NTA wins the argument! 🙌

pennywhistlesmoonpie | pennywhistlesmoonpie

Respondent empathizes with OP and criticizes friend's behavior 👍

KickIt77 | KickIt77

Travel shaming? NTA calmly responds to friend's passive-aggressive comment.

Nordic_Nights | Nordic_Nights

Harsh comment on unplanned pregnancies, lacks empathy. 🤔

ChemicalWitty | ChemicalWitty

Embrace your lifestyle and find like-minded friends! 🌴👯‍♀️

atthecity | atthecity

Embrace your freedom 🕊️ and don't feel guilty. NTA.

Sufficient-Ice-5890 | Sufficient-Ice-5890

Live your own life, 🙌 you're not the a**hole here.

snchills | snchills

NTA for choosing to travel and standing up for yourself 💪

hannahsflora | hannahsflora

Travel envy? NTA for living your life 🌴😎

HPNerd44 | HPNerd44

Friendship over? NTA but sometimes people grow apart 😔

Bitter-Conflict-4089 | Bitter-Conflict-4089

Your friend's choices are not your responsibility! 🙌🏼

mzpljc | mzpljc

Speaking the truth can be tough 😬

AliceThrewTheGlass19 | AliceThrewTheGlass19

Don't let her bring you down! 👊 Your choices, your life. #NTA

Iona_Normal | Iona_Normal

Travel drama with a friend? NTA, it's not your fault 🌍

ZombieBait2 | ZombieBait2

Travel guilt-free with this NTA comment 👍

Common_Exam_1401 | Common_Exam_1401

Friendship over? 🤷‍♀️ NTA stands their ground 👍

ResponsibilityNo3245 | ResponsibilityNo3245

Jealousy detected! OP is NTA 🙌

GreenGengar1982 | GreenGengar1982

Sometimes the truth hurts 😔

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Travel freedom defended, NTA wins with confidence 👍🏼✈️

angel_4242 | angel_4242

Taking responsibility for your choices. NTA 👍

Kind_Cryptographer65 | Kind_Cryptographer65

Supportive comment sparks sarcastic clap back from OP. 😂

Megmca | Megmca

Sometimes, honesty hurts 🤷‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

No judgement here. Comment defends personal choice and responsibility 👍

Acrobatic_End6355 | Acrobatic_End6355

Empathizing with OP's situation and calling out the friend's behavior. 🤔

Ejclincoln | Ejclincoln

NTA comment calls out repetitive behavior with humorous analogy 🤣

Well_red_1431 | Well_red_1431

NTA claps back at hypocritical friend, sparks debate.

Sad_Bicycle9848 | Sad_Bicycle9848

Travel shaming shut down with witty response, NTA 👏✈️

Proser84 | Proser84

Making friends as a parent: the struggle is real 😫

StrawberryBerry98765 | StrawberryBerry98765

Friend goaded OP out of jealousy, friendship at risk. 🤷‍♀️

lovepotao | lovepotao

Mom defends OP's travel decision, NTA confirmed 👍

Blacksmith_Kitchen | Blacksmith_Kitchen

NTA claps back at friend's criticism, wins with truth bomb 💣

MissAnth | MissAnth