Bridezilla Wants Daughter To Bake Wedding Cake, Groom Refuses

Alfe Mercado
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A dad wants his daughter to bake his wedding cake, but his fiancé is not allowing it. Is the dad being unreasonable or is the fiancé being too controlling? This story from r/amithea**hole has caused quite the stir on social media, with people divided on who is in the wrong. Read on to find out more about this family feud and share your opinion on the matter. Will you side with the dad or the fiancé in this conflict over a wedding cake?

Teen daughter's baking passion sparks Bridezilla's wedding cake demands.

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Bridezilla wants daughter to bake wedding cake, groom disagrees 🎂

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Bridezilla insists daughter bake cake; groom says no. Drama ensues.

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Groom refuses daughter baking wedding cake, calls it a joke 🎂

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Mother demands daughter bake wedding cake, groom objects. Drama ensues.

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Momzilla insists daughter bakes wedding cake, groom resists 🎂

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Groom refuses bridezilla's request for daughter to bake wedding cake.

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Groom's mom suggests 'professional' cake, bride's daughter to bake cupcakes.

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Bride pushed to let daughter bake cake, but sentiment matters more ❤️

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Bride wants daughter to bake wedding cake, groom objects 🎂👰

A bride-to-be is facing a dilemma after her fiancé refused to let her daughter bake their wedding cake. The daughter, who has a passion for baking, had agreed to bake and decorate the cake for the small family wedding. However, the groom insisted that it was a "f*cking joke" and that they needed a professional baker to make a decent looking and tasting cake. The argument continued for over two hours with the groom's mother suggesting they compromise by having the daughter bake cupcakes instead. Despite this, the bride remains adamant that her daughter should be allowed to bake the cake as a sentimental gesture. The situation has caused tension between the couple and highlights the struggle between traditional wedding customs and personal sentiment. In the next section, we'll take a look at comments and reactions from readers who have experienced similar wedding planning dilemmas.

NTA. Dump him. He went crying to mommy to fix it.

StonewallBrigade21 | StonewallBrigade21

Red flags everywhere! Don't marry him, for your daughter's sake 😬

PriceyChemistry | PriceyChemistry

🚩🚩🚩 Red flag alert: If he can't handle conflicts with you, how will he handle conflicts with others? 🙅‍♀️

NickelPickle2018 | NickelPickle2018

Bride-to-be's future groom shows concerning behavior over cake request 😬

Britsgirl30 | Britsgirl30

Bride wants daughter to bake wedding cake, groom objects.

ScienceNotKids | ScienceNotKids

NTA. Groom's hurtful delivery and future problems with mother-in-law.

bipolarlibra314 | bipolarlibra314

Mother wants daughter to bake wedding cake, groom prefers professional cake

Chantalle22 | Chantalle22

Bride and groom need to compromise on wedding plans 💒💍

FuckUGalen | FuckUGalen

Compromise is key! A trial cake run could be perfect 🎂

SoOverThisAlready | SoOverThisAlready

Groom's mom offers input, but is it too much? 🤔

_depressedavocado | _depressedavocado

Mother thinks daughter baking wedding cake is sweet, fiancé disagrees 😕

classicgirl1990 | classicgirl1990

Groom's unusual reaction raises red flags. Should bride reevaluate?

joebusch79 | joebusch79

Bridezilla wants daughter to bake cake, groom refuses. ESH.

SDstartingOut | SDstartingOut

Encourage daughter to bake cake for wedding; involve Fiancé in tasting 🎂

GenderThievingThing | GenderThievingThing

Defending daughter against dismissive groom, questioning relationship. 🤔

ShallWeStartThen | ShallWeStartThen

Bride asked daughter to bake wedding cake without groom's input. Both at fault.

Kind-Philosopher1 | Kind-Philosopher1

Bridezilla demands daughter bake cake, groom runs to mommy. NTA.

TakenUsername120184 | TakenUsername120184

Groom's behavior raises eyebrows in NTA comment thread 👀

Smokepit-Squirrel | Smokepit-Squirrel

Groom's behavior raises concerns, daughter baking cake not the issue. 💍

Swampman5000 | Swampman5000

Discussing wedding plans with your partner is crucial for harmony 👍

Lowland-lady | Lowland-lady

NTA defends bride, while comment replies expose groom's immaturity 🙄

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Groom prioritizes guests' opinions over bride's and daughter's happiness 🤦‍♂️ NTA

jojozabadu | jojozabadu

Comment section full of support for OP's witty comment 😂

Glittering_Joke3438 | Glittering_Joke3438

Wedding planning woes: Bride and groom not on same page 🍰💍

HoldFastO2 | HoldFastO2

Toxic relationship alert! 🚨 NTA but ESH for involving daughter.

Brainjacker | Brainjacker

NTA bride-to-be receives concerning reaction from groom and future MIL.

OhioPolitiTHIC | OhioPolitiTHIC

Everyone sucks, except the daughter. Bridezilla, manipulative; groom, rude; MIL, nosy.

Sparkle__M0tion | Sparkle__M0tion

Compromise is key in relationships. 🍰👨‍👩‍👧‍👦❤️

LadyKlepsydra | LadyKlepsydra

Bridezilla's daughter to bake wedding cake despite lack of skills. ESH.

billybigkid | billybigkid

Daughter's talent surprises groomzilla who tattles to mommy. NTA.

RighteousVengeance | RighteousVengeance

Groom's overreaction and mother's interference are red flags. NTA.

SophieEisenheim | SophieEisenheim

Groom prioritizes reputation over daughter, trust issues arise. 🤔

whatsmypassword73 | whatsmypassword73

Daughter caught in the middle of bridezilla and future MIL 😖

Max_at_Red | Max_at_Red

Supportive comment to NTA, calling out disrespectful ex

AMW131 | AMW131

Is this groom worth marrying? 🤔

Careful_Swan3830 | Careful_Swan3830

Groom's behavior raises red flags, deep reflection necessary before marrying 💍

Buttercup_Bride | Buttercup_Bride

Protect your daughter, not your fiancé. 👏

cardamom808 | cardamom808

Mommy's boy strikes again! OP in trouble 😬

veni_vidi_dixi | veni_vidi_dixi

Mom's call after groom's refusal is a red flag 🚩

LongjumpingCheck3181 | LongjumpingCheck3181

Don't be a mama's boy, NTA and move on 💪

nkolenic | nkolenic

NTA bride-to-be clashes with groom over sentimental wedding cake.

bmyst70 | bmyst70

Compromise is key 🍰 Practice cake might change his mind.

Gwynnether | Gwynnether

Spouses make independent plans, but seek backup from in-laws. ESH 💍👰

ewlyn | ewlyn

Supportive comment with humorous reply to groom's situation 😂

leesawithtwoes | leesawithtwoes

Bride's demand for daughter to bake cake causes family drama. ESH.

AimMick | AimMick

Encouraging daughter's talent, but involving mom at 41? 🤔

Affectionate-Bat6880 | Affectionate-Bat6880

Compromise is key! Let daughter practice, show husband her talent 💍🎂

Achterstallig | Achterstallig

Support for OP and concern over future MIL interference 🤔

mapachin3000 | mapachin3000

Groom's mom calls to complain about daughter's cake baking skills 🤔

PanamaViejo | PanamaViejo

Sweet gesture from daughter creates wedding drama 🎂

Kris82868 | Kris82868

Don't let his momzilla tendencies ruin your life 🚫👩‍👧‍👦

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

Stepdad refuses daughter's wedding cake, prioritizes other's opinion. NTA 💍👨‍👩‍👧

Spare-Article-396 | Spare-Article-396

Don't settle for a man who can't stand up for you! 👸🏼

RushxInfinite | RushxInfinite

Stepfather-to-be's rude behavior towards daughter raises red flags. 💔

DinosaurDomination | DinosaurDomination

Fiancé's refusal to stand up to bridezilla raises red flags 😬

Chelular07 | Chelular07

Groom refuses to let daughter bake cake, potential red flags 🚩

IllustriousResist427 | IllustriousResist427

Bride and groom clash over cake, both refuse compromise. ESH 🎂💍

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Stepdad's power play undermines bride's daughter's abilities 🤨

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Mom defends daughter's baking skills, calls out groom's immaturity 😠

Lymantria24 | Lymantria24

Red flag alert! 🚩 Don't ignore the warning signs. 💔

kangero0o0o | kangero0o0o

Groom calls his mom to back him up on wedding cake? 🙄

Kingfish1111 | Kingfish1111

Bride wants daughter to bake cake, groom's opinion reveals issues. ESH.

isamotte | isamotte

Postpone wedding, sort out issues with fiancé and his mother 🤔

MadTom65 | MadTom65

Mom defends daughter's baking skills in wedding feud 🍰

kuriny | kuriny

Fiancée acting like an a**hole for not letting daughter bake cake 😒

kelloggsandweetbix | kelloggsandweetbix

Creative breakup cake suggestion amidst family drama. 🎂💔

Bella_Lunatic | Bella_Lunatic