Fiance's Family Demands 7k for Holiday Trip, AITA for Refusing?

A woman is facing a difficult decision after her in-laws demanded she pays $7k to participate in their holiday traditions. Despite being excited about the opportunity, the woman cannot afford the expense as she is a mother to a chronically ill child and has an emergency fund set aside for him. When she declined the offer, her in-laws and fiancé pressured her to change her mind. She turned to the AITA subreddit to ask if she was in the wrong for refusing to participate. Some commenters supported her decision, while others suggested compromising by asking her in-laws to help with the cost or finding a cheaper alternative. What do you think? Should she stick to her decision or try to find a compromise? Share your thoughts in the comments below.