Colleague Confesses Love, Husband Demands I Quit Job

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An unexpected confession from a colleague reveals his love for her. After sharing drafts of her response with her husband, he demands she quit her job. The situation escalates when she finds herself locked out of her own home. Is she the a**hole for not quitting her job to appease her husband's demands? Read on to find out what happened and how she's planning to move forward.

Navigating workplace romance and ultimatums from spouse. ❤️💼

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Unexpected confession turns workplace into a love triangle 😍

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Managing office romance with the help of my husband ❤️

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Husband demands job quit after colleague's confession 😡

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Navigating workplace boundaries after a colleague's confession. 💔

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Husband locks me out for falling in love with colleague

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Career vs Love: When to compromise? 🤔

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Husband demands wife to quit job. Love confession fallout. 💔

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Taking time off to sort out love confession and marital issues.

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Seeking support from family after difficult work situation ❤️

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Making tough choices after colleague's confession. 🤔❤️

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Setting boundaries in marriage after colleague confesses love. ❤️

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Overwhelmed but safe after revealing colleague's confession to husband ❤️

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Police intervene in family dispute over belongings 🚨👮

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Divorce imminent after colleague's confession and husband's ultimatum 💔

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Can love and career coexist? 💔🤔

A confession of love from a colleague has turned into a nightmare for one Reddit user. After rejecting her colleague's advances, her husband demanded that she quit her job. But when she refused, her husband took drastic measures and locked her out of their home. Despite her husband's ultimatum, she refuses to quit her job, which is vital to her career. Now, she's seeking advice on how to navigate the tricky work dynamic with her colleague while also dealing with her husband's irrational behavior. Is it possible to have a successful career and a healthy relationship? Read on to find out what Reddit users had to say, and how the situation escalated to a physical confrontation.

Don't let your husband's insecurities ruin your career 💼👩‍💻

vampaelin | vampaelin

Stand your ground, leave the toxic marriage. 👏

yuhju | yuhju

Spouse's reaction sounds like projection, consider snooping or PI

Lorelei7772 | Lorelei7772

Locking spouse out of home is abusive, consider police involvement ⚠️

envy-adams | envy-adams

Don't let a colleague's unrequited love ruin your career 💼

Comfortablynumb_10 | Comfortablynumb_10

Husband's extreme reaction may be a red flag 🚩

Animegirl300 | Animegirl300

Empowering advice: Stand up to abuse, dump the loser husband.

blainegoss | blainegoss

Dump the a**hole husband and keep the job! ✊🏽

Squishy-Box | Squishy-Box

Husband demands she quit job after colleague confesses love 😡

ApprehensiveAd7893 | ApprehensiveAd7893

Your husband's behavior is controlling and potentially dangerous. Leave him.

SunHatPhoto | SunHatPhoto

Pushing away a woman is the worst thing a man can do 😤

SunnySunday2020 | SunnySunday2020

Stand your ground and seek legal help. You deserve better. 💪

HapaMari | HapaMari

Get a lawyer and get rid of this insane man 👩‍⚖️💼

MarshmelonWitch | MarshmelonWitch

Stand your ground and keep your job 💪🏼

mialles | mialles

NTA for not quitting job, prioritize your safety and well-being. 🚨

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive commenters urge OP to leave controlling husband 🙏

Etjor | Etjor

Partner blames victim for harassment, NTA and seek support.

teahabit | teahabit

Supportive comment advises talking to someone at work about husband's behavior ❤️

Jess1ca1467 | Jess1ca1467

Seek legal help and stay safe 💪👩‍⚖️

InvaderDrey14 | InvaderDrey14

When a colleague confesses love and your husband demands you quit 🤔

anonymous101b | anonymous101b

Husband's extreme reaction to love confession- NTA comment section 😳

fuckimtrash | fuckimtrash

Red flags in relationship, seek help and support ❤️

Adelinelaughs | Adelinelaughs

Commenter questions why OP sees husband's actions as a tantrum 😳

nina2ninja | nina2ninja

Husband's reaction - insane or projecting? 🤔

Sternjunk | Sternjunk

Red flags in the relationship, prioritize safety and leave ASAP 🚨

9300fathoms | 9300fathoms

Commenter not in the wrong, no replies to spark debate

Reddichino | Reddichino

Believe their actions, not their words. Choose yourself. 👏

HarnessMeDesignsOUB | HarnessMeDesignsOUB

Spouse's insecurity and immaturity exposed, time to move on 💔

jgalt5042 | jgalt5042

Spouse demands job quit over colleague's confession. Get a lawyer.

le_tw4tson | le_tw4tson

Commenter calls out husband's toxic behavior in love confession situation 💔

techie2200 | techie2200

Juicy suspicion, what's your take? 🤔🕵️‍♀️

Good_Boat8761 | Good_Boat8761

Don't let your husband control you. Contact a lawyer ASAP! 🚨

johndough1958 | johndough1958

Seek legal help immediately, this is not just social friction

ShadowFox1987 | ShadowFox1987

Don't let your husband's insecurity ruin your career and life 🙅‍♀️

faeriechyld | faeriechyld

Commenter not in the wrong, no replies to support

Vedis-4444 | Vedis-4444

Divorce may be the only solution 💔

kanna172014 | kanna172014

Toxic men at work and home? Lawyer up and speak out! 💼🤝💔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Don't sacrifice your career for a controlling husband 🚫💼

20Keller12 | 20Keller12

Husband changed locks on YOUR house? Lawyer up now 💼

thisissofi | thisissofi

Why do some people see it as okay to kick someone out?

MuttonJohn | MuttonJohn

Unlearn 'good girl conditioning', evidence for HR, negotiate return home. 💪

Prestigious-Tea6514 | Prestigious-Tea6514

Commenter is not the a**hole for rejecting colleague's love confession.

heatherleanne | heatherleanne

Husband's insecurity leads to job ultimatum 😒

tmoney523 | tmoney523

When love and loyalty collide...💔

Brock_Way | Brock_Way

Empowerment alert: standing up to toxic relationships 💪🏼

Fistouil | Fistouil

Husband demands wife quit job over crush, internet supports wife

SigSauerPower320 | SigSauerPower320

A heartwarming story of a husband's trust in his wife ❤️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Take legal action against abusive husband, NTA for leaving.

inasuma | inasuma

Spouse's possessiveness raises red flags, might be projecting their infidelity 💔

cynical_navi | cynical_navi

Supportive comment calls out husband's behavior as 'childish' and 'manipulative' 👏

Good_Comparison7402 | Good_Comparison7402

Colleague confessed love, now what? Delayed response causing anxiety.

OneMikeNation | OneMikeNation

Husband changes locks and demands job resignation over coworker's crush. NTA.

Past-Disaster7986 | Past-Disaster7986

Husband demands job quit after colleague confession? NTA. Leave him. 👏

CitronCommercial1071 | CitronCommercial1071

Get a lawyer 💼. He's serious. NTA.

Pretend-Panda | Pretend-Panda

Inherited house, no a-hole here. Kick him out! 👏🏻

Immediate_Shoe_6649 | Immediate_Shoe_6649

Career over husband? NTA stands up to controlling partner 🙌

CantfindanameARGH | CantfindanameARGH

Don't let your husband's inappropriate attitude ruin your career! 🚫👩‍💼

[deleted] | [deleted]

Stand your ground! NTA 💪🚫

Unprofessional_Frog | Unprofessional_Frog

Don't risk your job over his insecurities, get a lawyer 💼

[deleted] | [deleted]

Don't quit your job. Get a lawyer and stay safe. 💪

[deleted] | [deleted]

Don't let him take your career and power away! Get a lawyer 🙌

ambamshazam | ambamshazam

Supportive spouse turns unsupportive, redditor not at fault. ❤️

Peony-Pink | Peony-Pink

Commenter questions husband's behavior towards disliked family members.

MuaddibMcFly | MuaddibMcFly

Seek legal advice and don't blame colleague for husband's behavior. 💼👩‍💼

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

Protect yourself and call the police. Stay safe! 🚔

ceceett | ceceett

Take back control of your home 🏡💪

Pretend_Green9127 | Pretend_Green9127

Choose wisely: a**hole husband or a**hole-less life? 🤔

Eats_Dead_Things | Eats_Dead_Things

Don't let your husband hold you back from your career 💪🏼

Camillionaire94 | Camillionaire94

Partner's jealousy ruins colleague's confession. NTA, but now what?

wanderingmind47 | wanderingmind47

Rejecting a colleague's advances, seeking support from husband, NTA 😊

cashycallow | cashycallow