An unexpected confession from a colleague reveals his love for her. After sharing drafts of her response with her husband, he demands she quit her job. The situation escalates when she finds herself locked out of her own home. Is she the a**hole for not quitting her job to appease her husband's demands? Read on to find out what happened and how she's planning to move forward.
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A confession of love from a colleague has turned into a nightmare for one Reddit user. After rejecting her colleague's advances, her husband demanded that she quit her job. But when she refused, her husband took drastic measures and locked her out of their home. Despite her husband's ultimatum, she refuses to quit her job, which is vital to her career. Now, she's seeking advice on how to navigate the tricky work dynamic with her colleague while also dealing with her husband's irrational behavior. Is it possible to have a successful career and a healthy relationship? Read on to find out what Reddit users had to say, and how the situation escalated to a physical confrontation.
Don't let your husband's insecurities ruin your career 💼👩💻
vampaelin | vampaelin
Stand your ground, leave the toxic marriage. 👏
yuhju | yuhju
Spouse's reaction sounds like projection, consider snooping or PI
Lorelei7772 | Lorelei7772
Locking spouse out of home is abusive, consider police involvement ⚠️
envy-adams | envy-adams
Don't let a colleague's unrequited love ruin your career 💼
Comfortablynumb_10 | Comfortablynumb_10
Husband's extreme reaction may be a red flag 🚩
Animegirl300 | Animegirl300
Empowering advice: Stand up to abuse, dump the loser husband.
blainegoss | blainegoss
Dump the a**hole husband and keep the job! ✊🏽
Squishy-Box | Squishy-Box
Husband demands she quit job after colleague confesses love 😡
ApprehensiveAd7893 | ApprehensiveAd7893
Your husband's behavior is controlling and potentially dangerous. Leave him.
SunHatPhoto | SunHatPhoto
Pushing away a woman is the worst thing a man can do 😤
SunnySunday2020 | SunnySunday2020
Stand your ground and seek legal help. You deserve better. 💪
HapaMari | HapaMari
Get a lawyer and get rid of this insane man 👩⚖️💼
MarshmelonWitch | MarshmelonWitch
Stand your ground and keep your job 💪🏼
mialles | mialles
NTA for not quitting job, prioritize your safety and well-being. 🚨
[deleted] | [deleted]
Supportive commenters urge OP to leave controlling husband 🙏
Etjor | Etjor
Partner blames victim for harassment, NTA and seek support.
teahabit | teahabit
Supportive comment advises talking to someone at work about husband's behavior ❤️
Jess1ca1467 | Jess1ca1467
Seek legal help and stay safe 💪👩⚖️
InvaderDrey14 | InvaderDrey14
When a colleague confesses love and your husband demands you quit 🤔
anonymous101b | anonymous101b
Husband's extreme reaction to love confession- NTA comment section 😳
fuckimtrash | fuckimtrash
Red flags in relationship, seek help and support ❤️
Adelinelaughs | Adelinelaughs
Commenter questions why OP sees husband's actions as a tantrum 😳
nina2ninja | nina2ninja
Husband's reaction - insane or projecting? 🤔
Sternjunk | Sternjunk
Red flags in the relationship, prioritize safety and leave ASAP 🚨
9300fathoms | 9300fathoms
Commenter not in the wrong, no replies to spark debate
Reddichino | Reddichino
Believe their actions, not their words. Choose yourself. 👏
HarnessMeDesignsOUB | HarnessMeDesignsOUB
Spouse's insecurity and immaturity exposed, time to move on 💔
jgalt5042 | jgalt5042
Spouse demands job quit over colleague's confession. Get a lawyer.
le_tw4tson | le_tw4tson
Commenter calls out husband's toxic behavior in love confession situation 💔
techie2200 | techie2200
Juicy suspicion, what's your take? 🤔🕵️♀️
Good_Boat8761 | Good_Boat8761
Don't let your husband control you. Contact a lawyer ASAP! 🚨
johndough1958 | johndough1958
Seek legal help immediately, this is not just social friction
ShadowFox1987 | ShadowFox1987
Don't let your husband's insecurity ruin your career and life 🙅♀️
faeriechyld | faeriechyld
Commenter not in the wrong, no replies to support
Vedis-4444 | Vedis-4444
Divorce may be the only solution 💔
kanna172014 | kanna172014
Toxic men at work and home? Lawyer up and speak out! 💼🤝💔
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Don't sacrifice your career for a controlling husband 🚫💼
20Keller12 | 20Keller12
Husband changed locks on YOUR house? Lawyer up now 💼
thisissofi | thisissofi
Why do some people see it as okay to kick someone out?
MuttonJohn | MuttonJohn
Unlearn 'good girl conditioning', evidence for HR, negotiate return home. 💪
Prestigious-Tea6514 | Prestigious-Tea6514
Commenter is not the a**hole for rejecting colleague's love confession.
heatherleanne | heatherleanne
Husband's insecurity leads to job ultimatum 😒
tmoney523 | tmoney523
When love and loyalty collide...💔
Brock_Way | Brock_Way
Empowerment alert: standing up to toxic relationships 💪🏼
Fistouil | Fistouil
Husband demands wife quit job over crush, internet supports wife
SigSauerPower320 | SigSauerPower320
A heartwarming story of a husband's trust in his wife ❤️
[deleted] | [deleted]
Take legal action against abusive husband, NTA for leaving.
inasuma | inasuma
Spouse's possessiveness raises red flags, might be projecting their infidelity 💔
cynical_navi | cynical_navi
Supportive comment calls out husband's behavior as 'childish' and 'manipulative' 👏
Good_Comparison7402 | Good_Comparison7402
Colleague confessed love, now what? Delayed response causing anxiety.
OneMikeNation | OneMikeNation
Husband changes locks and demands job resignation over coworker's crush. NTA.
Past-Disaster7986 | Past-Disaster7986
Husband demands job quit after colleague confession? NTA. Leave him. 👏
CitronCommercial1071 | CitronCommercial1071
Get a lawyer 💼. He's serious. NTA.
Pretend-Panda | Pretend-Panda
Inherited house, no a-hole here. Kick him out! 👏🏻
Immediate_Shoe_6649 | Immediate_Shoe_6649
Career over husband? NTA stands up to controlling partner 🙌
CantfindanameARGH | CantfindanameARGH
Don't let your husband's inappropriate attitude ruin your career! 🚫👩💼
[deleted] | [deleted]
Stand your ground! NTA 💪🚫
Unprofessional_Frog | Unprofessional_Frog
Don't risk your job over his insecurities, get a lawyer 💼
[deleted] | [deleted]
Don't quit your job. Get a lawyer and stay safe. 💪
[deleted] | [deleted]
Don't let him take your career and power away! Get a lawyer 🙌
ambamshazam | ambamshazam
Supportive spouse turns unsupportive, redditor not at fault. ❤️
Peony-Pink | Peony-Pink
Commenter questions husband's behavior towards disliked family members.
MuaddibMcFly | MuaddibMcFly
Seek legal advice and don't blame colleague for husband's behavior. 💼👩💼
Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113
Protect yourself and call the police. Stay safe! 🚔
ceceett | ceceett
Take back control of your home 🏡💪
Pretend_Green9127 | Pretend_Green9127
Choose wisely: a**hole husband or a**hole-less life? 🤔
Eats_Dead_Things | Eats_Dead_Things
Don't let your husband hold you back from your career 💪🏼
Camillionaire94 | Camillionaire94
Partner's jealousy ruins colleague's confession. NTA, but now what?
wanderingmind47 | wanderingmind47
Rejecting a colleague's advances, seeking support from husband, NTA 😊
cashycallow | cashycallow
