Wife's Husband Cancels Her Job Interview Without Her Knowledge

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This woman with disabilities had finally found a job after years of searching. But her husband canceled her interview without telling her. She flipped out on him for destroying her one and only chance of working again. But he said he was just concerned about her well-being.

Was she wrong to yell at him? Read on to find out more about the situation.

Starting anew after spouse deletes social media account without consent.

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Disabled woman's job interview canceled without her knowledge by husband

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Wife's husband breaks promise to share chores, sabotages job interview.

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Husband cancels wife's job interview without her knowledge 😠

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Husband cancels wife's interview to protect her from rejection 💔

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Wife accuses husband of sabotaging her job interview 👀

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Controlling husband cancels wife's job interview without her knowledge 😠

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Deleted wife's social media accounts, AITA for yelling at him? 😡

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Wife's only chance at job ruined by controlling husband 😡

In this story, a woman with physical disabilities lost her job in 2019 and agreed to let her husband become the breadwinner. However, he reneged on his promise to split the household chores and refused to help. When the wife found a potential work-from-home job and scheduled an interview, the husband secretly canceled it without her knowledge.

He claimed to be concerned about her well-being but the wife accused him of not wanting to share the household responsibilities. The husband has been cold-shouldering her since the argument and deleted her social media accounts. The wife questions whether she was wrong for yelling at him.

Read on for comments and reactions from people on Reddit.

NTA. This man has extreme control issues! RUN! 🚨

oh-look-a-shiny | oh-look-a-shiny

Leave now, get a divorce, and call the National Domestic Violence Hotline 🚨

SkullBearer5 | SkullBearer5

Get out now. He's a controlling abuser. 🚩

fraggletart | fraggletart

IT professional offers to help OP restore and secure social media accounts and set up a separate email and number for job search. Others express concern about the husband's ability to pose as OP and urge her to get out of the abusive relationship. 🙏

perfumeandsmoke | perfumeandsmoke

NTA gets support but faces pessimistic reply

agirlwithnames | agirlwithnames

Commenter sympathizes with wife and calls out abusive behavior 🔥

yoloxolo | yoloxolo

🚨Protect yourself!🚨 NTA, get a lawyer and leave ASAP!

Bell-Cautious | Bell-Cautious

Red flags in controlling behavior. Counseling may not be safe.

EwokCafe | EwokCafe

Spouse canceling job interview? Red flag. 🚩 NTA, stand up.

Mindless_Anywhere_74 | Mindless_Anywhere_74

👏NTA, leave him and find a support system.👏

citizensfund82 | citizensfund82

🚩 NTA: Husband's control tactics cancel wife's interview.

Tkote420 | Tkote420

Supporting disabled spouses and their abilities 🙌 #NTA

Internal_Setting_738 | Internal_Setting_738

Warning signs of abuse, make a safety plan and leave 🚩

ActualChildTherapist | ActualChildTherapist

Control freak husband cancels wife's job interview and social media. NTA.

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Husband's behavior is abusive and controlling. Hard NTA.

A-Purple-Lagoon | A-Purple-Lagoon

Escape from controlling relationship. 🚪 Contact company for reschedule.

Poekienijn | Poekienijn

Leave now! 🚩 NTA comment advises woman in toxic relationship.

stitch1989x | stitch1989x

This commenter expresses concern for OP's wellbeing and highlights the various forms of abuse exhibited by her husband 👀

peppermintabby | peppermintabby

Get out while you can! 🏃‍♀️💨 NTA

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Partner cancels wife's job interview and wants a maid instead. 😠

lachuladechihuahua | lachuladechihuahua

Trust issues in relationship go beyond job and housework. 🚩

BKatt98 | BKatt98

Get out of this unhealthy relationship and find a supportive job 🙌

busylizzie65 | busylizzie65

Spouse's controlling behavior is a red flag 🚩 Seek help.

cara1888 | cara1888

Leave him and live your life! 👏

Barn_Brat | Barn_Brat

Supportive commenters suggest leaving abusive husband. 🙏

unusualteapot | unusualteapot

Red flags raised in support of woman cancelling job interview 🚩

daliusdb | daliusdb

Take control of your job search and career with WFH jobs 💼

[deleted] | [deleted]

Self-care first! NTA for recognizing the abuse and standing up.

CountessMina13 | CountessMina13

👏 Taking control or being controlling? The fine line. 👀

HarlesBronson | HarlesBronson

Empowerment is key 🔑. Leave him and take control. NTA.

AppalachianEnvy | AppalachianEnvy

Escape the toxicity, 💪 you deserve better than job sabotage.

Lindseyh911 | Lindseyh911

🚩 Beware of control issues! NTA but major red flag.

holden204 | holden204

Stand up for yourself, NTA. Try rescheduling the interview 👍

My-Username-Is-Dis | My-Username-Is-Dis

Take control of your career 💪 Don't let anyone hold you back

pnutbuttercups56 | pnutbuttercups56

Wife's husband cancels her job interview, gaslights her. NTA.

BKStephens | BKStephens

Escape the control! NTA, your husband's behavior is alarming! 🚨

Bubbyscranky | Bubbyscranky

Seek help in r/relationships and relationship abuse subs ❤️

RainbowDMacGyver | RainbowDMacGyver

🚨 Red flags alert! Husband's control and anger are concerning. Stay safe. 🚨

gaydaryl | gaydaryl

Serious concern for spouse's safety. Urgent action needed 🚨

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Red flag alert! 🚩 Get out of that toxic relationship ASAP.

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WFH job, not a move to a new country. NTA 👍

Darkrai_35 | Darkrai_35

Standing up for yourself can be tough, but necessary. 💪

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🚫 Controlling husband sabotages wife's job interview and social media 🤐

maymay3791 | maymay3791

🚫👨‍🦯Controlling spouse sabotages wife's job interview. NTA.

KnightsSkye | KnightsSkye

Commenter suggests standing up for oneself in controlling relationship 👊

Few-Entrepreneur383 | Few-Entrepreneur383

Canceling someone's job interview is not petty. NTA.

stannenb | stannenb

Recognizing coercive abuse and control in relationships. 🚫

Otherwise_Nothing_53 | Otherwise_Nothing_53

Take control and yeet the husband into the sun! ☀️

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🚫 Controlling husband cancels wife's interview. NTA, run away!

PeakePip- | PeakePip-

Controlling behavior alert! NTA, husband needs to back off 😠

Black_Seven | Black_Seven

🙅‍♀️ Don't let anyone control your career and life. Save up! 💰

HoneyBadgerMarmalade | HoneyBadgerMarmalade

Recognize the red flags and prioritize your safety first ❤️

bophie21 | bophie21

Consider divorce. He's controlling, crossed a big line, and isolating you. 😞

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🚨 This is abuse. Cutting off independence and help. NTA. Run.

jetgirljen | jetgirljen

🙅‍♂️🚫 NTA, divorce seems like the best option here.

tipareth1978 | tipareth1978

Recognizing signs of abuse - seek help and safety 💔

MajPFRT | MajPFRT