Remembering the Days of Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman's Love

Chisom Ndianefo
Close-up shot of Tom Cruise
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Tom Cruise was unavoidably absent at the 95th annual Academy Awards which had stars in glitz and glamour as they flaunted their outfits on the red carpet before making it to the Dolby Theatre in Los Angeles.

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Why Was Tom Cruise Absent At The Awards?

However, Maverick actor and producer Tom Cruise's absence from the awards show reportedly had a lot to do with the attendance of his former spouse Nicole Kidman according to Daily Mail.

Nicole Kidman Graced The Event With Her Husband

Nicole Kidman, one of many famous people in attendance that evening, posed for photos outside the enormous Los Angeles stadium while holding hands with country singer Keith Urban, her second husband and the father of her two biological children.

Why Tom Cruise Was Expected At The Awards

One could be excused for expecting Tom Cruise would be present and correct for the acting community's greatest night of the year considering the roaring box office triumph Top Gun: Maverick's up for no fewer than six awards.

Why They Divorced

Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise
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Kidman's rejection to join Cruise in the Church of Scientology is said to be the reason for their divorce in 2001, and the actor is said to have skipped the Oscars when he learned she was invited.

Is It So Bad To Cross Path With Your Ex?

According to a source who spoke to DailyMail.com, Tom was not present because he did not want to cross paths with her.

Where, though, did everything go so terribly wrong?

They Had A Good One While It Lasted

Tom Cruise
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At least for a while, Cruise and Kidman seemed to be able to maintain the kind of marital longevity one associates with a very small number of Hollywood couples.

They Met On Set

During their encounter on the set of the 1990 cult racing thriller Days Of Thunder, Cruise and Kidman seemed to fit the same mold.

Cruise Had A Successful Career At The Time

Tom Cruise
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In the Tony Scott-directed movie, which was dubbed "Top Gun on wheels," Cruise, who was already a highly popular movie star with many Oscar nominations, played flamboyant racing car driver Cole Trickle, a kind of roadside Maverick.

The Start Of A Love Story

Nevertheless, once Cole begins a turbulent connection with Kidman's Dr. Claire Lewicki, which seemed to portend their off-screen relationship, life becomes more difficult.

Kidman Was New To The Field

Nicole Kidman
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At the time, Kidman was 23 years old and an unknown in Hollywood due to her Australian heritage. But everything changed when a real-life romance began between the actors as they were filming.

Cruise Was Married To Mimi Rogers

Mimi Rogers and Tom Cruise
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After a three-year marriage to actress Mimi Rogers, who has been a longtime Scientologist and is largely credited with introducing Cruise to the faith, the couple divorced later that year.

Cruise And Kidman Got Married In 1990

Cruise and Kidman would eventually get married on Christmas Eve 1990, just months after they first met, despite how ephemeral their relationship first appeared to be (on-set flings are rarely given much credibility).

They Opted For Adoption

Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman
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Despite not having biological children while they were married, they would eventually adopt two children: a son in 1995 and a daughter in 1992.

Kidman On Having Children Early

"I was so young when I got married. I look back now and I'm like, "What?"' Kidman told Red magazine in 2016. 'You look at Taylor Swift, I mean how old is she? She's 26."

Kidman added;

"I had two kids by the time I was 27 and I'd been married for four years. But that's what I wanted."

They Shared Undeniable On-Screen Chemistry

The fact that Cruise and Kidman appeared in two additional films together after their debut cooperation on Days Of Thunder is evidence of the couple's early intimacy.

In the 1992 epic Far and Away, they portrayed lovers with dubious Irish accents, while in Stanley Kubrick's 1999 thriller Eyes Wide Shut, the late director's final work, they portrayed a sexually active married couple.

Ending It All After 12 Years Of Marriage

Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman
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However, Cruise abandoned his wife in 2001 after 12 years of marriage, leaving the actress in "utter shock." The same year, he filed for divorce, citing "irreconcilable disagreements."

It Took A While For Nicole To Heal

Kidman spoke candidly about her traumatic divorce from Cruise in an interview with DuJour magazine the following year. Nicole revealed to the outlet how she thought her marriage with Tom was perfect and how it took a long time to heal.

'We were in a bubble, just the two of us. We became very dependent on one another. I was reeling with Tom,' she told the outlet. 'I would have gone to the ends of the earth for him.... I was totally smitten - I fell madly, passionately in love.'

Kidman Hasn't Spoken To Her Adopted Kids In Years

Nicole kidman
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Over ten years have passed since the last interaction between the ex-couple. In fact, Kidman hasn't spoken to Isabella, 30, or Connor, 28, the two kids she adopted with Cruise, in years.

Like their father, Isabella and Connor are devout followers of The Church of Scientology. The church avoided Kidman and referred to her as an SP or Suppressive Person. She was separated from her family as a result.

Kidman's Take On Her Adopted Kids

Nicole Kidman
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Kidman finally spoke openly about her relationships with both children in a 2015 interview with Australia's Who magazine.

"They are adults. They are able to make their own decisions,' Kidman said, adding 'They have made choices to be Scientologists and as a mother, it's my job to love them."

Cruise, on the other hand, wed actress Katie Holmes in 2006. His connections to Scientology are blamed for their divorce, which occurred in 2012. Suri, the 16-year-old daughter of the couple, is allegedly estranged from her father.