Identical twins always have a certain level of competition between them, but what happens when one twin expects the other to change their appearance for their wedding? In this AITA post, a twin shares their story of how their sister demanded they let themselves go to avoid upstaging her on her big day. The twin refused, causing a family feud. Was the twin in the wrong for not complying with their sister's request or was the sister being unreasonable? Read on to find out more about this family drama and decide who the real a**hole is in this situation.
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Twin sister accuses me of upstaging her at her wedding 😡
After a traumatic accident, I focused on my health, gained muscle mass, and embraced my natural look. However, my twin sister, who hadn't seen me during quarantine, was furious with my appearance at her wedding. She accused me of trying to upstage her and made snide remarks before throwing a drunk temper tantrum. Our family is on my side, but her friends and in-laws are giving me a hard time. AITA? Read on for the reactions and comments.
Redditors sympathize with the commenter and criticize the bride's behavior 💍
withOneStar | withOneStar
Bridezilla doesn't invite her own sisters to rehearsal dinner, NTA 🤷♀️
Careful-Bumblebee-10 | Careful-Bumblebee-10
Bridezilla demands bridesmaid changes, sister refuses. NTA
marmaladestripes725 | marmaladestripes725
Overcoming a traumatic experience and being proud of it, NTA 🙌
Something_or-Other | Something_or-Other
Stand up for yourself and embrace your beauty! 👏💪
ele71ua | ele71ua
Don't let anyone dull your sparkle, even at a wedding! ✨
VarnishedTruths | VarnishedTruths
Don't let anyone dim your sparkle, NTA! 💅✨
RestInPeaceLater | RestInPeaceLater
Sister demands ugly bridesmaids? NTA for looking beautiful. 🙄
bellePunk | bellePunk
In this section, commenters agree that everyone sucks (ESH) in this situation. The drunk bride was out of line, but OP should have recognized this was not the time to make snide comments.
Ritehandwingman | Ritehandwingman
Sister's entitled behavior worsened after an accident, NTA 👀
Party_Teacher6901 | Party_Teacher6901
Supportive comment slams rude sister at wedding, 💪👏
Organic_Extension750 | Organic_Extension750
Engaging discussion on whether OP is the a**hole or not 🤔
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Self care shamed at a wedding? NTA! 🙅♀️
TheLastSollivaering | TheLastSollivaering
Commenter finds twin sister's wedding situation hilarious 😂
GoldenTea999 | GoldenTea999
Sister insulted OP's look, but OP shouldn't have been mean. ESH 😬
mr_lemonpie | mr_lemonpie
Sassy commenter tells OP to stand up for herself 💁♀️💪
lapsteelguitar | lapsteelguitar
Beauty standards at weddings? NTA takes a stand! ✊
ChocolatePotatoFudge | ChocolatePotatoFudge
Shallow twin sister gets what she deserves, NTA 🙌
LoveBeach8 | LoveBeach8
Commenter called out for obvious post, YTA confirmed 🙄
poodlebutt76 | poodlebutt76
Bridesmaid calls out bride's insult over wedding look 👀
WaDaEp | WaDaEp
Don't sink to their level 🙅♂️👀
Goofius | Goofius
Body-shaming at a wedding? ESH, but this comment hits hard 💥
Indigoh | Indigoh
Commenter compliments OP's self-confidence and beauty, 🙌
rol5388 | rol5388
Commenter accuses OP of seeking validation, YTA verdict challenged.
FatedTitan | FatedTitan
Positive self-growth for the win! 🌟 NTA
VanMan32 | VanMan32
Commenter questions purpose of obvious moral story, ESH.
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Boosting self-confidence without putting others down, NTA 👏
HourlyAlbert | HourlyAlbert
Supporting your twin is important ❤️
theiconacuna_ | theiconacuna_
Commenter defends their appearance at twin sister's wedding. 👏
IllustriousPomelo152 | IllustriousPomelo152
Sister's wedding day, not the time to show off gains 💪
nonuniqueusername | nonuniqueusername
Is the comment calling the story fake? 🤔
WexiWexi | WexiWexi
Commenter calls out OP's biased retelling of wedding drama 💥
HomeGrownCoffee | HomeGrownCoffee
Body-shaming at weddings is not okay! Stand up for yourself 💪
TheeQuestionWitch | TheeQuestionWitch
Sibling Rivalry Over Physical Appearance, AITA? 😓
darthymacdougall | darthymacdougall
Sister's wedding revenge? NTA for looking attractive. 😎
CupcakeTootsie | CupcakeTootsie
Sarcasm and shade: Adding rhinestones to a scar. ✨
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Breaking free from toxic family expectations. NTA 🙌
JonesinforJonesey | JonesinforJonesey
Verdict or grammar - which is worse? 🤔
IdrisandJasonsToy | IdrisandJasonsToy
Stay out of it 👍
GrassTerrible5262 | GrassTerrible5262
Sister's wedding turns into a nightmare, ESH 🤷♀️
m_ttl_ng | m_ttl_ng
Wedding drama with a bridezilla 👰🏼💄
nathashanails | nathashanails
Confused sister expects me to hide my scars, AITA? 🤔
IHeartChickenFingers | IHeartChickenFingers
Twin sisters grow apart, but OP is NTA 👍
Shruggles8 | Shruggles8
Living your best life in quarantine, NTA 🙌
Myhairyleftfoot | Myhairyleftfoot
Bridezilla's assumptions about workouts - NTA has the last laugh 😂
nolechica | nolechica
Wedding day drama leads to ESH judgment, bite your tongue 😬
bagelmanb | bagelmanb
Wedding drama ensues, both parties share blame. 😕
MostlyPretentious | MostlyPretentious
Commenter criticizes lack of diversity in subreddit's opinions 🤔
Inevitable-Ad6647 | Inevitable-Ad6647
