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The woman in this story describes her disappointment with her boyfriend's homemade cake for her birthday after he said he couldn't afford a nicer one. She had suggested they go to a more expensive restaurant, but he said they couldn't afford it and they ended up eating at home.
While the meal was good, the cake was not what she had hoped for. Her boyfriend's daughter had helped make the cake and he now says that the woman upset his daughter when she expressed her disappointment. The woman is now asking Reddit if she is the a**hole for not appreciating the effort put into the cake.
Read on for the comments and reactions to this family conflict.
OP complains about homemade cake, called out for being materialistic 🎂
EveningJellyfish1 | EveningJellyfish1
Commenter calls out entitlement and suggests finding a new bank account 💰
latefordinner__ | latefordinner__
Entitled 33-year-old rejects nice homemade cake for lavish expectations. YTA.
cillianellis | cillianellis
Commenter calls out woman for being a gold digger 🎵
ImpressiveCollar5811 | ImpressiveCollar5811
OP criticized homemade cake, called YTA, gets roasted.
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Effort and time are valuable currencies too! YTA 😒
JanusIsBlue | JanusIsBlue
Birthday cake disappointment sparks YTA judgment and entitlement accusation.
pathto250s | pathto250s
Birthday cake disappointment leads to harsh judgment and loneliness.
SleazeballGang | SleazeballGang
Debate over boyfriend's birthday cake choice sparks controversy 🎂🤔
JudgeJudAITA | JudgeJudAITA
Demanding and unappreciative girlfriend insults boyfriend's heartfelt efforts. YTA 😒
plscallmeRain | plscallmeRain
Commenter calls out birthday girl's materialism, others agree 💰🎂
Lovegivingadvice | Lovegivingadvice
Debate over birthday cake for spoiled woman continues 🎂🤔
Different-Bug6250 | Different-Bug6250
Commenter calls out entitled behavior towards partner's income 💰
A_Marie92 | A_Marie92
Commenter accuses OP of being materialistic and ungrateful 💰
ButteryBisquit | ButteryBisquit
Woman criticized for wanting expensive cake, YTA replies with backlash
fatalisticshrug | fatalisticshrug
Why is the commenter being called an a**hole? 🤔
Thia-M3762 | Thia-M3762
Ungrateful birthday person receives a homemade cake and complains 😒
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Commenter calls out entitled attitude, suggests showing gratitude 🙏
askingforafriendzone | askingforafriendzone
Ungrateful behavior towards homemade cake. YTA. 🤔
MrsMalch | MrsMalch
Commenter calls out gold digger, gets support from reply
bzsbal | bzsbal
User calls out birthday woman for being ungrateful 🎂
tinytyranttamer | tinytyranttamer
Be thankful for the thought 💭🎂 Money is tight sometimes.
unjessicabiel_evable | unjessicabiel_evable
Commenter calls out YTA in a humorous way 😂
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Harsh judgment on OP's character for cake complaint 💔
toddwhit81 | toddwhit81
Commenter calls out entitled behavior for free cake. YTA 🍰
MountainTomato9292 | MountainTomato9292
Appreciate the effort, YTA for not being grateful 🍰😕
Regular_Giraffe7022 | Regular_Giraffe7022
Expecting a lavish birthday surprise from broke partner? YTA 🎂💔
fakemonalisa | fakemonalisa
Homemade cake symbolizes love and care, apologize and appreciate it. YTA ❤
violetrosesnyc | violetrosesnyc
Appreciate the effort, not the cost 🎂💕
bitchy_badger | bitchy_badger
Commenter shuts down accusations of being a gold digger 💰
SpiderIridescence | SpiderIridescence
Stop lamenting and be grateful for homemade cake 🎂💕
snarkprovider | snarkprovider
Ungrateful partner insults homemade cake, gets called out (YTA) 😒
BDSM_Queen_ | BDSM_Queen_
Woman prioritizes fancy cake over handmade one, called out YTA 👀
haveitgood | haveitgood
Unhappy birthday girl called out for being ungrateful 🎂👎
misbrehave | misbrehave
Birthday cake disappointment leads to financial misunderstanding. YTA.
ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586
Ungrateful OP called YTA for being selfish about cake 🎂
lambchop614 | lambchop614
Partner transparent about finances, YTA for being ungrateful 🙄🎂
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Personal homemade cake is better than an expensive store-bought one 🎂❤️
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Managing expectations in relationships is key. 🎂
the-Lady-Lazarus | the-Lady-Lazarus
Entitled woman berates partner for not buying expensive cake 🎂
Allaboutbird | Allaboutbird
Birthday cake disagreement leads to financial tension. YTA.
throwawaywedding444 | throwawaywedding444
Commenter calls out OP for being a gold-digger. YTA 🤔
squirrels33 | squirrels33
Homemade cake as a birthday gift? YTA according to commenter.
LaPipistrella | LaPipistrella
Don't be a cake snob 😒 Appreciate the effort 🎂
DumbAceGirl | DumbAceGirl
Homemade with love, but not appreciated. YTA needs apology. 😕
Cokeycane | Cokeycane
Birthday disappointment sparks harsh judgment from commenters. YTA.
GingerliciousMJ | GingerliciousMJ
Choosing beggar ungrateful for heartfelt homemade cake 🎂
Embarrassed_Ad4000 | Embarrassed_Ad4000
OP values gift based on cost, not effort. YTA.
Marlequinn | Marlequinn
Birthday budgeting. YTA for being ungrateful about his efforts 🎂
BooksAreLuv | BooksAreLuv
Birthday entitlement at its finest 🎂😒
odietamo90 | odietamo90
Why expectations can lead to disappointment 😔
CPhyperdont | CPhyperdont
Gratefulness over entitlement. 🎂
musical_spork | musical_spork
Homemade cake not enough? YTA, don't guilt trip.
albusseveruspotty | albusseveruspotty
Commenter calls out selfish behavior in relationship 🤔
ArtPresence | ArtPresence
Doubting the authenticity 🤔
dweebled | dweebled
Gratitude is key 🙏 Learn to appreciate small gestures
LollipopThrowAway- | LollipopThrowAway-
