Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy tale of family drama, financial woes, and a whole lot of tension. 😬 When a couple's generous loan to the mother-in-law turns into a battle over property ownership, things get heated real quick! 🔥 Will our protagonist stand her ground and protect her interests, or will guilt and pressure from her hubby force her to give in? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊♀️
Wife's Name on Deed After Helping Buy MIL's House - Now MIL Wants Her OFF! 😲
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🏠 A Helping Hand Gone Wrong? 😱
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💰 Sacrificing Our Dreams for Family 🙏
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🤔 A Tough Decision with Consequences 😓
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🚨 Trouble Brewing: Removing My Name? 😠
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🙅♀️ Standing My Ground Against Pressure 💪
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😡 Anger and Accusations: Protecting Our Interests 🛡️
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😔 Guilt vs. Fairness: Am I Wrong? 🤷♀️
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📝 Update: Securing the Evidence 🔒
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💑 Communicating and Finding Common Ground 🗣️
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🙅♀️ MIL Backs Off, Name Remains 🙌
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❤️ Staying Together, No Divorce 💍
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🚪 BIL Moving Out: A Silver Lining? 🌤️
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🏡 BIL's New Job and Moving Plans 📦
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🌉 Progress Made, But More to Come 🚶♀️
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🙏 Gratitude for the Support 💖
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🚨 Family Loan Gone Wrong: Will She Stand Her Ground? 💪😤
Well, well, well... looks like our girl is in quite the pickle! 🥒 After graciously lending a whopping 90k to her mother-in-law for a new home 🏠, she's now facing pressure from her hubby to remove her name from the property docs. 📜🔍 But wait, there's a twist! MIL hasn't paid back a single penny! 💸🚫 Our heroine is standing firm, refusing to budge until the debt is settled. 💪 Her man's not happy, though, accusing her of being paranoid. 😡 Yikes! 😬 But is she really the a-hole for protecting their interests? 🤔 The internet's got some thoughts on this one, and they're not holding back! 🗣️💬 Let's see what kind of spicy takes they've got in store for us! 🌶️🔥
Don't take your name off until she pays you back 💰💸
meredithyourboob | meredithyourboob
Lesson learned: Never remove your name from a deed 😒 NTA
ajbshade | ajbshade
Stand your ground! MIL is trying to manipulate her son. 💪
Melanie-Littleman | Melanie-Littleman
Fight for your rights! Don't let MIL bully you 💪
saltycybele | saltycybele
Suggests a non-controversial solution to protect property rights. 🤔
Eileen__Left | Eileen__Left
Don't mix family and business! MIL and husband are wrong. 🙅
blisters10 | blisters10
Keep your name on the deed until repaid 💰💪
noccie | noccie
Always make a contract when loaning money 💰 Good advice!
Maedean | Maedean
Don't let them do you dirty! Stand your ground 💪
Iaim2msbehave | Iaim2msbehave
NTA suggests fair solution, MIL and co. buy off deed 💰
WoahBusdy | WoahBusdy
Don't give in! MIL owes you. Stand your ground. 💪
gronk123456789101112 | gronk123456789101112
Fairness questioned: Wife's name on deed, now MIL wants her off 🤔
jerebun | jerebun
Don't let MIL cheat you out of your savings. Stay firm. 🚨
woodwitchofthewest | woodwitchofthewest
Propose a legally binding agreement for loan repayment and removal.
lolitalene | lolitalene
Defending the wife's right to be on the deed 💪
saveyboy | saveyboy
🤔 Is husband planning for a divorce? Comment has no replies.
UchihaSakurachan | UchihaSakurachan
Keep your name on the deed and protect yourself. NTA 👍
msmysty | msmysty
Keep your name on the documents for reassurance 👍
thatcuriousbichick | thatcuriousbichick
Fair deal? Comment suggests removing all names from deed. 😍
dinismum | dinismum
Protect your rights! Don't let MIL con you out 🚨
bebenenenn | bebenenenn
Don't let your husband cheat you out of $100k! 😡
TurbulentJudge1000 | TurbulentJudge1000
🚩 Sell all these red flags from husband and MIL's behavior
munificent | munificent
Stand your ground! 💪 Your name stays until debt's paid.
A_Brit_Abroad | A_Brit_Abroad
NTA, but family is sketchy. Consider talking to a lawyer 👨🏻💻💁🏼
liquefaction187 | liquefaction187
Insist on keeping your name on the documents and document everything 👍
retiredhousewife1970 | retiredhousewife1970
Con artists! Get a lawyer and force a sale 💸💪👨👩👦
EvieJC | EvieJC
Verbal agreements and family don't mix 🙄 ESH for a bad idea.
slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad
Protect your investment 💰 and don't remove your name from the deed. 💪
thehehegirl | thehehegirl
Keeping your name on legal documents when lending money 💰
KingJacoPax | KingJacoPax
Secure your investment - file a lien before removing name 👍
Dazzling_Window9981 | Dazzling_Window9981
Protect yourself legally. Gaslighting and lawyers aren't normal. NTA.
Dot81 | Dot81
NTA advises against lending money in such situations 😞
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MIL wants wife off deed but sons can stay? NTA.
grandmawaffles | grandmawaffles
Wife not the a**hole for wanting repayment contract. 👍
PrestachioTree | PrestachioTree
Don't budge, stand your ground 💪 MIL owes you money
Emmj92 | Emmj92
Protecting your interests, but MIL's strange behavior raises concerns 🤔
Powerful-Spot8764 | Powerful-Spot8764
Insist on legal document for buyout if MIL wants you off 📝
The_Last_Sunflower | The_Last_Sunflower
Woman shares similar experience with MIL wanting her off deed 🙄
Spookydel | Spookydel
Don't remove your name from the deed! You're NTA, but husband is. His mom is shady and suspicious. 😲
ThinkH2o | ThinkH2o
Protect your assets with written agreements and don't back down.
Laureliina | Laureliina
Protect your investment, keep your name on that deed! 💰
mspentyoot | mspentyoot
Get a lawyer, don't remove your name, record conversations 👨💻📱
Deep_Marsupial_1277 | Deep_Marsupial_1277
Stand your ground, don't let them push you out 💪
Tasty-Biscotti355 | Tasty-Biscotti355
Defend your spot! 🛡️ MIL's intentions seem sketchy. NTA.
yesimlaura | yesimlaura
Suggests honest conversation to resolve issue, advises calmness. 🙌
Palene | Palene
Don't back down! 💪 Demand your half of the money back! 💰
Neppetaa | Neppetaa
Definitely NTA. Don't let MIL take advantage of you! 🙌
Ardara | Ardara
Removing name from deed after lending money. NTA wins.
Tokoloshe55 | Tokoloshe55
Verbal agreement caused trouble, keep name for security. NTA 👍
smallorderof_fries | smallorderof_fries
Family betrayal is real 😔 Trust no one, get everything in writing.
Myabyssalwhip | Myabyssalwhip
Protect your assets and stand up for yourself! 💪💪
mysticalmac99 | mysticalmac99
Don't remove your name from the deed. Document everything 👍
rainbow_mak3r | rainbow_mak3r
Partner's motive for removing name from deed questioned. 🤔
Boredmelbthrowaway | Boredmelbthrowaway
NTA, but MIL will never pay you back 💸
BonaFideBill | BonaFideBill
Husband's loyalty is questionable, NTA for asking money back 👍
silence_infidel | silence_infidel
Assertive response to MIL's demand for removing wife's name. 💪
bopperbopper | bopperbopper
"NTA - MIL is trying to cheat you out of 90K 😠"
atxcats | atxcats
Protect yourself and seek legal advice without your husband's knowledge 🙌
bobbytoni | bobbytoni
Stand your ground and protect yourself, don't get cheated. 🙌
GaGypsyGirl | GaGypsyGirl
Partner's mother demands wife be removed from house deed 😑
rayjaymor85 | rayjaymor85
Husband wants wife off deed but MIL's name and brother's stay? 🤔
arisomething | arisomething
Fair trade proposal for MIL's house ownership. NTA 👌
MyDemonsLead | MyDemonsLead
Protect your assets, it might be a red flag 🚨
kiwigeekmum | kiwigeekmum
Suggest selling your part of the property for a clean break 👍🏻
OptimalPost2 | OptimalPost2
Don't let MIL bully you into gifting her $90k. 😡
w3woody | w3woody
Payment program needed to avoid MIL's attempt to cheat wife 😒
forestpunk | forestpunk
NTA. Don't remove your name until you're paid back. 👍
yajanga | yajanga
Don't let her take advantage of you. Protect your investment! 💰
kikivee612 | kikivee612
Empathetic NTA comment prompts thought-provoking question for OP
ISO200_f16 | ISO200_f16
Stand your ground and negotiate a repayment plan 💪🏽♀️
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Don't let her steal $90,000 from you! Draw up a repayment agreement. 💰
Ruckus_Riot | Ruckus_Riot
NTA, but don't expect to get paid back 😞
lovebeinganasshole | lovebeinganasshole
Keep your share of the property and move on. 👍
Burney1 | Burney1
Don't be played for a fool 🙉, hold your ground 💪
lionne6 | lionne6
🚨 Red flag alert! 🚨 Legal expert advises OP to prepare for divorce.
MrsGildebeast | MrsGildebeast
Suggest drawing up papers and offering low interest rate 💰
MotherofCrowlings | MotherofCrowlings
You're in the clear! MIL took your money, you're NTA 👍
FatherKnowledge | FatherKnowledge
Red flags in the husband's behavior, seek legal advice ASAP 🚨
Smoergaard | Smoergaard
Family borrowing money often doesn't end well, sad but true. 😢
joogiee | joogiee
Don't sign anything until you get every penny back! 💰 NTA
jillyjillz42 | jillyjillz42
Stand your ground and don't let them erase your contribution 💪
rooks-and-queens | rooks-and-queens
