GF Boasts About Being His 'Sugar Momma'... So He Stops Paying Entirely! 😮💸

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Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy tale of love, money, and a whole lot of drama! 😱💸 Meet our main characters: OP, a 29-year-old landscape design company owner, and Maddie, his 30-year-old anesthesiologist girlfriend. 👩‍⚕️👨‍🌾 They've been together for 3 years, living the dream... or so it seems! 🏡💑 But beneath the surface, trouble is brewing. 🌋 Maddie has been painting OP as her 'trophy boyfriend' 🏆, implying that she's the one supporting their lavish lifestyle. 💁‍♀️💰 OP is fed up with this narrative and decides to take matters into his own hands. 😤 Get ready for a wild ride filled with family gatherings, vacation vexations, and a restaurant showdown that'll leave you speechless! 😱🍽️ Can this couple navigate the murky waters of money and pride? 🤔💸 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊‍♂️

🚨 Trouble in Paradise? 💔

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💰 Money Matters 💸

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🏡 50/50 Split... Or Is It? 🤔

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👪 Family Gathering Fiasco 😳

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🏆 Trophy Boyfriend Alert! 🚨

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💁‍♀️ Maddie's Mic Drop Moment 🎤

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🌴 Vacation Vexation 😒

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😡 OP's Uncomfortable Confrontation 😤

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🏠 New Place, New Problems 😕

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🙏 Maddie's Gratitude... Or Condescension? 🤨

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Parental Concern 😟

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🏦 Down Payment Drama 💸

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🤷‍♀️ Maddie's Dismissive Attitude 😒

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🙅‍♂️ OP's Revenge Plan 😈

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🍽️ Dinner Dilemma 🍝

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⛽ Gas Station Gotcha 😏

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🍽️ Restaurant Showdown 🥊

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🏆 Trophy Boyfriend Strikes Back! 😎

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😶 Maddie's Muted Response 🤐

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🤷‍♂️ OP's Ultimatum 😤

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🚨 Trophy Boyfriend Strikes Back! 🏆💥

Well, well, well... looks like OP has had enough of Maddie's 'trophy boyfriend' talk! 😤 After months of Maddie implying that she's the one supporting their lifestyle 💸, OP decides to give her a taste of her own medicine. 💊 He stops paying for EVERYTHING 🙅‍♂️💸, from date nights to groceries, leaving Maddie to foot the bill. 💸👠 The tension reaches a boiling point at a family dinner 🍽️😬, where OP hands the check to Maddie, declaring himself the 'trophy boyfriend' who doesn't pay. 🏆💁‍♂️ Maddie is left stunned 😶, and OP lays down the ultimatum: either she sets the record straight 📣, or she keeps paying. 💸 Talk about a power move! 💪😎 The internet is buzzing with opinions on this one. 🐝💬 Is OP an a-hole for turning the tables on Maddie? 🤔 Or is Maddie getting a well-deserved reality check? 💥 One thing's for sure, this couple has some serious money matters to sort out! 💸😅 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! 🍿👀

OP gets revenge on his 'sugar momma' girlfriend, but communication is key 👍

Lady-Radziwill | Lady-Radziwill

Communication is key in a relationship 📴👨‍👩‍👦. Don't let pettiness ruin it 👍

Palindromer101 | Palindromer101

NTA shuts down GF's humblebragging about being breadwinner 🙌

nailgun198 | nailgun198

Person points out OP's flawed behavior in sugar mommy dynamic.

fzooey78 | fzooey78

Defending the girlfriend's support, accusing insecurity from OP.

Stlhockeygrl | Stlhockeygrl

YTA stopped contributing after GF treated him to vacation 🙄

brownsugahoneyicetea | brownsugahoneyicetea

GF's boyfriend insecure about being called 'sugar baby' and stops paying

LlovelyLlama | LlovelyLlama

When solid money is not really solid money... 💸

Elegant_Presence_397 | Elegant_Presence_397

Both need to mature, keep finances private, and communicate better. 🚨

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User suggests better communication and mutual respect in relationship.

rhaizee | rhaizee

Defending GF's actions, but misunderstanding OP's concern 🤔

Dry_Ad8712 | Dry_Ad8712

👏 Taking a stand against being portrayed as a 'sugar baby'.

shaney1968 | shaney1968

NTA: Commenter defends boyfriend for stopping being 'sugar baby'

MarshmelonWitch | MarshmelonWitch

Don't be passive aggressive. Communicate with your partner properly. 🤷‍♂️

UsefulCauliflower3 | UsefulCauliflower3

Misconceptions about income equality lead to relationship issues 🤔

Ilikecosysocks | Ilikecosysocks

Malicious compliance wins the day in sugar momma relationship.

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INFO: If you only wanted a free ride, ESH. Sell the house and break up. 👍

HoneyMCMLXXIII | HoneyMCMLXXIII

Unhappy man receives YTA judgment for fragile ego accusation.

ccdayyy | ccdayyy

An ironic YTA comment, suggesting that the boyfriend should appreciate his 'sugar momma' girlfriend.

elmtree18 | elmtree18

Partner stops paying for vacations after sugar momma boasts. ESH.

mekareami | mekareami

Man stops paying despite GF paying for most things. YTA 🤷‍♂️

prisonerofazkabants | prisonerofazkabants

Harsh judgment on OP's behavior, YTA. Hope he matures. 😕

OsterGuard | OsterGuard

GF supports him, he retaliates like a child. Apologize, YTA 🙅

yangmearo | yangmearo

Petty revenge in immature relationship. Lack of communication & respect.

No-Violinist-4035 | No-Violinist-4035

Being passive-aggressive for 4 months isn't a solution! 🤔

perhapsavampire | perhapsavampire

Honesty is the best policy, not passive-aggressiveness. 🙌

Agitated_Net3736 | Agitated_Net3736

OP is called out for petty behavior and insecurity. YTA 🤷‍♂️

rosecityrose0618 | rosecityrose0618

Communicate directly and don't be passive-aggressive. Don't shame her.

grow_time | grow_time

Is Maddie just using you for her own image? 🤔

Sleeping_Lizard | Sleeping_Lizard

A couple's financial dispute - ESH. He stops paying bills.

gratefulnothateful11 | gratefulnothateful11

Communication is key! Sit down, talk it out 💬

An_Anonymous_Acc | An_Anonymous_Acc

Confused commenter wonders why OP stopped doing house work and cooking. Pettiness wins.

motherdallas | motherdallas

Communication is key in relationships. Don't let money ruin it. 👍

pookguyinc | pookguyinc

OP is called out for being an a**hole and advised to get therapy.

hurelise | hurelise

Immaturity leads to financial issues. ESH, doomed relationship.

RedHeaded_Scientist | RedHeaded_Scientist

Malicious compliance at its finest, play stupid games win stupid prizes 👏

NuttyDounuts14 | NuttyDounuts14

NTA for stopping payments, but communication is key. 👍

Emmiburr | Emmiburr

Dismissive GF turned Sugar Momma, OP called out for pettiness. 🤷‍♂️

creciabeauty | creciabeauty

Supportive comment advises communication to resolve money and relationship issues.

Sisu_dreams | Sisu_dreams

Both parties need to work on communication and respect. 🙏

heycomeoverhere | heycomeoverhere

Third party defends Maddie's comments, questions OP's interpretation.

Imnotawerewolf | Imnotawerewolf

Productive conflict resolution is key for a healthy relationship 👍

CalorieCarl | CalorieCarl

Don't let your ego bruise get in the way, YTA!

OkMarionberry6677 | OkMarionberry6677

Unpaid bills, no cooking or chores, YTA for not contributing.

Karenina2931 | Karenina2931

YTA for being uncomfortable with your girlfriend being the breadwinner 👎

pandapawprints | pandapawprints

Addressing the issue requires conversation, not petulant behavior. ESH 🚫

geniusscientist | geniusscientist

Passive-aggressive revenge is not the answer. ESH 🙄

Superman530 | Superman530

Redditor calls out OP for being financially dependent on GF.

herculepoirot4ever | herculepoirot4ever

Communication is key! Be direct with your partner 👍

katyazamooo | katyazamooo

Passive/aggressive approach to girlfriend's boastful behavior.

Texascoastalsunshine | Texascoastalsunshine

User calls out OP for being uncomfortable with girlfriend's success.

go_with_the_floww | go_with_the_floww

OP gets called out for being a spoiled brat 😒

xEnraptureX | xEnraptureX

ESH reacts poorly to GF's embellishments about being sugar momma.

sawdeanz | sawdeanz

You're insecure. Grow up. 🙌

Vas-yMonRoux | Vas-yMonRoux

Don't be passive aggressive with your girlfriend. Communicate your feelings! 👍

yavanna12 | yavanna12

User calls out OP for not appreciating his 'sugar momma'

PrettyShore28 | PrettyShore28

This wife knows how to shut down her husband's bragging 👏

shewhomustbeavoided | shewhomustbeavoided

User calls out OP's insecurities and lack of financial contribution. 😬

Accustone_goope | Accustone_goope

Communication and breadwinner issues escalate to non-communicative conflict. ESH.

thesnugglr | thesnugglr

OP's girlfriend pays for most expenses, but he stops paying. YTA.

christopherjenk | christopherjenk

Both sides have valid points, communication is key 👍

azzipmyzip | azzipmyzip

Trophy boyfriend not acting like a prize. Dumping imminent 📈

ABouquetOfCelery | ABouquetOfCelery

Relationship advice: Communication and teamwork is key for couples! ❤️

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Poor communication led to petty revenge and possible relationship damage. 🤷🏼‍♀️💔

G_Art33 | G_Art33

User calls out OP for immature behavior and financial abuse 🤨

tigerCELL | tigerCELL

Communication is key, passive-aggressive games breed resentment. ESH.

ScreamyPeanut | ScreamyPeanut

Relationship doomed after 4 months due to money issues. 💔

iolight | iolight

Man-child gets called out for bragging about being a 'trophy boyfriend' 🙄

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