🍿 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of a sperm donor dad caught in a college tuition tug-of-war. 💸 Our protagonist, a 40-year-old family man, once did a solid for some friends by donating his swimmers. 🏊♂️ Fast forward 18 years, and surprise! The bill for his biological son's education lands in his lap. 😱 Is he the a-hole for refusing to pay up? Let's dive in and find out! 🕵️♀️
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🎓 Sperm Donor Dad vs. College Costs: Who Pays? 💸
Well, well, well... looks like our sperm donor dad is in quite the pickle! 🥒 After signing away his parental rights years ago, he's now facing a hefty college tuition bill for his biological son. 😬 Talk about a blast from the past! 💥 While he feels for the kid, he's standing his ground and refusing to pay. 🙅♂️ After all, he's got his own family to support. 👨👩👧👦 But the baby mama drama just won't quit, with persistent calls and texts trying to guilt-trip him into coughing up the cash. 📞 So, what does the internet have to say about this sticky situation? 🤔 Let's check out some of the top reactions and see where the chips fall! 🎰
NTA, but poor kid was guilt-tripped by his parents 😢
BwitchnBtyKwn399 | BwitchnBtyKwn399
No obligation to pay for surrogated son's college tuition 💸
CeridwynMatchen | CeridwynMatchen
Sperm donor not liable for child's tuition. NTA.
rabbitolo | rabbitolo
NTA. Signed away rights, not obligated to pay for schooling 💸
joanclaytonesq | joanclaytonesq
Legal paper says no rights, no responsibility. Mom has double responsibility. NTA
meap02 | meap02
Sperm donor not the a**hole for refusing tuition payment 🎓
forevertheyo | forevertheyo
NTA. You're just a sperm donor, not a bank 🤷♂️
TTIsurvivors | TTIsurvivors
No parental rights, no responsibility. NTA for refusing payment 💶
leenkathb | leenkathb
Don't let guilt trip you into paying for their choices 💰
danigirl866 | danigirl866
NTA. Not responsible for $50k tuition for a stranger's 'son' 💸
Sad-Ad-4384 | Sad-Ad-4384
Legal document makes kid someone else's responsibility. NTA.
ClairbleFun | ClairbleFun
Donor not obligated to pay child's $50K tuition.
SoCal_Southerner93 | SoCal_Southerner93
Not the a**hole for refusing to pay for non-biological son's tuition 👏
mygreyangel | mygreyangel
Donor not responsible for child's tuition, poor planning on parents.
Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet
Donor not responsible for $50k tuition. NTA. 👍
ThinEscape511 | ThinEscape511
Sperm donor asked to pay $50k tuition after signing away rights 🤯
Sea-Confection-2627 | Sea-Confection-2627
Signed away parental rights, no relationship or obligation here. #NTA
Worth_Brilliant8523 | Worth_Brilliant8523
NTA. Sperm donor's responsibility ends with donation. 👍
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NTA and doubtful about the turkey baster story 🤔
Rip_Dirtbag | Rip_Dirtbag
Signed away rights, not legally child, not obligated to pay 💸
Mishy162 | Mishy162
NTA sperm donor asked to pay $50K tuition, outrages readers.
AmberSnowSex | AmberSnowSex
Cut ties. They can pay for college. Get a lawyer.
Pand0raHaze | Pand0raHaze
Agreement broken: Sperm donor asked to pay son's tuition 🤔
DreamingofRlyeh | DreamingofRlyeh
Bio father not responsible for financial support after 18 years 👏
NooWayInHell | NooWayInHell
Sperm donor not responsible for 'son's' tuition. Family manipulative 👍
CADreamn | CADreamn
Déjà vu? Redditors recall a similar story of sperm donor woes.
Brilliant-Sundae-899 | Brilliant-Sundae-899
Donor-conceived child thanks sperm donor for meeting him ❤️
Much_Accountant4381 | Much_Accountant4381
Lesbian mother calls out the weirdness of asking a sperm donor for money 😱
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Donor's generosity taken for granted. NTA for refusing payment. 👍
Internal_Progress404 | Internal_Progress404
Clear contract, clear NTA. Donating sperm is risky business 💸
KarenMaca | KarenMaca
Adopted parent asking for kid's money? NTA wins!
mells3030 | mells3030
NTA calls out awkward cautionary tale for sperm donor.
TheVue221 | TheVue221
Not his kid, not his responsibility. Money issue predicted 💵
Maiidesuu | Maiidesuu
NTA stands their ground against manipulative 'son' and family 💪
Kab1212 | Kab1212
Sperm donor not obligated to pay for 'son's' tuition 💰
jenneybearbozo3 | jenneybearbozo3
NTA stands up to entitled parents demanding tuition payment. 👏
V1CTOR1OUS2020 | V1CTOR1OUS2020
Donor signed rights away, shouldn't pay $50K tuition. NTA!
Winter_Giraffe3577 | Winter_Giraffe3577
Sperm donor shuts down entitled family's request for tuition payment 👏
wayward_painter | wayward_painter
Signed rights away, not responsible for college tuition. 👍
Disaster-girl15 | Disaster-girl15
Lesson learned: Don't trust words, get it in writing 👍
intervallfaster | intervallfaster
NTA donor wants no contact after 18 years 👍
One_Engineer_8317 | One_Engineer_8317
Signed away rights, now expected to pay $50k? NTA 👏
emarvil | emarvil
18 years too late to ask for $50K tuition, NTA 👍
Gladtobealive2020 | Gladtobealive2020
Don't owe child's tuition, not the a-hole. Let parents decide 👍
sveji- | sveji-
Sperm donor not responsible for 'son's' tuition fees 💰🙅
PicassosPaws | PicassosPaws
Not his kid, not his problem. NTA stands firm. 👍
Appropriate_Speech33 | Appropriate_Speech33
Don't let guilt trip you. NTA for denying 'son's' tuition. 👍
[deleted] | [deleted]
Sperm donor might not be legally responsible for child support 💰
numtini | numtini
Signing away parental rights means not financially responsible. NTA 👏
MarketingArtistic925 | MarketingArtistic925
Sperm donor refuses to pay $50K tuition for 'son' 💰
Smokey_Katt | Smokey_Katt
Setting boundaries and seeking legal advice is a wise move. 🙌
cassowary32 | cassowary32
Don't fall for a guilt trip. You signed away rights. #NTA
DynkoFromTheNorth | DynkoFromTheNorth
Cut contact, NTA. They failed to secure money for education.
BradWTodd | BradWTodd
Choosing a sperm bank over friends can save you thousands 💰
No-Locksmith-8590 | No-Locksmith-8590
NTA defends against entitled parents seeking donor's money.
Own-Organization-532 | Own-Organization-532
Clear paperwork, not your son, NTA 👍
cookiequeen724 | cookiequeen724
Helpful advice on financial aid and tuition payment. 👍
GarlicButterGarnet | GarlicButterGarnet
NTA. A-holes asking for money 18 years later? GTFOH! 😠
BlanquitaNJ1 | BlanquitaNJ1
Two parents, two responsibilities. Entitled demand for college funds. #NTA
bizianka | bizianka
NTA but lucked out with legal father loophole 😱
syboor | syboor
Protect yourself legally and avoid contact with the other party.
mxrichar | mxrichar
Sperm donor not responsible for 'son's' tuition. Consult lawyer, avoid favors.
Chance-Contract-1290 | Chance-Contract-1290
Debating paternal responsibility and the definition of 'son' 🤔
twentytigers | twentytigers
Donating sperm doesn't make you financially responsible 💸👍
Sensitive_Coconut339 | Sensitive_Coconut339
Parental rights were relinquished, NTA. They can't have it both ways. 💯
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Sperm donor shuts down entitled ex's demand for tuition money 💸
Intelligent-Bat1724 | Intelligent-Bat1724
